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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because they do

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Its like their taboo.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes because they do"

You can't be serious lol

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"Yes because they do

You can't be serious lol "

... John McEnroe.....sorry wrong game.. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because they do

You can't be serious lol "

I am and don't call me Shirley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed"

Then they're not straight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant to say gay not fay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when did 'straight' on a profile mean heterosexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

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Do you genuinely think that people who identify as straight men don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like their taboo..... "

2 straight men fucking each other is hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed"

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes because they do

You can't be serious lol

I am and don't call me Shirley "

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

It does seem to be like a bucket list thing for some gay bi guys..

Not my thing.. Each to their own.

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By *irty Girl 1984Couple
over a year ago

peterlee


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Do they not mean Straight acting men?

Also you wouldn’t believe how many guys claim to be straight when they’re not because it puts people off.

Try clicking on any popular transgender and take a look at how many “straight” guys have left veri’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because they do

You can't be serious lol

I am and don't call me Shirley "

Can I call you Sandra?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight?

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Do you genuinely think that people who identify as straight men don't? "

I think someone who is straight is straight.

You are either straight, bi or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some dress as women to achieve this...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Do they not mean Straight acting men?

Also you wouldn’t believe how many guys claim to be straight when they’re not because it puts people off.

Try clicking on any popular transgender and take a look at how many “straight” guys have left veri’s."

I think they mean straight men. Not just straight acting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight? "

Exactly

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight?

Exactly "

.....its not gay if you close your eyes.....PRISON RULES!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Then they're not straight...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight? "

Ain't that the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?"

Probably because the men are mailing actual straight men. X

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They may be straight when I meet them

They ain’t when they leave

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?"

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Because fab straight is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

I’d say that when a guy get horny. He’s ready to fuck just about anything. Even a pie.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place. "

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

yes....... If you don't ask you don't get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?

Probably because the men are mailing actual straight men. X "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site? "

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've had sex with straight men.

When they first message me I always ask if they don't mind meeting a TV. They all say no, not at all and most say I've met Tv's & men before??

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

I get pestered by guys offering this and that, but my profile says not looking for men / chancers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

"

An uptight straight man wouldnt no, but an adventurous straight man might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DUDE!! Its only gay if you talk about your feelings after the deed!?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

You have only been on here 4 months, give it a year you may find out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had sex with straight men.

When they first message me I always ask if they don't mind meeting a TV. They all say no, not at all and most say I've met Tv's & men before?? "

You've had sex with straight men

Hahaha

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I wouldn't say no to a gay Woman or two

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

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They do,and I'm not deluded at all,but that's irrelevant.It's your "ugh" comment that is offensive

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Block all Men from messaging makes life for a straight Man a lot easier,

People on fab can be unpredictable, Non smokers meet smokers, People not meeting still meet and "straight" Men meet other Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

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I think rather than call other people deluded maybe you could look at this from a far less narrow perspective than you currently are.

Lots of people of all orientations who have been on the scene and on the site a lot longer than you have are all saying that 'straight' men fuck other men and TVs. And while the debate of does that mean they are heterosexual is a valid one it doesn't alter the fact they claim to be.

Dismissing that this happens, calling people deluded and coming across as a bit of a homophobe with the levels of disgust shown probably doesn't come across that well to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

They do,and I'm not deluded at all,but that's irrelevant.It's your "ugh" comment that is offensive "

Ugh, huh whatever it means, wasn't meant to be offensive.

I find it funny and daft that people think like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

It’s a paradox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

I think rather than call other people deluded maybe you could look at this from a far less narrow perspective than you currently are.

Lots of people of all orientations who have been on the scene and on the site a lot longer than you have are all saying that 'straight' men fuck other men and TVs. And while the debate of does that mean they are heterosexual is a valid one it doesn't alter the fact they claim to be.

Dismissing that this happens, calling people deluded and coming across as a bit of a homophobe with the levels of disgust shown probably doesn't come across that well to be honest..."

I'm not dismissing that people don't have sex, however the men who do this are bisexual and not straight, because it is a bisexual act.

If I think it's a deluded way of thinking then that's fair comment. I can't see where I've come accross homophobic and I haven't shown any levels of disgust.

You are another bisexual man in denial. If i was attracted to men then I would shout it out and not hide it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know if some of you are being serious or just trying to take the piss

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

What does it matter what other people are or are not doing to each other and what they claim to be?

