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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

This is not a moan as love my time on Fab, but had a question that I hoping you could help me with

Now I know you couples and ladies get hundreds of messages a day but if you read a message without deleting, is this saying that you are interested or not

It may seem like a dumb question but I am always hesitant to message someone again who has read my message but not deleted, as do not want to come across as pushy

Any advice would be very much appreciated

Take care

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply=no interest.

Let it go.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

With us it's because we haven't tidied up our inbox that day.

I think people read too much into undeleted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no advice since it's not a one size fits all site.

Ignore sent mail, that's my advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too frustrating, so i dont send any.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"No reply=no interest.

Let it go. "

bursts out into impromptu Disney Frozen song.....LET IT......

Damn corporate conditioning.....

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next"

Yes.

They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next

Yes.

They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy."

It's always hard to work out too pushy and not enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we don’t delete it could be that we didn’t tidy it up, That we want the other half to read it, or that we plan to reply later or after we discuss.

Sometimes people send a follow up hello or similar a week later, that can cause us to reply, or finally delete. If their follow up message is pushy, we definitely delete.

It’s not an exact science, if we don’t get a reply, we usually just leave it. If we were that interesting to them we figure they’d have found time.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next

Yes.

They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy.

It's always hard to work out too pushy and not enough though "

Really?

Surely you just wait for reply?

If someone doesn't reply, don't keep messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to get your advice

As said had a good time of Fab to date so maybe I’ll just keep playing it by ear (or any other part of body come to think of it)

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