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By *abat40x OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the point myself. Are they still recently active?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's obviously a point for staying if the profile is still here. I don't see why it would be any of my concern

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Some people aren’t here to meet.

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By *abat40x OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire


"Can't see the point myself. Are they still recently active?"

Yeah some are even site supporters lol why waste your money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, but as an M profile isn't it harder to message and chat?

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By *abat40x OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

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Don't get why be here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

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You may have hit the nail on the head there

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then "

Most are pic collectors and here for the wank bank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then "

Maybe to chat as well although without a verified profile most people won't reply.

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By *abat40x OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Most are pic collectors and here for the wank bank "

Guess so free porn

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I've had a few of these contact me. I guess some people don't learn, and remain ever hopeful that someone will swoon at their effortlessness and jump at the chance.

I don't think I'd bother to stay, and it seems pointless to me, but hey, each to their own.

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts "

Also for some the trill and chase or build up to a meet is more of a turn on than the meet it’s self. Which takes time and effort on there part.

Can be a bit of an ego boost too. They’re are soo many reasons why. That’s just a few

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Most are pic collectors and here for the wank bank

Guess so free porn "

free interactive porn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Most are pic collectors and here for the wank bank

Guess so free porn "

Seems a high effort way to get free porn though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts "

Alot of people do have meets but just dont have veris on. I catch up with someone off here every couple of months but neither of us do a verification

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We had a few singles message us early in our fab adventure. No veris etc but being new didn't really know the score. Organised meets and swapped pics etc then came the excuses why they had to back out. Were not fooled that easily now and watermark out pics too as some friends messages years ago saying some of our pics as well as other swingers were up on another website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then "

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. "

And yes I am verified but it's from my partner and he verified me just so I can use forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. "

Xbox and PS4 could be more exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me they mean nothing and for many people the same applies, you can't judge anyone by someone else's opinion, they amount to bragging keep what you do to yourself less negativity that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. Xbox and PS4 could be more exciting "

Not really. I'm not into violent games and it feels like companies these days don't make any other kind of games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the just want to talk dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. Xbox and PS4 could be more exciting

Not really. I'm not into violent games and it feels like companies these days don't make any other kind of games. "

I find monopoly on there a good value family game and there’s lots of horsey riding stuff for the kids, plenty of football and action games it’s not all about call of duty but it soon will be

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

Don't get why be here then

Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. "

^this^

And forum socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound as judgemental as the other thread saying fabbers are sleazy i dont have issue with it people do many things for many reasons i dont like flying so id never do skydiving dont mean u should begrudge they prob get summat out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live.

Live and let them perve. Or wank. Or both. Or chat. Or whatever.

If only I had your worries and prime minister's salary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m unverified... yes it probably does ‘hold me back’ in terms of getting meets etc.

But I really enjoy just looking at pics, chatting .. sex is just a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.

I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.

Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.

I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.

Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere."

so because you don't have a veri you havnt started omg I'm a non starter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not verified, beyond photo verification, and have had no meets this time around unfortunately, due to health reasons and personal circumstance.

This is clearly stated on my profile and it hasn’t stopped me from getting message responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Fab a lot longer than that before I got my first verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.

I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.

Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere."

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Loads of folk don’t like having veries because a) it can cause drama b) it blows the “i don’t meet that often” right out the water c) they just don’t like reviewing someone.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I suppose it would depend on what I wanted from the site.

Not everyone wants a verification or shows them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need verifications to prove anything to anyone. Nor do I feel the need to verify others, usually, although I have in the past.

Collecting ticks to justify my life here to others, is not why I'm here, and what I may enjoy with those others is for us alone to share, without shouting it from the treetops....

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By *ornsterMan
over a year ago

Southport

Maybe if the site could get rid of all the timewasters and the ones that give abuse and let the genuine males have a chance there would be no reason to ask the question!!

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Some people aren’t here to meet.

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Or they meet unverified men as they prefer not to be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if the site could get rid of all the timewasters and the ones that give abuse and let the genuine males have a chance there would be no reason to ask the question!!"

Would you care to define " genuine" males? Or even tell all here who has the right to determine if another is "genuine" and therefore permitted to be here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re verified but not in the last year because we can’t find a new couple to play with where there is some attraction between us all. We’ve had socials but declined playing so you feel bad asking someone you’ve rejected for a veri.

Don’t feel like leaving the site but a year can go by quite quickly without a play meet and this veri with anyone new.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

There are no rules to swinging, people use the site as they choose, I use it the way I choose, it has little impact on anyone else. Use the site the way you want to and don’t worry about other people

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Maybe if the site could get rid of all the timewasters and the ones that give abuse and let the genuine males have a chance there would be no reason to ask the question!!"

Yeahhhh, shorten those odds

It still doesn’t mean every woman/couple on here would want to meet you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you haven't been verified in the last year?

Should you have to leave?

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By *ornsterMan
over a year ago

Southport

Why would someone expect every women/couple would want to meet them. If someone doesn't like you move on, surely people aren't that deluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that easy to get verified without going to clubs.

I've been here for months with no verification and by the way things are going I will be here over a year with none.

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By *ornsterMan
over a year ago

Southport

Genuine male, this should be someone respectful, non abusive, can take no for an answer, doesn't send message after message if someone doesn't reply straight away, if you arrange to meet, turn up! If you send a pic make sure its one of yourself not someone else, be honest in your description of yourself.

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