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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a question for admin, rather than using the contact as I feel they are to just to read everyone, are there any admin around to contact direct?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I’ve seen an Adam around...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol.

Well I have a question for anyone that can help.

I recently seen a feature with an account that had admin and on a profile they pressed menu then wink and this hid any messaging history, they also rather than blocked the person filtered them as something else. Has anyone else witnessed this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol.

Well I have a question for anyone that can help.

I recently seen a feature with an account that had admin and on a profile they pressed menu then wink and this hid any messaging history, they also rather than blocked the person filtered them as something else. Has anyone else witnessed this? "

You saw them do that in person? So they must be an Admin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They sat next to me doing it, but need confirming that this is a thing?

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Well if you think they are admin just ask them directly..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well if you think they are admin just ask them directly.."

I don't think it's a secret who they are, we all know some of the mods

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"They sat next to me doing it, but need confirming that this is a thing? "
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Not sure they should be doing their admin work in front of someone else though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol.

Well I have a question for anyone that can help.

I recently seen a feature with an account that had admin and on a profile they pressed menu then wink and this hid any messaging history, they also rather than blocked the person filtered them as something else. Has anyone else witnessed this? "

Nope.

TBH I don't know WTF you're on about

I confuse easily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well basically it was my partner and got told this wasnt a feature, witnessed them doing it and now madd out to be crazy. Just need confirming for police report, its that serious

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well basically it was my partner and got told this wasnt a feature, witnessed them doing it and now madd out to be crazy. Just need confirming for police report, its that serious "

Gosh that is serious, I think you should be contacting admin, don't think anyone else can help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tried but they dont reply

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Lol.

Well I have a question for anyone that can help.

I recently seen a feature with an account that had admin and on a profile they pressed menu then wink and this hid any messaging history, they also rather than blocked the person filtered them as something else. Has anyone else witnessed this? "

Have you been drinking the embalming fluid?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If this is a police matter then the police are the people to speak to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ye eventually when they take me serious, no one believes me. But hey I'm not asking anything other than information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked "

Your posts are confusing people

If you spell out in clear sentences what you witnessed / experienced, people may be able to help you

At the moment, Columbo would struggle with this one, never mind us lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked "

Take screenshots of any messages. Contact Admin via report button on your profile. It can take up to 48 hours for them to reply.

Speak to the police directly and give them the screenshots.

If it's your partner doing this, also look up the Womensaid website for domestic violence help. Not sure if you're the man or woman- the website helps both men and women though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked

Your posts are confusing people

If you spell out in clear sentences what you witnessed / experienced, people may be able to help you

At the moment, Columbo would struggle with this one, never mind us lot"

Are you inferring that Fab patrons are a little bit dim?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked

Take screenshots of any messages. Contact Admin via report button on your profile. It can take up to 48 hours for them to reply.

Speak to the police directly and give them the screenshots.

If it's your partner doing this, also look up the Womensaid website for domestic violence help. Not sure if you're the man or woman- the website helps both men and women though. "
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Great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heres what I witnessed, on a males profile she clicked on menu then wink, which hid the fact they had been messaging, her emails were linked to the profile and she could see what messages were coming through, I was literally being pushed into a threesome for money, from my phone I couldn't get this information because mine wasnt the registered admin person. I am now desperate for information as we have a child etc and being made crazy although I witnessed this. I'm desperate for any help or information someone can give me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked

Your posts are confusing people

If you spell out in clear sentences what you witnessed / experienced, people may be able to help you

At the moment, Columbo would struggle with this one, never mind us lot

Are you inferring that Fab patrons are a little bit dim? "

Well I am, cos I can't make head nor tail what the OP is on about

I am only usually this confused when my 90% deaf Mum tries to tell me the plot of a film she has half watched, a quarter slept through and a quarter misheard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This isnt funny

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Heres what I witnessed, on a males profile she clicked on menu then wink, which hid the fact they had been messaging, her emails were linked to the profile and she could see what messages were coming through, I was literally being pushed into a threesome for money, from my phone I couldn't get this information because mine wasnt the registered admin person. I am now desperate for information as we have a child etc and being made crazy although I witnessed this. I'm desperate for any help or information someone can give me "

Sounds like she is party to the profile, or she has their log in details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heres what I witnessed, on a males profile she clicked on menu then wink, which hid the fact they had been messaging, her emails were linked to the profile and she could see what messages were coming through, I was literally being pushed into a threesome for money, from my phone I couldn't get this information because mine wasnt the registered admin person. I am now desperate for information as we have a child etc and being made crazy although I witnessed this. I'm desperate for any help or information someone can give me "

Was it in this site?

Who is 'she' who clicked on the profile? Your partner?