Surely all that matters to you is what you are doing and with whom, and that is your business.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Yes..

In the same way lot of guy's think women do..

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a straight man, you spend a lot of time thinking about what gay and bi men get up to OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

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It's impossible for a straight man to have sex with a gay man. In my _iew, as soon as said straight man contemplates having sex with another man, he becomes bi-curious and is no longer straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You are another bisexual man in denial. If i was attracted to men then I would shout it out and not hide it. "

So err, and I might regret asking this but how did you conclude that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a big gay fantasy about fucking a straight guy

If someone believes that because a guy is masculine and has a girlfriend that he is 'straight' and that adds to the hotness of the meet, then why not be allowed to believe that?

Reality and fantasy rarely rum hand in hand after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs ....."

I know I don't speak for all straight men. But two men who fuck each other are doing a bisexual/gay act.

How anyone can call them straight after participating in that is beyond me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It's a big gay fantasy about fucking a straight guy

If someone believes that because a guy is masculine and has a girlfriend that he is 'straight' and that adds to the hotness of the meet, then why not be allowed to believe that?

Reality and fantasy rarely rum hand in hand after all"

I think there's possibly a bit of a thrill in thinking you've tempted the straight guy to do something he wouldn't normally do. Where's the harm.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs .....

I know I don't speak for all straight men. But two men who fuck each other are doing a bisexual/gay act.

How anyone can call them straight after participating in that is beyond me. "

Go stick your cock in a glory hole knowing it's not just women there........what if you had it sucked by a guy and you had the best bj ever.....would you be bothered?....and don't say that's not sex....it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The harm is not reading the profile.

People get stick for messaging while not reading the profiles of women and couples, treat the poor misrepresented men of fab to the same standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be gay it's like a fantasy hence why I would only meet very straight acting manly men 90% most probably what say they are straight but alot of men would go with a man if the attraction is thier I'm gay and would let women do stuff to me if I was horny and thought they looked good same applys most just dont wanna be labelled bi as some women might be put of

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Yes.

I recall a conversation with a woman who worked in sexual health for the NHS.

She described to me one of their biggest challenges - men in their 30s and early 40s, usually married, outwardly heterosexual, engaged in same-sex activity.

I cannot remember the percentage now, but I do recall raising my eyebrows.

It was a huge challenge to someone like her, because this group was so hard to reach when it came to sexual health communications.

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

Most messages I get are from straight guys profiles

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs .....

I know I don't speak for all straight men. But two men who fuck each other are doing a bisexual/gay act.

How anyone can call them straight after participating in that is beyond me. "

This is a open place you need to more respectful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame you feel so rigid about your sexuality. You would fit in well with my gay friends. So of them are bitter white old Queens too.

Seriously though, could you be anymore uptight about a matter that doesn't even effect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been swinging for years,this is my new account so am not new to this.I go to bi days because that's my only day off.I've seen plenty of straight guys getting a blow job and they didn't know it was a guy doing it.I once caught a bloke who I knew was Deffo straight but this guy got him into bed we watched in a vewing room.the lad said I've done it once and I wouldn't do it again.in fact he never came back to club again.who cares at the end of the day what people are into,I've seen alsorts happen in swinging clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Yes.

I recall a conversation with a woman who worked in sexual health for the NHS.

She described to me one of their biggest challenges - men in their 30s and early 40s, usually married, outwardly heterosexual, engaged in same-sex activity.

I cannot remember the percentage now, but I do recall raising my eyebrows.

It was a huge challenge to someone like her, because this group was so hard to reach when it came to sexual health communications.

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It's been like that forever. My gay mates point out all the married men they've secretly shagged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame you feel so rigid about your sexuality. You would fit in well with my gay friends. So of them are bitter white old Queens too.

Seriously though, could you be anymore uptight about a matter that doesn't even effect you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with loads of gay colleagues who have done this many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify a point you made early op, Transgender women are not men so that would need a different definition than the simple binary male/female paradigm you are using here.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Straight men often message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not gay if you keep your socks on

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"The harm is not reading the profile.

People get stick for messaging while not reading the profiles of women and couples, treat the poor misrepresented men of fab to the same standard. "

I'll say to you what is usually said to the women and couples. If you don't want those messages, block all men from messaging you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Up until the point the "straight" guy actually indulges in sexual activity with another guy he is by definition "straight" (there's an argument that he could be considered bi curious but that would depend if he'd ever thought about it before) - so yes it's entirely feasible that a gay or bi guy could look for a straight guy and find one willing to indulge in sexual activity with them.

