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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^_^

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, I couldn't handle the responsibility.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "

For play, yes. 24/7? Unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "

nope having my own way all the time would bore me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I couldn't handle the responsibility. "
but you just ignore them until you need them.

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "
... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ?

nope having my own way all the time would bore me"
order him to change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "

You mean a husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? ... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy "
Interesting ,how would you use someone you didnt fancy ?

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? ... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy Interesting ,how would you use someone you didnt fancy ?"
... well it was for him, . think i need to inbox you this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lucky guy either way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? ... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy Interesting ,how would you use someone you didnt fancy ?... well it was for him, . think i need to inbox you this.. "
sure feel free

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Been there, done that

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It depends. The dynamic is often not what it seems and I’d need someone who I could talk to about that easily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends. The dynamic is often not what it seems and I’d need someone who I could talk to about that easily. "
clever woman you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun for a wee while but it then gets boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been there, done that "
you WOULD have lol let me ask you this your experienced and beautiful SO what things sexually keep you driven and excited ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's fun for a wee while but it then gets boring "
everything does then you push more or twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I like a man to be manly and in control

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I like a man to be manly and in control"
never wanted both ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think you understand what submission is in this context.

I don't want it either way.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No one should be anyone’s servant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I like strong men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you understand what submission is in this context.

I don't want it either way. "
im still working it out legs and myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I like strong men. "
i have to do it all me change it up , but as you can tell im going serious over this lifestyle i think vanilla isnt me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I like a man to be manly and in control never wanted both ?"

Nope never.

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Been there, done that "

Want to do it again Minnie

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich


"No one should be anyone’s servant"
... This is when guy have to seek it from else where or pay!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I'd be bored with them after an hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be bored with them after an hour"
they not serving you right then or lusting after you right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I like a man to be manly and in control never wanted both ?

Nope never. "
tell me more are you normally the submissive in a relationship too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "

Had one. Signed a contract. Lasted two weeks as I was bored out of my brains and forget sex, no way...

However it did make me realise how sexy free will is...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s fun to “ play” with, I had my own oral slave, but 24/7 I lack the mental energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I like strong men. "

You think submission is weakness? I'm not sure it is... All the submissive women in my life were tough as nails

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don't think you understand what submission is in this context.

I don't want it either way. "

yes... being a sub and being a slave are different I believe

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes and I do.

I currently have a butler with me, whilst I'm on holiday, so am making do with his services until I'm back.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

This is the problem with discussing D/S on Fab there are two many people discussinf D/S that are not interested in it.

I appreciate people have to try things to know where they stand, and it may work for them or it may not, and if not leave it. But D/S is not a one person dynamic and I wonder about the effect on the people discarded. I get the feeling if men said some of the comments on this thread they would be roasted as wannabes. I hasten to add that I am not criticising any comments or any person.

I really hate the phrase "natural dominant/submissive" as it is misused. What I do believe is that you have to be by impelled or strongly inclined by nature to be dominant or submissive. In that way boredom does not set in. I think, dream, live, for what I can do to a submissive that is on my wave length. But I think people forget that the important word in "D/S relationship" is "relationship". Whether you are a dom or domme, experienced people realise that submissives are not toys. Although I do not believe submission is a gift, submision is precious.

Two final thoughts, firstly submission is strength. I takes strength and discipline to submit.

Secondly submissives in other parts of their lives can be powerful men or women.

My favourite quote is a domme who said" I want my submissives to be lions" Think Boudicca and her warriors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the problem with discussing D/S on Fab there are two many people discussinf D/S that are not interested in it.

I appreciate people have to try things to know where they stand, and it may work for them or it may not, and if not leave it. But D/S is not a one person dynamic and I wonder about the effect on the people discarded. I get the feeling if men said some of the comments on this thread they would be roasted as wannabes. I hasten to add that I am not criticising any comments or any person.

I really hate the phrase "natural dominant/submissive" as it is misused. What I do believe is that you have to be by impelled or strongly inclined by nature to be dominant or submissive. In that way boredom does not set in. I think, dream, live, for what I can do to a submissive that is on my wave length. But I think people forget that the important word in "D/S relationship" is "relationship". Whether you are a dom or domme, experienced people realise that submissives are not toys. Although I do not believe submission is a gift, submision is precious.

Two final thoughts, firstly submission is strength. I takes strength and discipline to submit.

Secondly submissives in other parts of their lives can be powerful men or women.

My favourite quote is a domme who said" I want my submissives to be lions" Think Boudicca and her warriors.

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Perfectly put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I like strong men.

You think submission is weakness? I'm not sure it is... All the submissive women in my life were tough as nails "

No I realised after posting that it wasn't quite the right word.

The OP said servant, to me that's different to submitting. I like submissive men who are strong willed and hard to break. I want to take their submission as much as they want to give it. I enjoy the mind games and the manipulation it takes.

I'm not into being worshipped or "served", it's not the kind of person I'm attracted to. I do agree it can take a strong person to do that though.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"No one should be anyone’s servant... This is when guy have to seek it from else where or pay! "

So because someone isn’t a servant you say that’s why they go elsewhere or pay. What do you thing a servant is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I like strong men.

You think submission is weakness? I'm not sure it is... All the submissive women in my life were tough as nails

No I realised after posting that it wasn't quite the right word.

The OP said servant, to me that's different to submitting. I like submissive men who are strong willed and hard to break. I want to take their submission as much as they want to give it. I enjoy the mind games and the manipulation it takes.

I'm not into being worshipped or "served", it's not the kind of person I'm attracted to. I do agree it can take a strong person to do that though. "

Gotcha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I like a man to be manly and in control never wanted both ?

Nope never. tell me more are you normally the submissive in a relationship too"

Yes.

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