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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I get the wife to go to a club with me as a couple... Think she will go mad

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Simple, you don't "get" her to do anything - you have an open and honest conversation with her about the idea and how it appeals to you and why, all the while being prepared to accept that she might say it's not for her, and if she does accepting and respecting that choice.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"The wife"

She is a person, not an accessory...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Simple, you don't "get" her to do anything - you have an open and honest conversation with her about the idea and how it appeals to you and why, all the while being prepared to accept that she might say it's not for her, and if she does accepting and respecting that choice."

This.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No words.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trail of Miniatures Heroes to the door then slap her arse and push her in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get the wife to go to a club with me as a couple... Think she will go mad "

Go with the first response in the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s not a secret phrase that makes women do your will. If it’s not her thing, you won’t get her to go. Work on your relationship, building up trust and communication and seeing if you can explore together. Not everyone will want to.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Start by showing her your single male profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit her down and explain that you’d like her to consider attending a club with you explaining exactly why you think she’d enjoy it as part of your happy marriage.

You never know... she may have already attended some and hump at the chance to show off her skills to you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P"

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh... "

Did they have baggy trousers ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ? "

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need a like button on here to some of the comments lol madness lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a like button on here to some of the comments lol madness lol "

Some of the threads, I think you mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really "

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or puts me in hospital for a week lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P"

The OP could take his wife to a house of fun..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What driving in my car

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P

The OP could take his wife to a house of fun.."

She takes it the wrong way he may not be saying it's our house any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P

The OP could take his wife to a house of fun.."

Think it might be one step beyond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P

The OP could take his wife to a house of fun..

She takes it the wrong way he may not be saying it's our house any more "

Packing his cases.... "my girl's mad at me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start by showing her your single male profile on here "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could always tell her you have tickets to see her favourite singer in a secret location, when you get there the singer unsurprisingly has laryngitis and cancels without warning. "Oh well, whilst we're her ewe may aswell look around"

Or you could be honest with your wife.

Madness eh?

Don't have an lol for ya as I don't find it funny.

P

I've seen Madness play in many different venues down the years but a swingers club would be a first

Oooohhhhhhhhh...

Did they have baggy trousers ?

No, it was all a bit of an embarassment really

Can only hope if he mentions it, the shock doesn't give her a cardiac arrest

P

The OP could take his wife to a house of fun..

She takes it the wrong way he may not be saying it's our house any more

Packing his cases.... "my girl's mad at me"

"

He'll certainly no longer be the prince and it may well be a grey day for him when she tells him to shut up, in fact he may just end up being one of yesterdays men to her if he's not careful to avoid the shame and scandal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What driving in my car "

Reply + quote and we’ll know who you are responding to

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


""The wife"

She is a person, not an accessory..."

.....Fuck Me.....I need to rethink my whole outlook on life and women in general it seems....

*Mind Blown*....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her. And ask her to read thoughts of others. We went first time this year. What s great night. Relaxed, no idiots pissed up...friendly....no pressure. We were nervous as hell but was brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trail of Miniatures Heroes to the door then slap her arse and push her in "

Lol

Genuine lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If it goes wrong I will get the night boat to cairo

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Trail of Miniatures Heroes to the door then slap her arse and push her in "

Just because that works with me, doesn't mean it will work with her

Although I suspect it would

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If it goes wrong I will get the night boat to cairo"

In all honesty it went wrong with your opening post - the honest and serious answer from me is the one right below that opening post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you delete this all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you delete this all lol "

You can’t but you can report to admin and ask them - if feeling charitable they might delete it

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