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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah loads but i dont care im not here to kiss arse never was dont like it tough titties folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope taken it the wrong way yes, messaged me about it no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I also had people misquote/quote me of out context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I also had people misquote/quote me of out context "

This

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

All the time. I had one the other day and hadn’t even commented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s pretty hard not to offend someone on any given day here regardless of if you meant it or not

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yes

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope. It's hard for people to be offended by the word the or me saying I'm in

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Nope.

I guess what I post is either uncontroversial, boring or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep and dont worry about it as the forums are a tiny tiny part of fab and to most mean nothing

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, a few from the forum have blocked me though, I do get pms off the back of forum posts but not usually for negative reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. So I deleted and blocked and called the person out on the thread saying anything they want to say they can tell me in the forum

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

all the time

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

if I had unintentionally upset someone in the forum I would have no problem in talking about it by pm. if intentional ie. my words hit a sore point, l would still talk but we may have to agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and put on the naughty step for 24 hrs or so . Such as fab life

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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No, Never had someone be upset about something I've said and pm me

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was messaged and blocked earlier. I found it funny, but also annoying because I couldn't explain what I meant in pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private messages yes, but not negative to comments in the forum. All my forum disagreements have been voiced publicly to me. Some pm's are about what I have said, but just continuing theur views privately. Many are forum lurkers using my comments as a form of introduction, with a view of trying to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM. "

That's interesting. Like false personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

I've had plenty of messages about forum posts over the years, not sure I'd class people being offended or disagreeing with me as them 'taking it the wrong way'.

It's not something that has ever bothered me, more amuses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM. "

Oh most definitely .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My responses on here are always meant to be constructive and beneficial but obviously peeps can't see my body language. One can always be nice and pleasant in the Forums whilst discussing not so nice subjects, but people, undoubtedly, will always take umbrage. I've had a few messages in my time on here in disagreement with my opinions, yes, but that is their perogative, we all have our own opinions on stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

I've also had people agree with me in private too, but not want to voice it in public view for fear of people seeing them in a different light.

Gotta keep the masses happy ain't they

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep.

I've also had people agree with me in private too, but not want to voice it in public view for fear of people seeing them in a different light.

Gotta keep the masses happy ain't they

P"

I've had that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

But then I just delete messages that haven’t got our secret code word in the title so I might have.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

Yes. Usually followed by me blocking them.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

Probably, but know message yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Not my issue though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM.

Oh most definitely . "

Is it me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM.

Oh most definitely .

Is it me? "

Nah, you wear your Darth Maul face out in public

P

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM.

Oh most definitely .

Is it me?

Nah, you wear your Darth Maul face out in public

P"

That's a bit harsh. I actually look like this!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Some people even message others on kik DEMANDING to know why you said such and such about whomever or whatever. I don't need such paranoid control freaks in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear of people who show one face on the forum and a darker side by PM.

Oh most definitely .

Is it me?

Nah, you wear your Darth Maul face out in public

P

That's a bit harsh. I actually look like this! "

I respect you because of it. I might not always agree with your stance or your perspective on different things but you don't fluff up the nicely niceys in public and then slate people behind their backs where it's "safe"

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

I've also had people agree with me in private too, but not want to voice it in public view for fear of people seeing them in a different light.

Gotta keep the masses happy ain't they

P"

Haha yep me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooo... Never

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

At least once a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it? "

Not on here but definitely on other forums.

I’ve learnt a few times that the voice you write something in is not always the voice someone else will read in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been told that being yourself and honesty is the best policy.. However I think if I continue like this, il probably end up getting blocked by everyone in the forums

But I have to be me.

I'm

an

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Quite a few times. It's difficult for people to read the correct tone at times, I understand that so I don't particularly mind that. If it's just wanting to argue/snipe, I ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

Not on here but definitely on other forums.

I’ve learnt a few times that the voice you write something in is not always the voice someone else will read in."

Oh, yes 100% true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not recently, but yes

I have also been blocked for comments made here

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

At least once a week. "

I've just been informed it's closer to twice a day.

My bad.

Sorry. Not sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

At least once a week.

I've just been informed it's closer to twice a day.

My bad.

Sorry. Not sorry. "

I didn't notice it on this thread so someone messaged you to say that! What a cheek

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive received messages but not because of my comments

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

At least once a week.

I've just been informed it's closer to twice a day.

My bad.

Sorry. Not sorry.

I didn't notice it on this thread so someone messaged you to say that! What a cheek

P"

I know, bloody nerve eh.

Just the kind of thing the OPs talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

At least once a week.

I've just been informed it's closer to twice a day.

My bad.

Sorry. Not sorry.

I didn't notice it on this thread so someone messaged you to say that! What a cheek

P

I know, bloody nerve eh.

Just the kind of thing the OPs talking about.

"

Mind.... blown.

P

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you ever said something in a forum and someone took it the wrong way and messaged you about it?

At least once a week.

I've just been informed it's closer to twice a day.

My bad.

Sorry. Not sorry.

I didn't notice it on this thread so someone messaged you to say that! What a cheek

P

I know, bloody nerve eh.

Just the kind of thing the OPs talking about.

Penis.... blown.

P"

Thanks love.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people even message others on kik DEMANDING to know why you said such and such about whomever or whatever. I don't need such paranoid control freaks in my life. "

Yeah I find that amusing behaviour.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Some people get butthurt when others block them for being a douche. And then bang on about it months later. It’s very sad.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Not recently, but yes

I have also been blocked for comments made here"

I couldn't imagine anyone blocking you

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Not on fab but i got thrown out of a fab kik group - no EARTHLY idea what for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Made me laugh to be honest.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some people get butthurt when others block them for being a douche. And then bang on about it months later. It’s very sad. "

Yes.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some people get butthurt when others block them for being a douche. And then bang on about it months later. It’s very sad.

Yes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people get butthurt when others block them for being a douche. And then bang on about it months later. It’s very sad.

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on fab but i got thrown out of a fab kik group - no EARTHLY idea what for! "

Ah, but you may have had an inkling if your expulsion had taken place on the moon then?

Tbf I imagine it would narrow it down a bit.

B

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not in private message. To be fair most folk who use the forum seem opinionated and gobby enough to tell you what they think in public, nevermind private!!

And i say that with affection

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not in private message. To be fair most folk who use the forum seem opinionated and gobby enough to tell you what they think in public, nevermind private!!

And i say that with affection "

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve said something in the forum which was savaged by a certain someone. I got a few messages of folk saying they agreed totally with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve said something in the forum which was savaged by a certain someone. I got a few messages of folk saying they agreed totally with me. "

Well done you!!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Every

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Every "

Day

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