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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seem to be so many people on here who need a boost. Whenever I've asked for help on here someone has come forward but it isn't always easy to ask for it.

So for all the people who arent comfortable in their bodies and craving some attention,who are going through a shitty time, stuck in a wank marriage or just who need someone to talk to, why not reach out to them, no judging, no sarcastic comments just be a nice person..it is Friday after all and it's good for your soul.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You big meanies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You big meanies "
suits me

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton


"You big meanies "

Would a Joe Pasquale impression help?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

It's a beautiful day. Maybe everyone is happy feeling the love and enjoying life....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t know anyone that’s feeling that way but I think it’s a lovely thread. We can be a supportive lot when we put our minds to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a beautiful day. Maybe everyone is happy feeling the love and enjoying life...."

I really hope so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t know anyone that’s feeling that way but I think it’s a lovely thread. We can be a supportive lot when we put our minds to it "

Very true! Who would have thought it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always here for my chums and if your feeling down , please drop me a line

We are all wonderfully unique , brilliant people

All of us feel a tad glum at times and it's ok to feel blue .

We never know what's happening in people's lives , we all need to learn to judge less and open our selves to compassion

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I've always got love for all....we are all wonderful in our own ways people....don't ever think you aren't....god....how much drink did I have last night....that's way to profound for me....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm only ever a pm away if anyone wants a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always got love for all....we are all wonderful in our own ways people....don't ever think you aren't....god....how much drink did I have last night....that's way to profound for me.... "

That sounds like a really nice hangover though.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I love to chat and I'm a very positive person so always happy to be here for others to share their woes with - I can't ever promise to resolve them but, a problem shared is a problem halved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last of my closest friends has lipsticks and moved so for the last 2 months I've been a little out of sorts. I have my housemates there to keep me company and go for drinks with etc but we aren't as close I was with my best friends. It's kinda left a void in my life that i need to fill. I'm not looking for the answer on here, it's just something I haven't spoken about to my family or anyone and I thought just putting it out there on this thread might be therapeutic.

It kinda has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good vagina everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely thread. Not always easy to ask for help even off friends x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a good vagina everyone "

I always do

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"

That sounds like a really nice hangover though. "

.....it doesn't feel like one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last of my closest friends has lipsticks and moved so for the last 2 months I've been a little out of sorts. I have my housemates there to keep me company and go for drinks with etc but we aren't as close I was with my best friends. It's kinda left a void in my life that i need to fill. I'm not looking for the answer on here, it's just something I haven't spoken about to my family or anyone and I thought just putting it out there on this thread might be therapeutic.

It kinda has been "

Sometimes it helps to just say it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last of my closest friends has lipsticks and moved so for the last 2 months I've been a little out of sorts. I have my housemates there to keep me company and go for drinks with etc but we aren't as close I was with my best friends. It's kinda left a void in my life that i need to fill. I'm not looking for the answer on here, it's just something I haven't spoken about to my family or anyone and I thought just putting it out there on this thread might be therapeutic.

It kinda has been

Sometimes it helps to just say it. X

"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always here for my chums and if your feeling down , please drop me a line

We are all wonderfully unique , brilliant people

All of us feel a tad glum at times and it's ok to feel blue .

We never know what's happening in people's lives , we all need to learn to judge less and open our selves to compassion "

You are just so lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sending big squishy hugs to all those that need one xxx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Great Post, we are a supportive bunch when we need to be.

Hugs to all that need them.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your eyes can deceive you dont trust them reach out with your feelings

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I could use a big hug today. I'm putting up storm shutters and packing. My three dogs and I are heading to my mothers home to ride out hurricane Dorian.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I could use a big hug today. I'm putting up storm shutters and packing. My three dogs and I are heading to my mothers home to ride out hurricane Dorian.

"

Stay safe - sending you all the hugs you need (and the dogs as well)

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Im always happy to chat.. I have some lovely friends on here and hope they would ring or message me if they needed me.

Sending big squishy huggles to anyone who needs one

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

sounds like my kinda place. Groundhogs day and listless, bored, uninspired and it's so difficult finding interesting people, nevermind developing a rapport.

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By *rCheeky44Man
over a year ago

a town near you

I have issues with my weight since I was ill two years ago.

Was on holiday this month and meet a couple who went though the same. Chatted with them and since being back I have changed my life. Joined slimming world, swim 3 times a week, go for a walk each day

Been doing that now two weeks and feel like my life is different already. Feel happier fitter and healthier

All that from talking to two strangers on holiday ( friends now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy to chat with anyone who needs to...just PM me.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’m on a roller coaster ride and it’s a downward run at the moment...

Strange how things can change your life so quickly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to chat with anyone in need as long as that person doesn't drive a white Kia ceed.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I am happy to chat with anyone in need as long as that person doesn't drive a white Kia ceed. "

What is it that’s the issue the whiteness or the Kia ceed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to chat with anyone in need as long as that person doesn't drive a white Kia ceed.

What is it that’s the issue the whiteness or the Kia ceed? "

Both combined

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"I am happy to chat with anyone in need as long as that person doesn't drive a white Kia ceed.

What is it that’s the issue the whiteness or the Kia ceed?

Both combined "

When I read that i thoughg it was gonna say rides a white steed..

Can't say I'll have any answers, If anyone needs an ear to talk to.. "I'm listening"

and cos' itz internet based lots of c i a agents are as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your eyes can deceive you dont trust them reach out with your feelings"

Trust me! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sounds like my kinda place. Groundhogs day and listless, bored, uninspired and it's so difficult finding interesting people, nevermind developing a rapport.

