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By *easidegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

south shore

So I'm sleeping with my fwb, been together 7 months, it's kinda turned exclusive, we go out, day trips, chilling, the company..met each others family but..

Sex has dwindled. At tbw beginning was every meet. Now about one in four meets

We spend most free time together.

Met on here but he's no longer active.

Enjoy his company forget the sex?

But I have a high sex drive and its frustrating..

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I thought that's what a friend with benefits was. Not all about the sex. But if it's sex you crave maybe find yourself a new fuck buddy?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Sounds to me as if it's become more of a traditional relationship than just an fwb setup. Perhaps you should tell him you crave sex more often?

Would probably be a good idea to discuss where the nature of your relationship stands, if you haven't already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to him??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

He sounds nice but if he's not the right person for you then keep looking until you find him.

Many of us have learned from experience that being single is better than being with the wrong person.

He could have got settled and not making the effort any more. Especially if you do all the 'work' in the relationship.

Having said that, loss of libido is often a physical symptom of a mental issue.

Has he got anything on his mind that could be affecting him? Does he talk about personal stuff?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Why is it exclusive, did you discuss this or is it just something that's kind of happened? I assume he knows you're still on here, so find someone else to see as well as him.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to him about it. Do you need it to be not exclusive anymore?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

you might need time apart to 'miss' him or for him to 'miss' you. You'll be surprised how that helps.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Easily solved, just start adding a testosterone booster to his tea

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Easily solved, just start adding a testosterone booster to his tea "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds to me as if it's become more of a traditional relationship than just an fwb setup. Perhaps you should tell him you crave sex more often?

Would probably be a good idea to discuss where the nature of your relationship stands, if you haven't already?"

to all this.

He wants a wife, you want a shag OP.

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By *easidegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

south shore

The first time we met he said he didn't need to be on fab anymore..but I like the lifestyle though haven't met anyone sexually since I met him

He says he's just not bothered about sex..but I am.

But his company is ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You still state that you wish to meet men on your profile, so you are obviously keeping your options open. If you can't tell your friend that you need to be fucked more often, then the relationship you have with him isn't right? You need to have a serious chat?

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By *easidegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

south shore

I do need to chat to him don't I?

I like we hang out, go on days out, have fun but at first he seemed really into sex.

Now, he's not bothered I don't think.

I'm almost scared to initiate it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I do need to chat to him don't I?

I like we hang out, go on days out, have fun but at first he seemed really into sex.

Now, he's not bothered I don't think.

I'm almost scared to initiate it"

if all the factors work then it's a real shame that sex has dwindled and so soon..I'd say talk to him too x

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Best bet is to tell him not us and put your time into talking to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key...always.

Sounds like you have a traditional relationship rather than just fwb, and maybe he's got comfortable...it happens.

Have a chat and see how it best goes forward for you both, if his company is that good then maybe there are certain allowances to be made, but in the end you both need to be happy.....

......said the wise old owl

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I do need to chat to him don't I?

I like we hang out, go on days out, have fun but at first he seemed really into sex.

Now, he's not bothered I don't think.

I'm almost scared to initiate it"

It's scary, I get it. But better nipped in the bud.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Easily solved, just start adding a testosterone booster to his tea "
I’d be very careful doing that he may end up growing breasts

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By *easidegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

south shore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its gone more relationship than fwb, i have a fwb.. just us 2 know about it no real world shit that comes with a relationship.. its just friends that exclusively have sex with each other and enjoy eachothers company, uncomplicated & fun.

The trouble is some people have issues with relationships for whatever reason and maybe he has which is putting a block on the sex.

Although...

My libido crashed recently i think its more to do with stress than anything else, i cleared afew things up last week, completed and cleared it off my todo list.. this past few days my sex drive has been off the scale agian. So it could be any reason... best thing you can do is have a unpresured chat with him and see where you stand

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