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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up

If you are invited out for lunch... And told your being treated to lunch... would you then feel a little put out on being told at presentation of the bill... your paying????

Not going halves but paying...

Had this today and im really a little put out... Not least the fact that I'd driven over to them and always do.

This is a none fab acquaintance... Im feeling a bit taken the piss out of if I'm honest.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. I don't mind paying for lunch, dinner whatever but that would get on my nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are invited out for lunch... And told your being treated to lunch... would you then feel a little put out on being told at presentation of the bill... your paying????

Not going halves but paying...

Had this today and im really a little put out... Not least the fact that I'd driven over to them and always do.

This is a none fab acquaintance... Im feeling a bit taken the piss out of if I'm honest. "

To be fair, you did get some lunch.

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Yes. I don't mind paying for lunch, dinner whatever but that would get on my nerves."
yeah ive got no issues paying my way or paying but when invited out as a treat.... its really irked me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds inconsiderate to me. Is this a good enough friend to ask about it? Or to assume they’re paying next time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have had to say something! Just a jokey ‘hey I thought this was your treat!’ Shame as you might be reluctant to meet this person again for lunch?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I don't mind paying for lunch, dinner whatever but that would get on my nerves. yeah ive got no issues paying my way or paying but when invited out as a treat.... its really irked me x"

I'd be very pissed off. I wouldn't go out with them again. It's more than rude, it's shit.

Thought you were going to say they'd asked you to pay half. I'm pissed off on your behalf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have invited you then then at the very least you would expect is to split the bill.

You wouldn’t invite someone over to your home for dinner and expect them to bring the food

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up


"If you are invited out for lunch... And told your being treated to lunch... would you then feel a little put out on being told at presentation of the bill... your paying????

Not going halves but paying...

Had this today and im really a little put out... Not least the fact that I'd driven over to them and always do.

This is a none fab acquaintance... Im feeling a bit taken the piss out of if I'm honest.

To be fair, you did get some lunch."
which I was quite happy to go home to get or cook... He wanted my company for longer do invited me out for lunch..

And yes ive approached it with him too

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ha ha that’s just mean In both senses.

Rightfully feel aggrieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would have happened if you didn't have any money. As you thought it was on them

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london


"Yes. I don't mind paying for lunch, dinner whatever but that would get on my nerves."

Best way to be

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up


"What would have happened if you didn't have any money. As you thought it was on them"
I only had money on me for my bills... which i had to use. We arent talking loads of money... but I was more than a little embarrassed when argued with about whose paying at the end.

Good job id had the cheapest meal on the menu really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would have happened if you didn't have any money. As you thought it was on them"

Yeah should have said sorry got no money fuck right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully he will see the error and return the favour next time.

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By *ittleMissCali OP   Woman
over a year ago

all loved up


"What would have happened if you didn't have any money. As you thought it was on them

Yeah should have said sorry got no money fuck right off. "
he had seen me withdraw some cash from the bank. Already used my 33% discount too.

I was feeling narked and wondered if i was just being a mardy bitch for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would have happened if you didn't have any money. As you thought it was on them

Yeah should have said sorry got no money fuck right off. he had seen me withdraw some cash from the bank. Already used my 33% discount too.

I was feeling narked and wondered if i was just being a mardy bitch for nothing "

No it's definitely not you. X It's rude as heck.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't think anyone would be expecting to pay for lunch is some is treating you. You be prepared for the possibility of 50/50 split but it's fair to asume if you being treated is being paid for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I invite someone for lunch, I pay. If they invite me, I offer to pay.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

I'd be pretty annoyed if I was invited for lunch then expected to pay. Unless it was agreed/mentioned beforehand.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I've had men offer to take me for lunch,I always decline on the basis that I can't afford it if they then ask me to pay half afterwards

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