FabSwingers.com forum: club shhh friendly atmosphere?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking at my first club visit in a few weeks. Just to socialise at first. What night is best for a newcomer? Will people talk with me? I'm overweight,is that ok? There is no FAQ on the website or did I miss it?. Serious replies only please.

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't know the club, although have heard good things about it, so can't answer as to which is best night.

As for will people talk to you, it will be up to you to be sociable and open to chatting as well as not being a pest - eye contact and a smile and a friendly "hi mind If I join you?" is the way to go, with an acceptance that some may say no.

People of all shapes and sizes go to clubs, so hopefully that answers the latter question.

Go with no expectations and treat it like a night out in a pub (without getting d*unk) being prepared to chat to people and not gawp and you won't go far wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't know the club, although have heard good things about it, so can't answer as to which is best night.

People of all shapes and sizes go to clubs, so hopefully that answers the latter question.

Go with no expectations and treat it like a night out in a pub (without getting d*unk) being prepared to chat to people and not gawp and you won't go far wrong"

Thanks. Just trying to find my feet so to speak.