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By *ightkitty4u OP   Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Right I’ve decided, I need a kinky boyfriend/partner...

Fed up with all the idiots on bumble, tinder and POF. They talk but never seem willing to meet up!

So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then. If you insist....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

How refreshing! If only everyone's approach to relationships was like this.

I hope you get suitable applicants

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By *ightkitty4u OP   Woman
over a year ago

Epsom


"How refreshing! If only everyone's approach to relationships was like this.

I hope you get suitable applicants "

I’ve had too much group play fun to not have group play fun ever again!

Thank you x x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Look luck OP, great thread.

One day I'll get my Bridget Jones pants on and do this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"How refreshing! If only everyone's approach to relationships was like this.

I hope you get suitable applicants

I’ve had too much group play fun to not have group play fun ever again!

Thank you x x"

It was the bits about being emotionally available and have a job that I like too.

I would have on my list that they must agree to have a warm house at all times, enjoy an element of BDSM and be a good cook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's time Fab added a dating section to the forums

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By *ightkitty4u OP   Woman
over a year ago

Epsom


"How refreshing! If only everyone's approach to relationships was like this.

I hope you get suitable applicants

I’ve had too much group play fun to not have group play fun ever again!

Thank you x x

It was the bits about being emotionally available and have a job that I like too.

I would have on my list that they must agree to have a warm house at all times, enjoy an element of BDSM and be a good cook. "

I’m so over meeting men, liking said man for them to turn out to be not emotionally available to me for what ever reason!

And I’ve had my fair share of dating people without a pot to piss in!

Lol a fwb on here, his house is on the tad chilly side... I brought a blanket and have a blanket at his for when I’m cold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pity you don't consider TV, sound like you would be better with someone more open minded

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Right I’ve decided, I need a kinky boyfriend/partner...

Fed up with all the idiots on bumble, tinder and POF. They talk but never seem willing to meet up!

So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

"

Is that all yr looking for bloody high maintenance

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By *ightkitty4u OP   Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

I’m rather surprised, I’ve not been inundated with offers!

I must be Undesirable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's time Fab added a dating section to the forums "

Does fab not have a separate site for singles ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Right I’ve decided, I need a kinky boyfriend/partner...

Fed up with all the idiots on bumble, tinder and POF. They talk but never seem willing to meet up!

So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

"

You have basically described me, and we're a reasonable journey from each other, but I'm taken. Sorry.

I'm sure you are very sad about this.

Luke

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By *ightkitty4u OP   Woman
over a year ago

Epsom


"

You have basically described me, and we're a reasonable journey from each other, but I'm taken. Sorry.

I'm sure you are very sad about this.

Luke"

I am absolutely devastated, it’s the story of my life...

And you have a bow tie! Those just make a girl go weak at the knees x

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Maybe it's time Fab added a dating section to the forums "

Fab tried a seperate site called fab flirts years ago. It was populated by the same folks on here.

There are frequent threads for dates fwb etc.. I hear the odd success story from them.

Wishing you luck op.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m rather surprised, I’ve not been inundated with offers!

I must be Undesirable "

You're not undesirable, Op. Far from it. But a man who ticks those boxes will do so for many other women as well. I'm certain you'll find what you're looking for but it may not be immediately.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Looking for exactly the same It's these chaps that should be referred to as 'unicorns'!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"

You have basically described me, and we're a reasonable journey from each other, but I'm taken. Sorry.

I'm sure you are very sad about this.

Luke

I am absolutely devastated, it’s the story of my life...

And you have a bow tie! Those just make a girl go weak at the knees x "

It's a real bow tie that I tied myself, too. None of these pre-tied ones on elastic. It looks really cool when I untie it (video available).

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I’m rather surprised, I’ve not been inundated with offers!

I must be Undesirable "

Well I'm too young and too far away but I'm surprised you haven't been snapped up!

Far from undesirable, keep going you'll get what you want! I know it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer loose kitty sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll add myself to the list of applicants.

I have a Job, own house, with the added benefit of possible naked sun bathing, un-attached, no complaints in bed so far either.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I’m rather surprised, I’ve not been inundated with offers!

I must be Undesirable "

Oh it's not you lovely dont take it personally. As soon as you mention dating with one person they run like rats down a drain pipe hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along with a long term personality... surprising how quickly.people can change once they have 'conquered' you x

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
over a year ago

south Cheshire


"Maybe it's time Fab added a dating section to the forums "
ooh yes not all us guys on her are idoits an time wasters like a ltr off here too

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

This is all true.

I have the skills and ability to refurbish the inside and outside of a house.

I am also quite an exceptional dancer. Modern jive, salsa, rock n roll and lindy hop.

I also go cycling.

I am not on any mainstream dating sites, but was. I gave it up 5 years ago and came on here. As I was looking for a liberated woman, who was possibly Bi. And liked to have sex with other men and couples.

As on pof. And like on here. My Achilles heel is ! I am to old.

So I have never been able to find my petite sex bomb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds ideal OP me to though I won't be holding my breath,if it happens it happens

Good luck

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

"

Not wanting much are you

Just one thing I dont do diy, As I do all the building trade itself.

Some pics on profile are from the jobs ive done.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"Look luck OP, great thread.

One day I'll get my Bridget Jones pants on and do this. "

I'll be waiting not sure about the Bridget Jones pants mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m rather surprised, I’ve not been inundated with offers!

I must be Undesirable "

I am too old, don't have a job, only work when I want expensive holidays, and I am in a relationship I also just took a 3 month bike ride while my wife was at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too Kitty, I can't ever be in a 'normal' relationship where I will only have eyes for one person again. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also looking for LTR. If only our ages matched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Epsom is probably lovely....

But you should relocate to Devon

Beautiful down here

And then you can see how many of your boxes I tick ??

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Maybe it's time Fab added a dating section to the forums "

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/888995

KM

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Right I’ve decided, I need a kinky boyfriend/partner...

Fed up with all the idiots on bumble, tinder and POF. They talk but never seem willing to meet up!

So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

"

Ditto, apart from Tinder etc.

Mine needs to have long hair ideally though

KM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for exactly the same It's these chaps that should be referred to as 'unicorns'!"

You've been on my hotlist for ages xx

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"Looking for exactly the same It's these chaps that should be referred to as 'unicorns'!

You've been on my hotlist for ages xx"

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Am in for that

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Fair play to you OP. I finally got my divorce in May and while I’m not looking, I think if I found the right person I’d no longer run at 100mph in the opposite direction! Shows there is hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely open to it. Walls are pretty bloody high though so will take someone really special to break them down!

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Damn... I’m one year out on the age range

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ideally that's what I want when I grow up. A swinging relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I’ve decided, I need a kinky boyfriend/partner...

Fed up with all the idiots on bumble, tinder and POF. They talk but never seem willing to meet up!

So looking for a “boyfriend” ideally tall I’m 5ft 7 so enough I can wear heels, toned or slim body shape, this will encourage me to keep myself in shape! Be aged 44 - 56 ish

If you can cook, use household appliances and do DIY fantastic.... if not I’m sure it won’t be a deal breaker,

Most important parts....

Emotional available, kind, never lie and bloody amazing in bed!

Fantastic if you have a job and are financially secure

Am after a LTR, happy to swing in this LTR life is too short not to swing and stick with one cock!

Xx

"

Damn! Apparently I am out of the age range. Will have to wait a couple more years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love what you are looking for and what you want. I for one would have loved to have put my hat in the ring if not for the distance as I am confident I could meet your needs x good luck I hope he comes along soon x

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