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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying" Not just women, me and my father do as well. | |||
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"I don't do grudges nor revenge... Both are a massive waste of time and energy... And quite childish too" Need a job?  | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying" Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! | |||
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"I don't do grudges nor revenge... Both are a massive waste of time and energy... And quite childish too Need a job? "I do!  | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !!" There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis" I dont think you're being sexist. On average, at the moment.. women and men tend to behave in stereotypical ways. So there is truth in what you say. I think when you look closer.. It wont just be the women holding grudges. Men may just be better at hiding their disdain for you. Brushing things off in order to further their own agendas? The signs are there if you choose to look harder. Its definitely not a women/men thing.. or more accurately.. doesn't have to be. | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis I dont think you're being sexist. On average, at the moment.. women and men tend to behave in stereotypical ways. So there is truth in what you say. I think when you look closer.. It wont just be the women holding grudges. Men may just be better at hiding their disdain for you. Brushing things off in order to further their own agendas? The signs are there if you choose to look harder. Its definitely not a women/men thing.. or more accurately.. doesn't have to be." Ahh you may be right there. Great point! It might be that women are 'generally' more open with their emotions so choose to show what they feeling at that time. Men may have the same thoughts and then be quietly plotting my demise or buttering the stairs. Very interesting point of view. My initial thought was maybe it's like the playground mentality where as boys will choose to fight and then forgive quickly where as girls rarely fight. I don't want to comment on how girls handle their disputes because I was only ever a witness and never really involved. I only have the male point of view so hearing the females opinion is always of interest to me. I gotta admit I love the differences between men and women. And I love to discuss things like this without causing offence so please don't anyone take any | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis I dont think you're being sexist. On average, at the moment.. women and men tend to behave in stereotypical ways. So there is truth in what you say. I think when you look closer.. It wont just be the women holding grudges. Men may just be better at hiding their disdain for you. Brushing things off in order to further their own agendas? The signs are there if you choose to look harder. Its definitely not a women/men thing.. or more accurately.. doesn't have to be. Ahh you may be right there. Great point! It might be that women are 'generally' more open with their emotions so choose to show what they feeling at that time. Men may have the same thoughts and then be quietly plotting my demise or buttering the stairs. Very interesting point of view. My initial thought was maybe it's like the playground mentality where as boys will choose to fight and then forgive quickly where as girls rarely fight. I don't want to comment on how girls handle their disputes because I was only ever a witness and never really involved. I only have the male point of view so hearing the females opinion is always of interest to me. I gotta admit I love the differences between men and women. And I love to discuss things like this without causing offence so please don't anyone take any" There are differences, though they are largely society based. Men can be taught to be more open with their emotions. Women can bd taught to man-up.. Then you have the minority who dont give a fuck about Society and just are who they are. I've never managed people, nobody including myself has ever given me the opportunity to do so. I suspect I'd be good at it though, because I like all the psychology that goes with it. People watching and reading. | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying" Men is just waiting his time.... | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis I dont think you're being sexist. On average, at the moment.. women and men tend to behave in stereotypical ways. So there is truth in what you say. I think when you look closer.. It wont just be the women holding grudges. Men may just be better at hiding their disdain for you. Brushing things off in order to further their own agendas? The signs are there if you choose to look harder. Its definitely not a women/men thing.. or more accurately.. doesn't have to be. Ahh you may be right there. Great point! It might be that women are 'generally' more open with their emotions so choose to show what they feeling at that time. Men may have the same thoughts and then be quietly plotting my demise or buttering the stairs. Very interesting point of view. My initial thought was maybe it's like the playground mentality where as boys will choose to fight and then forgive quickly where as girls rarely fight. I don't want to comment on how girls handle their disputes because I was only ever a witness and never really involved. I only have the male point of view so hearing the females opinion is always of interest to me. I gotta admit I love the differences between men and women. And I love to discuss things like this without causing offence so please don't anyone take any There are differences, though they are largely society based. Men can be taught to be more open with their emotions. Women can bd taught to man-up.. Then