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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm stuck in it

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great movie that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that"

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked your train fantasy thing in the stories.

How can I find that again?

It made my cock twitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snap "

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

"

i’d say yes, our days have become very repetitive over the past few years, we really should do something to get out of the groove.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

"

I do yes. I know one thing for sure though, I don’t intend to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I liked your train fantasy thing in the stories.

How can I find that again?

It made my cock twitch"

Oh

Minge twitch at the thought

I cant remember the story now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

i’d say yes, our days have become very repetitive over the past few years, we really should do something to get out of the groove."

Dont you feel like you're going to scream if the day repeats its self one more fucking time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liked your train fantasy thing in the stories.

How can I find that again?

It made my cock twitch

Oh

Minge twitch at the thought

I cant remember the story now!"

Boo!

Green arrow should display every thread ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

I do yes. I know one thing for sure though, I don’t intend to. "

What are you going to do about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

i’d say yes, our days have become very repetitive over the past few years, we really should do something to get out of the groove.

Dont you feel like you're going to scream if the day repeats its self one more fucking time!

"

scream without raising your voice? every damn day

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By *MonsterMan
over a year ago

xxx

I was stuck in the same old shit routine too;

So 6 months ago I quit my job and went self employed...it’s been 6 months of stress, worry, and emotional and financial near-bankruptcy...but totally worth it, I don’t regret it for a second!

I’m definitely out of the routine now!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!"

Sounds like you need a kick in your complacency

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was stuck in the same old shit routine too;

So 6 months ago I quit my job and went self employed...it’s been 6 months of stress, worry, and emotional and financial near-bankruptcy...but totally worth it, I don’t regret it for a second!

I’m definitely out of the routine now! "

Good for you!

Boredom is a killer - it's a brave move x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!"

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I liked your train fantasy thing in the stories.

How can I find that again?

It made my cock twitch

Oh

Minge twitch at the thought

I cant remember the story now!

Boo!

Green arrow should display every thread ever "

I might cringe if it did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Sounds like you need a kick in your complacency "

Haha yeah I definitely need something

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Snap

Do you think other people just accept the routine drudgery?

I do yes. I know one thing for sure though, I don’t intend to.

What are you going to do about it?

"

Dunno yet, I need a plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in."

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some routine and stability would be lovely. I can't complain tbf I built this life. Just sayin the grass is always greener...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though "

There must be something you always want to do, no matter how small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today has been constructive, so I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some routine and stability would be lovely. I can't complain tbf I built this life. Just sayin the grass is always greener... "

The grass is always greener.

But I've layed in that green green grass and it was amazing - now I'm stuck in hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though

There must be something you always want to do, no matter how small."

Yes there are lots of things - they all involve money though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today has been constructive, so I'm happy"

Oh how so?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today has been constructive, so I'm happy

Oh how so?

X"

Sorted loads of stuff out

Done 3 Charity Shop runs and a tip run

Also been up to new house to check on builders progress and drop a few bits

Came home and wrote a shitty yet polite email to the builders who had left the back door closed but unlocked

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

When you’re in a routine rut, it ducks and not in a good way!

Plan to do something on your day off, depends on practicalities but maybe look at any classes that are around in your area? Just to widen the social circle, whether it’s a language, cooking skills, volunteering somewhere? Give yourself a shake up.

Fab and what comes with it is entertaining but that can be routine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit on a pineapple .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today has been constructive, so I'm happy

Oh how so?

X

Sorted loads of stuff out

Done 3 Charity Shop runs and a tip run

Also been up to new house to check on builders progress and drop a few bits

Came home and wrote a shitty yet polite email to the builders who had left the back door closed but unlocked "

Are you getting a new house?

How exciting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today has been constructive, so I'm happy

Oh how so?

X

Sorted loads of stuff out

Done 3 Charity Shop runs and a tip run

Also been up to new house to check on builders progress and drop a few bits

Came home and wrote a shitty yet polite email to the builders who had left the back door closed but unlocked

Are you getting a new house?

How exciting x"

Yup, got the keys Bank Holiday weekend

Just want to get a couple of remedial jobs sorted b4 I move in

I can't cope with mess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you’re in a routine rut, it ducks and not in a good way!

Plan to do something on your day off, depends on practicalities but maybe look at any classes that are around in your area? Just to widen the social circle, whether it’s a language, cooking skills, volunteering somewhere? Give yourself a shake up.

Fab and what comes with it is entertaining but that can be routine too "

So true.

Some new friends would be nice.

It's so difficult to find the energy at my age

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though

There must be something you always want to do, no matter how small.

Yes there are lots of things - they all involve money though "

I'm sure you could find something cheap/free a fun if you Google your local area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today has been constructive, so I'm happy

Oh how so?

X

Sorted loads of stuff out

Done 3 Charity Shop runs and a tip run

Also been up to new house to check on builders progress and drop a few bits

Came home and wrote a shitty yet polite email to the builders who had left the back door closed but unlocked

Are you getting a new house?

How exciting x

Yup, got the keys Bank Holiday weekend

Just want to get a couple of remedial jobs sorted b4 I move in

I can't cope with mess "

I hate mess too

Aw that's great news - you're going to be endlessly entertained decorating and stuff - I'm so jealous x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though

There must be something you always want to do, no matter how small.

