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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the kind of cheating.

I always slip myself an extra £500 if I'm the banker. I always feel kinda naughty when I do it.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I never fully trust people who cheat or semantically don’t but emotionally do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the kind of cheating.

I always slip myself an extra £500 if I'm the banker. I always feel kinda naughty when I do it. "

If that was a man on here.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

brilliant ha ha ha ha ha ha see i just cant shake the fantasy NOT MONOPOLY either lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why would it be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

emotionally interesting its never that for me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More seriously.

I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness"

What makes it more sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been cheated on in the past and I've also been in the position where I was the other woman. There is something hot about doing something your not meant to be doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

true thats why in reality it dont happen for me and maybe why it stays its not the deception either .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how did you feel in both positions ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the buzz the rush and the other woman having something you dont get sexually and vis versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I must be addicted to cheating.. im not. It's not about cheating for me, it's about wanting to be close to somebody special. The 'cheating' is just an unfortunate bi-product.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry about my relpies first time doing this LOL see thats the opposite for me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

God yeah it is so hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, but I'd never able to trust anyone who's cheating. It's not sexy in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve been in a few situations like this I cheated on my wife it was hot at the time it was with her mate

Then she cheated on me with someone as payback

She also said it was hot

Both got hurt not worth it in the long run

No longer together now but if both of us cheated we where not right for each other personally I’ll never cheat again but I’ll be the other man

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

Neither. Having been on the receiving end, it's one of the most horrible feelings in the world and there's on excuse for it. If you're clearly not happy suck it up and end it you cowards.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Trying to work out or see the irony in this....my head hurts....too much alcohol last nite....is this real???

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT

Neither. Having been on the receiving end, it's one of the most horrible feelings in the world and there's on excuse for it. If you're clearly not happy suck it up and end it you cowards."

I 2nd LvD's comment......sad if you find it exciting to ruin people's lives....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely sexy and hot.. gets your heart pumping everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

I cheated on a girlfriend when young and stupid. I paid dearly. Lesson learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% not sexy. ex husband cheated ... all fun and games for him

even thought it was hilarious when one wanted a DNA on her child

how is that sh*t sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

cheating is not something I consider to be remotely sexy or hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More seriously.

I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot? "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? "
do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol"

If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More seriously.

I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot?

I agree. "
That is why i never have because of reality BUT the thoughts dont stop even about her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol

If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical "
its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been cheated on in the past and I've also been in the position where I was the other woman. There is something hot about doing something your not meant to be doing. "
how did you feel sexually both times ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need to cheat because my cock gets no attention these days

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness"

As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both."
how so ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

It’s neither, it’s a shitty thing to do, if someone’s willing to cheat, I wouldn’t trust them with anything, ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol

If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical

its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad"

It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol

If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical

its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad

It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you. "

This ^^^ ask her if you "joined" swingers site as a single man how she'd feel about it perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol

If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical

its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad

It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you. "
true words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

see id just hide it and fantasise wouldn't telling her just be a silly move lol its still new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see id just hide it and fantasise wouldn't telling her just be a silly move lol its still new"

So starting as you mean to go on?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?"

How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"see id just hide it and fantasise wouldn't telling her just be a silly move lol its still new"

Well then why ask the question?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

Nope

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

A lot of married wannabe cucks dream of being cheated on

In reality cheating can hurt and wrecks relationships

Not good if you have children

Ideally opt for an open relationship

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"I never fully trust people who cheat or semantically don’t but emotionally do. "

I am married, Mrs always knows so is that cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never fully trust people who cheat or semantically don’t but emotionally do.

I am married, Mrs always knows so is that cheating?"

No it isn't at all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Ask your wife.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

For me, not acceptable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your wife. "
not married

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Cunts trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your wife. not married"

They meant partner or significant other etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your wife. not married

They meant partner or significant other etc "
im going to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your wife. not married

They meant partner or significant other etc im going to"

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never fully trust people who cheat or semantically don’t but emotionally do.

I am married, Mrs always knows so is that cheating?"

Depends. Did she consent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

No it’s fucking muggy

Blokes who give the large one but would cry there eyes out if they got caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is crap, especially for the one whose loyal to there partner. If your not happy at least have the balls to tell them.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Ask your wife. not married"

.. no way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your wife. not married

.. no way!"
shall i put myself down save you doing it ? i dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was cheated on and it destroyed me at the time and ultimately ended my marriage. So personally I dont think theres anything hot about it. But I'm sure my wife thought differently at the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)"

This!!! 1000% agreed

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)

This!!! 1000% agreed"

Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)

This!!! 1000% agreed

Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they "

How can you trust someone that lies to to the one their suppose to be totally open and honest with. The person that are the closest to them. Wasn't going to mention the people they are cheating with. The other person... personally if they know the person is attached then they just as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)

This!!! 1000% agreed

Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they

How can you trust someone that lies to to the one their suppose to be totally open and honest with. The person that are the closest to them. Wasn't going to mention the people they are cheating with. The other person... personally if they know the person is attached then they just as bad "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know cheating goes on but if you haven't got the balls to be honest, then the only person your lying to is yourself. I know it takes two to tango, but surely there are enough single men or women to meet up with.. sexting is also crap, if your doing this your already cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness"

Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating isn't sexy !!