you have the minority who dont give a fuck about Society and just are who they are. I've never managed people, nobody including myself has ever given me the opportunity to do so. I suspect I'd be good at it though, because I like all the psychology that goes with it. People watching and reading. " Oh yeah I completely agree. To use someone else's words (Tim Michin) to make my opinion 'A famous bon mot asserts that opinions are like arse-holes, in that everyone has one. There is great wisdom in this… but I would add that opinions differ significantly from arse-holes, in that yours should be constantly and thoroughly examined. We must think critically, and not just about the ideas of others. Be hard on your beliefs.' Society definitely dictates how we act. We are always open to change but sometimes society has such a hold on how we should act that the majority will choose not to be open to being different. Yep there's a major psychology to it. You have to generally treat everyone differently to get the most out of them. At times I feel like I'm being untrue to myself having to treat someone who I see as a bad person with respect just to get them to work but then I just think who am I to decide who deserves respect or not? I think my brain is a little bit over loaded and I need to meditate more | |||
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"Why do women hold grudges for so long? Just starting to notice within my profession: If you discipline a man and a woman for the same thing the man will not think anything of it the next day where as you are now dead to the woman and have slim to no chances of ever getting back in her good books... Why is this? Reminds of the old saying Maybe you having that stereotypical attitude doesn’t help?? Know equal amounts of men and women who can hold a good grudge !! There's probably a reason there is a 'stereotypical attitude' but I try to look at every situation objectively and form my own opinion. This is something I've noticed from countless situations. It is not an attack on women as you are right some men do hold grudges. Especially alpha types who are not used to being told what to do. If I'm generalising on my encounters with women they are much more caring, empathetic and loving and I think more suited to rule. Men can be seen as weak or vulnerable if they show these qualities. But we are all flawed and this is one thing I have noticed as I encounter lots of people in this capacity on a daily basis I dont think you're being sexist. On average, at the moment.. women and men tend to behave in stereotypical ways. So there is truth in what you say. I think when you look closer.. It wont just be the women holding grudges. Men may just be better at hiding their disdain for you. Brushing things off in order to further their own agendas? The signs are there if you choose to look harder. Its definitely not a women/men thing.. or more accurately.. doesn't have to be. Ahh you may be right there. Great point! It might be that women are 'generally' more open with their emotions so choose to show what they feeling at that time. Men may have the same thoughts and then be quietly plotting my demise or buttering the stairs. Very interesting point of view. My initial thought was maybe it's like the playground mentality where as boys will choose to fight and then forgive quickly where as girls rarely fight. I don't want to comment on how girls handle their disputes because I was only ever a witness and never really involved. I only have the male point of view so hearing the females opinion is always of interest to me. I gotta admit I love the differences between men and women. And I love to discuss things like this without causing offence so please don't anyone take any There are differences, though they are largely society based. Men can be taught to be more open with their emotions. Women can bd taught to man-up.. Then you have the minority who dont give a fuck about Society and just are who they are. I've never managed people, nobody including myself has ever given me the opportunity to do so. I suspect I'd be good at it though, because I like all the psychology that goes with it. People watching and reading. Oh yeah I completely agree. To use someone else's words (Tim Michin) to make my opinion 'A famous bon mot asserts that opinions are like arse-holes, in that everyone has one. There is great wisdom in this… but I would add that opinions differ significantly from arse-holes, in that yours should be constantly and thoroughly examined. We must think critically, and not just about the ideas of others. Be hard on your beliefs.' Society definitely dictates how we act. We are always open to change but sometimes society has such a hold on how we should act that the majority will choose not to be open to being different. Yep there's a major psychology to it. You have to generally treat everyone differently to get the most out of them. At times I feel like I'm being untrue to myself having to treat someone who I see as a bad person with respect just to get them to work but then I just think who am I to decide who deserves respect or not? I think my brain is a little bit over loaded and I need to meditate more" If that's the way you feel.. you're probably a decent, fair boss to work for. There's more to being an effective leader than figures and facts. I'd say your thought process is clear and healthy, so if Meditation is part of that routine. Go for it | |||
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"There are certain personality types. Some are naturally forgiving. Some can only forgive so much. Some will never forgive an unjust punishment/talking to/disciplining and WILL lose all respect for a boss, manager, person previously held in regard. Some will never forgive. I don't think gender comes into it. "  | |||
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