Yes there are lots of things - they all involve money though

I'm sure you could find something cheap/free a fun if you Google your local area."

Yes you're right I need to get off my massive arse and do something that doesn't involve pyjamas and wine

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!"

Snap...surely this isn't what life is all about.....the same shit every damn day

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"When you’re in a routine rut, it ducks and not in a good way!

Plan to do something on your day off, depends on practicalities but maybe look at any classes that are around in your area? Just to widen the social circle, whether it’s a language, cooking skills, volunteering somewhere? Give yourself a shake up.

Fab and what comes with it is entertaining but that can be routine too

So true.

Some new friends would be nice.

It's so difficult to find the energy at my age "

Energy and will is the key! Don’t start to do or expect any huge change straight away but small changes are possible...I’m not far off your age don’t be calling us old go to the local volunteering centre and see what they’ve got going on, or see if there’s any local meet up groups, they needn’t cost a lot of money but try to pick something you’re into to potentially keep it up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Snap...surely this isn't what life is all about.....the same shit every damn day"

I really think some people just accept it.

Most people aren't living the dream - I just think they know how to be content.

I wish I did!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!

Just go do something you wouldn't normally do try a break the circle or the routine you have found yourself in.

Yes - if I get a whole day off work again I'm going to try and do something new - I dont know what though

There must be something you always want to do, no matter how small.

Yes there are lots of things - they all involve money though

I'm sure you could find something cheap/free a fun if you Google your local area.

Yes you're right I need to get off my massive arse and do something that doesn't involve pyjamas and wine "

There always time for PJ's and wine with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why joining here and all the initial people I met was so good. It was so totally alien a thing to do in my little boring life it was great.

Now I need bigger and greater rushes and that is proving harder to find

Is there something or somewhere you really would like to go and do. Just pick a day and sod everything, literally everything including work and just do it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

There always time for PJ's and wine with the right person."

I'd love that- But I think that I have to actually go other places than work or food shopping to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some routine and stability would be lovely. I can't complain tbf I built this life. Just sayin the grass is always greener...

The grass is always greener.

But I've layed in that green green grass and it was amazing - now I'm stuck in hell "

Sorry to hear that MFP. I'll be your mate. Come and have a coffee every now and then and hear how nuts my life is. You might hang your mind about your groundhog days...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats why joining here and all the initial people I met was so good. It was so totally alien a thing to do in my little boring life it was great.

Now I need bigger and greater rushes and that is proving harder to find

Is there something or somewhere you really would like to go and do. Just pick a day and sod everything, literally everything including work and just do it. Xx"

You're so right - I used to be so much fun - now I dont do anything

What sort if rushes do you seek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why joining here and all the initial people I met was so good. It was so totally alien a thing to do in my little boring life it was great.

Now I need bigger and greater rushes and that is proving harder to find

Is there something or somewhere you really would like to go and do. Just pick a day and sod everything, literally everything including work and just do it. Xx

You're so right - I used to be so much fun - now I dont do anything

What sort if rushes do you seek?

"

Still relatively sedate in the grand scheme of things. Just a getting in the car and driving somewhere to experience freedom. And no plans at the other end of it other than what crops up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. One day I might finally get it right....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I'm stuck in it

Anyone else?"

Haven't we been here before?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If it’s any help, I’ve found that the difficult part is the 10 minutes before. Once you’ve got through that, it’s easier.

Don’t get hung up on doing something that has to be life changing, just do something small at first and enjoy it. Importantly, notice that you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Groundhog day great movie and yep thats my life.

Good ol daddy stay at home see no one wife works wife socialices.

Hopes someone will come around shag me stupid make me feel human and not ugly.

Day two see above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...same here

How did he break the cycle in the film..

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"great movie that

It is a great film

But I meant literally.

I'm living the same old shit every day!

Bored!"
definitely this is me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep...same here

How did he break the cycle in the film.."

He got the day right by doing loads of good deeds

I'm tempted to run away, apply for jobs in a different area and start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep...same here

How did he break the cycle in the film..

He got the day right by doing loads of good deeds

I'm tempted to run away, apply for jobs in a different area and start again.

"

Do it....resets are needed every now and then

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Was in that treadmill, so chucked it all away loaded my car with things that matter, got to my house in Spain and found a cattery for sale, made an offer it was accepted so selling my house now to move and look after animals. My childhood dream will soon be reality!! Ecstatic.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Do something you wouldn’t normally do, push your boundaries and comfort zone.

I’m not in about sexually, although that can be fun, but something you’d thought I’ve always wanted to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep...same here

How did he break the cycle in the film..

He got the day right by doing loads of good deeds

I'm tempted to run away, apply for jobs in a different area and start again.

"

Well that's me screwed

..unless there's jobs going at that cattery

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yep...same here

How did he break the cycle in the film..

He got the day right by doing loads of good deeds

I'm tempted to run away, apply for jobs in a different area and start again.

Well that's me screwed

..unless there's jobs going at that cattery "

Odd you should ask that!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ps only you can get yourself out of the rut, be bold and take that step

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I certainly did. No regrets

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