Are you a man or woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A name I didnt choose, why dont you all try and be pimped out for a threesome for money when I didnt want to, then look for evidence then get mocked

Your posts are confusing people

If you spell out in clear sentences what you witnessed / experienced, people may be able to help you

At the moment, Columbo would struggle with this one, never mind us lot

Are you inferring that Fab patrons are a little bit dim?

Well I am, cos I can't make head nor tail what the OP is on about

I am only usually this confused when my 90% deaf Mum tries to tell me the plot of a film she has half watched, a quarter slept through and a quarter misheard "

I'm a tad clueless as to what the OP means too.

His last 'clarification' has not clarified nuffink

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This isnt funny "

No it isn't funny. Have you approached the police, if that is appropriate to do.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm sorry I don't understand, but I hope you get the help you need.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I dont want to put things here, I am male, things were getting filtered and I seen messages I shouldn't have. I witness on her phone doing what I said about and any evidence of messaging was hidden, I would hrately appreciate any help possible as now I'm in need of help really badly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have bit looking for evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol.

Well I have a question for anyone that can help.

I recently seen a feature with an account that had admin and on a profile they pressed menu then wink and this hid any messaging history, they also rather than blocked the person filtered them as something else. Has anyone else witnessed this?

Nope.

TBH I don't know WTF you're on about

I confuse easily "

Glad you think that as well. I can’t make head or tail of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Basically if you go on to an I individuals profile and in corner click on menu then click wink she basically hid that they had been talking. If the you then reversed it, it showed as normal.happy to chat with admin about this

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Heres what I witnessed, on a males profile she clicked on menu then wink, which hid the fact they had been messaging, her emails were linked to the profile and she could see what messages were coming through, I was literally being pushed into a threesome for money, from my phone I couldn't get this information because mine wasnt the registered admin person. I am now desperate for information as we have a child etc and being made crazy although I witnessed this. I'm desperate for any help or information someone can give me "

You could report the males profile, you mention, with your concerns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read through this 3 times and still have no idea what the hell is going on.

With that in mind, I'll say that Professor Gates did it, in the IT server room, with the VPN enabled Sonic Screwdriver.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

To clarify - your female partner has arranged for you (a male) to have a threesome for money against your will and has a way of hiding the thread of conversation on Fab ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Heres what I witnessed, on a males profile she clicked on menu then wink, which hid the fact they had been messaging, her emails were linked to the profile and she could see what messages were coming through, I was literally being pushed into a threesome for money, from my phone I couldn't get this information because mine wasnt the registered admin person. I am now desperate for information as we have a child etc and being made crazy although I witnessed this. I'm desperate for any help or information someone can give me

You could report the males profile, you mention, with your concerns.

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I could but now men in question profiles are all blocked so I cannot access to report. Would appreciate a chat with admin to explain what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To clarify - your female partner has arranged for you (a male) to have a threesome for money against your will and has a way of hiding the thread of conversation on Fab ?"

In my opinion yes, now I need to show people this has happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best we all avoid talking any further. Sure a Mod will come along soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really do hope so. I dont want to give details etc just need some clarification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Elephant Bukkake!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I’ll have a pint of the same please.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You saw them do that in person? So they must be an Admin?"

Ruggers reckoned she saw me walking down the road about 4 years ago

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I really do hope so. I dont want to give details etc just need some clarification "

Obviously don't put any names on the open forum, unfortunately admin can take a while to get back to you and they are the only ones who can help. If you feel in any danger, you should go to the police.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really do hope so. I dont want to give details etc just need some clarification

Obviously don't put any names on the open forum, unfortunately admin can take a while to get back to you and they are the only ones who can help. If you feel in any danger, you should go to the police."

I have but as we both agreed to come I get made to feel it's my fault, I seen this feature and this will seriously help in something more than swinging, if someone could just give me 2 mins of there time. I dont want anything other than information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think it was allowed to post a mobile number in forum threads.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I didn't think it was allowed to post a mobile number in forum threads."

It might not be allowed but people still do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be consigned to the thread bin of doom shortly anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question for admin, rather than using the contact as I feel they are to just to read everyone, are there any admin around to contact direct? "

Contact them through the proper channels.they sorted my problem out within 12 hours.they are very helpful

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have a question for admin, rather than using the contact as I feel they are to just to read everyone, are there any admin around to contact direct?

Contact them through the proper channels.they sorted my problem out within 12 hours.they are very helpful"

He says he has but still waiting for a reply.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you've contacted admin via the contact button they always read the message. If there is any help they can give they will get back to you.

What you describe won't do anything other than send a wink to a profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am as confused as the rest.

What I will say is....you can't hide E-mails...only save or delete them. Admins don't have a way to hide them either. I doubt very much that the G/F is an Admin.

If someone is pimping you out, report the profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

After reading the rest and you clarifying to a poster, yes your OH can save messages in a saved folder and show you at a later date.

There is no hocus pocus going on

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