"

Have a hug and a reach out (around)

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I do believe we are all in the same situation everyone needs somebody to talk to at some point in there life. Some of us are lucky and have lots of close friends and maybe even family they can turn to for that support and use as a sounding board others are not so lucky for those,It's good to let people know there is always someone here to talk too. Even though some of the forum thread reply's may look as if people don't care and everything is just a joke to them, I do believe deep down most people on here do care. I maybe wrong but it comes as part of swinging.

I maybe totally wrong on that but it is just a the feel I get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m on a roller coaster ride and it’s a downward run at the moment...

Strange how things can change your life so quickly... "

PM if you fancy a rant and a new prospective xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am happy to chat with anyone in need as long as that person doesn't drive a white Kia ceed. "

Ffs so close. It's a good job I already chat to you

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I'm here if anyone would like to chat..I'm a good listener.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do believe we are all in the same situation everyone needs somebody to talk to at some point in there life. Some of us are lucky and have lots of close friends and maybe even family they can turn to for that support and use as a sounding board others are not so lucky for those,It's good to let people know there is always someone here to talk too. Even though some of the forum thread reply's may look as if people don't care and everything is just a joke to them, I do believe deep down most people on here do care. I maybe wrong but it comes as part of swinging.

I maybe totally wrong on that but it is just a the feel I get. "

I think it's a mixed bag. Some people can use someone chink in their armour against them or a hidden agenda. LOO is correct you need to be careful who you trust ot take advice from but there are a lot of genuine people here.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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What a lovely thread OP, x

I'd like to think that people know they can reach out to me whenever they want to about whatever and I'll be there for them. Sometimes it's difficult opening up because you feel like you're being odd, or annoying or a bit of a burden. You're not. It's good to talk and things really are better shared, regardless of how daft you think they are.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Just want to give a shout out to someone who gave me a needed boost today.

No need for names, hopefully they will see this and know, but thank you friend.

Any others gratefully received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea, OP. We all have times in our lives when we are feeling low and it helps to know that others are there to talk to.

As has been stated above, there are those who will mock and take advantage rather than offer support, but as with so many on here if anyone wants to chat or just a pick me up then drop me a message

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I’m on a roller coaster ride and it’s a downward run at the moment...

Strange how things can change your life so quickly...

PM if you fancy a rant and a new prospective xx"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be so many people on here who need a boost. Whenever I've asked for help on here someone has come forward but it isn't always easy to ask for it.

So for all the people who arent comfortable in their bodies and craving some attention,who are going through a shitty time, stuck in a wank marriage or just who need someone to talk to, why not reach out to them, no judging, no sarcastic comments just be a nice person..it is Friday after all and it's good for your soul. "

What a lovely idea..I'm feeling a little down and lonely at the moment, and all I crave is some nice squishy booby lady hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a lovely thread OP, x

I'd like to think that people know they can reach out to me whenever they want to about whatever and I'll be there for them. Sometimes it's difficult opening up because you feel like you're being odd, or annoying or a bit of a burden. You're not. It's good to talk and things really are better shared, regardless of how daft you think they are."

You're a good egg. X

Sometimes people ask for help and get none so they don't ever ask again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm pleased people are getting on board hopefully for some people it's now a happier Friday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pleased people are getting on board hopefully for some people it's now a happier Friday xx"

Keep it up. This site needs you.

Fab therapist! Love it. You'll have a job for life in sure

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love "

Do you need some hugs too?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Do you need some hugs too? "

Shut ya face you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Do you need some hugs too?

Shut ya face you.... "

Easy tiger!! You just know I was gonna give you one if you said yes

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Do you need some hugs too?

Shut ya face you....

Easy tiger!! You just know I was gonna give you one if you said yes "

Leave the lid on then.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love "

Sending a whole lot of love your way. A lot of respect to the women who love bikes. Let me know if you are ever cadwell way

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Sending a whole lot of love your way. A lot of respect to the women who love bikes. Let me know if you are ever cadwell way "

Thanku gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Sending a whole lot of love your way. A lot of respect to the women who love bikes. Let me know if you are ever cadwell way "

Hooray to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in glass houses nobody is whiter than white

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People in glass houses nobody is whiter than white"

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in glass houses nobody is whiter than white

Indeed "
wrong thread my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww nice thread OP....gimme some love

Do you need some hugs too?

Shut ya face you....

Easy tiger!! You just know I was gonna give you one if you said yes

Leave the lid on then..... "

For you...anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always a friendly ear to chat with. It’s hard to feel down or alone.

-Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling down

inbox me your boobs and booties please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling down

inbox me your boobs and booties please. "

Using my thread in vain haha

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think quite a few people who frequent the forums are good listeners and are supportive of people who, for whatever reason, are going through a rough patch.

Can't have enough of these positive threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think quite a few people who frequent the forums are good listeners and are supportive of people who, for whatever reason, are going through a rough patch.

Can't have enough of these positive threads "

True there are some really good people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be so many people on here who need a boost. Whenever I've asked for help on here someone has come forward but it isn't always easy to ask for it.

So for all the people who arent comfortable in their bodies and craving some attention,who are going through a shitty time, stuck in a wank marriage or just who need someone to talk to, why not reach out to them, no judging, no sarcastic comments just be a nice person..it is Friday after all and it's good for your soul. "

Sounds like my autobiography that's how I feel every single day the only way I get through the days is the smile on my kids faces I have learnt to accept it and live with it

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

There's a gig at Keele uni next Saturday to raise funds for Mind. Some great local bands & lovely people. Tickets are £11 with the booking fee. https://www.seetickets.com/event/mind-eachother-charity-event/keele-university-ballroom-staffordshire/1366988

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