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy "

Another thread i need to bite down on my tongue for!! There is no justification for cheating ever!

Leaves an slams door before i get banned x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"

Bollocks... teying to back track because harly anyone agrees with you... See cowardly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men seem to find it a real turn on if they’re fucking a women behind their husbands back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy

Another thread i need to bite down on my tongue for!! There is no justification for cheating ever!

Leaves an slams door before i get banned x"

yeah true... Ive said my bit now ignoring this thread...

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"

Bet the blocked button has been hammered on you today.. just admitting you have a gf.. yet single on your profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?

Bet the blocked button has been hammered on you today.. just admitting you have a gf.. yet single on your profile!!

"

Yeah the fact you're on this site asking if you should tell your gf you want to cheat is bad enough... Just be single... best way to be. I'm having a great time since I left UK fairplay

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By *ngel eyes999Woman
over a year ago

Newport


"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!

So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)

This!!! 1000% agreed"

well said

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?

How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings."

This EXACTLY....cheating is an utmost disrespect for the person you hold dear...

Turn the tables...you are settle down with this person, have loved every minute of being with them, made memories, future goals and BOOM...she tells you of her profile on here, her verifications and previous meets...safe to say your world would come crashing down and question your esteem, confidence and 'what did I do wrong'

And this is ok??????

For those saying it was hot to cheat, it sounds like it was more the excitement of being with someone new and anticipation of new partner

..easier and kinder to break up with the current and experience new excitement each and every time by sleeping about and sewing your seed...

My personal opinion...that is all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never cheated, never would x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope never cheated, never would x"

How beautiful is that eh

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

Not to me. Sometimes it is necessary, but the act in itself isn’t hot.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I was in an 18 year relationship and sometimes it was miserable..I was miserable but I never once cheated and nor did he.

I do understand though that things sometimes aren't black and white and that every cheat isn't just an evil arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

It demonstrates a lack of integrity.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

There`s always at least one victim who suffers when you cheat.

I don`t cheat & don`t want to meet anyone who`s cheating either.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

It’s not sexy.

And i think to find it sexy shows an appalling lack of empathy.

It might be exciting, it might be thrilling.

But sexy? No.

You’re literally pissing all over integrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness

As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?

How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings.

This EXACTLY....cheating is an utmost disrespect for the person you hold dear...

Turn the tables...you are settle down with this person, have loved every minute of being with them, made memories, future goals and BOOM...she tells you of her profile on here, her verifications and previous meets...safe to say your world would come crashing down and question your esteem, confidence and 'what did I do wrong'

And this is ok??????

For those saying it was hot to cheat, it sounds like it was more the excitement of being with someone new and anticipation of new partner

..easier and kinder to break up with the current and experience new excitement each and every time by sleeping about and sewing your seed...

My personal opinion...that is all...."

I totally agree, if you've gone looking for excitement. Your already there, most men think they won't get found out. But for the one who does find out there partner cheated its heartbreaking, especially if they can't see what they've done wrong. Loyalty & trust are huge break them you've lost your self respect.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "

No, I don't think it is.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Silence is golden

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Should we be more ‘French ‘ about the whole thing?

Cheating / cheaters sounds so harsh. Illicit sex is thrilling.

I know that ideally and in a perfect world we meet , fall in love, marry and live happily ever after. We are human though. I know it can lead to hurt and heartbreak.

Back to the French - a little ‘cinq ‘a sept’, lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should we be more ‘French ‘ about the whole thing?

Cheating / cheaters sounds so harsh. Illicit sex is thrilling.

I know that ideally and in a perfect world we meet , fall in love, marry and live happily ever after. We are human though. I know it can lead to hurt and heartbreak.

Back to the French - a little ‘cinq ‘a sept’, lovely."

If it walks like a duck & quacks like a duck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More seriously.

I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s seems to a lot of discrepancies on this issue. From what I’ve experienced so far on Fab it seems to be ok and acceptable for a married women to be wanting a discreet meet etc without her partners knowledge but on the other hand it’s frowned upon if it’s a man in the same situation.. maybe I’m wrong? Maybe I’m speaking with the wrong people?

What’s your views x

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