FabSwingers.com forum: What to wear on a first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.

What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Just a condom.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hi heels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi heels."

You or your meet lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Hi heels.

You or your meet lol"

Me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what about who your meeting?

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

A nice shirt and trousers x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"And what about who your meeting?"

A wooly hat

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"And what about who your meeting?

A wooly hat

And nothing else

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"And what about who your meeting?

A wooly hat

And nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual and comfortable

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Clothes

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By *etenewcMan
over a year ago

County Durham

A smile

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Running shoes, just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as it's not a butchers apron and carrying a roll of gaffa tape and boning knife, then if they actually turn up I'm usually happy if they are wearing something that makes them feel at ease....

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Hi heels."

Who is heels?? Not seen them around the forums....

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Casual and comfortable

standard....smart jeans, nice shoes & a shirt....always a winner for us men surely...

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"So long as it's not a butchers apron and carrying a roll of gaffa tape and boning knife, then if they actually turn up I'm usually happy if they are wearing something that makes them feel at ease....

That’s me out then

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Casual and comfortable

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.

What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome "

The answer, would really depend on the person, the location, the time, the activity.

No set rules, each is totally individual

I could write a very long list of scenarios

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It depends on the meet and what we're doing - and I will tailor it to that - usually smart casual, or something appropriate to the meet and the weather.

As for the other person, whatever they are comfortable in - as I've told people in the past, I'm there to meet them not their clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clothes

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.

Decent aftershave is a turn on.

Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.

Good luck!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Casual and comfortable

standard....smart jeans, nice shoes & a shirt....always a winner for us men surely...

Yes I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be cool man just be cool

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.

Decent aftershave is a turn on.

Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.

Good luck!"

My last date turned up in a football shirt,I'm not going to lie I was slightly disappointed and he did say he felt under dressed I agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mankini?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.

Decent aftershave is a turn on.

Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.

Good luck!"

I wore a rugby shirt on a social last week in London, the guy was chuffed!

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By *woPlusUCouple
over a year ago

Heaven

Slim fitted jeans, fitted t shirt (no loud prints) or smart shirt. No trainers unless converse or vans.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Smart casual please. If you must wear trainers at least make sure they're clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my Davidoff's Cool Water.

That's usually enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the meet.. I've met people straight from work, in just shorts and t-shirt.. And also met when been done up to the 9s..

I think it's what you feel comfortable in, because confidence is so sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever is comfortable and fitting for your chosen meet location. If they don't to see you again because you turned up wearing your favourite ACDC t-shirt and some raggedy ass Jean's, 5hen maybe they weren't right for you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all something clean.

Whites should be white not grey.

Something you are comfortable in.

Then it depends on where you are meeting someone and something appropriate for there.

Oh and always clean socks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually got for a string vest (jamaica) colours, bootleg jeans and my new crocs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever he's comfortable wearing,it's the guy who I'm attracted to not his clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us guys are a little limited really two or three options jeans and shirt or tee-shirt boots or shoes, or trousers and a nice shirt underpants are optional

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Mankini?"

.....that's stays under my jeans and shirt for the after party....

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.

What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome "

Mrs likes the guy to be dressed smart,not suggesting a suit and tie but something that looks smart and does not suggest they have just come from work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be jeans and a smart tshirt with shoes. Unless the lady has a thing for guys in suits, then its my work suit

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a nice babydoll for the bedroom

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yessssss jeans and a T shirt & sexy casual for me. Everybody needs to feel comfortable & relaxed.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Then naughty outfits for me later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Running shoes, just in case

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

A white carnation glued to yr left nipple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago when I was younger.

It was easy.

We had suits a nice jacket and shirt and tie.

Then everyone started to wear jeans or tracksuits.

Normally now days I wear a nice pair of black jeans and black shoes and a shirt

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