Once that act has taken place though they are by definition no longer straight, especially if they go on to indulge with others.

And that's before you even get onto the whole "Fab straight" debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?"

My thoughts exactly. It baffles me why so many get their knickers in a twist over things that will never affect them.

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Do you genuinely think that people who identify as straight men don't?

I think someone who is straight is straight.

You are either straight, bi or gay. "

Not necessarily, what if you are involved in a “more some” and you as a straight guy are licking you female partner and another guy is having sex with her and you “accidentally “ lick his shaft!

Are you gay????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not gay if you keep your socks on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?

My thoughts exactly. It baffles me why so many get their knickers in a twist over things that will never affect them. "

Yup

Me too

I dont get why people on here are so bothered about other people's sex lives.

One can only determine that its jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is, why do you people care so much. If it's not your profile and you're not fucking dudes, then why care at all?

My thoughts exactly. It baffles me why so many get their knickers in a twist over things that will never affect them.

Yup

Me too

I dont get why people on here are so bothered about other people's sex lives.

One can only determine that its jealousy"

Agreed.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Why are straight folk gettig pissy weird gay guys message them for discrete liasons?

Yeah stick to the site that was built for you...No need to pollute this ecological disaster of a site

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Since when did 'straight' on a profile mean heterosexual? "

It must be the achievement of converting straight guys, akin to snapping a virgin I assume.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For a straight man, you spend a lot of time thinking about what gay and bi men get up to OP."

It just makes me think. I mean two men shagging each other and they're still straight

You learn something new on this site everyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You are another bisexual man in denial. If i was attracted to men then I would shout it out and not hide it.

So err, and I might regret asking this but how did you conclude that?"

By the way you commented. I know I shouldn't jump to conclusions though and I apologise for that.

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By *ay123mailMan
over a year ago

Seaham

I changed mine from straight to curious after a meet with a couple. When i was in the woman her husband kept pulling me out sucking and putting back in. I was weirded out at first but didnt feel any different to if it was with two women in the same position. So id do it again. But nothing goes up my bum lol just make that clear from the get go. Also i wouldnt like to gobble on someones peen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are straight folk gettig pissy weird gay guys message them for discrete liasons?

Yeah stick to the site that was built for you...No need to pollute this ecological disaster of a site "

Ecological disaster? All the plastic people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs .....

I know I don't speak for all straight men. But two men who fuck each other are doing a bisexual/gay act.

How anyone can call them straight after participating in that is beyond me.

Go stick your cock in a glory hole knowing it's not just women there........what if you had it sucked by a guy and you had the best bj ever.....would you be bothered?....and don't say that's not sex....it is....."

Id have a look in there first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did 'straight' on a profile mean heterosexual?

It must be the achievement of converting straight guys, akin to snapping a virgin I assume."

Yep. Virgin ass.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

No. I am rather tempting tho’ so I’d give them the benefit of the doubt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

You don't speak for all straight men.....you speak for yourself, so you won't ok.....for the rest who cares and who,s business is it but theirs .....

I know I don't speak for all straight men. But two men who fuck each other are doing a bisexual/gay act.

How anyone can call them straight after participating in that is beyond me.

This is a open place you need to more respectful..."

I don't mean to disrespect anyone. I'm sorry if I have.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"

It just makes me think. I mean two men shagging each other and they're still straight

"

Makes you think what?

You are on a website for swingers.

People are getting it on all the time.

Why do you wonder about what complete strangers are up to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Do you genuinely think that people who identify as straight men don't?

I think someone who is straight is straight.

You are either straight, bi or gay.

Not necessarily, what if you are involved in a “more some” and you as a straight guy are licking you female partner and another guy is having sex with her and you “accidentally “ lick his shaft!

Are you gay???? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than two straight blokes having sex.... at least one would know what they are doing..... lols

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It just makes me think. I mean two men shagging each other and they're still straight

Makes you think what?

You are on a website for swingers.

People are getting it on all the time.

Why do you wonder about what complete strangers are up to?

"

It makes me think that what I've allways known about men who have sex with one another doesn't seem to mean the same thing in fab land.

And I think we all wonder what people are upto sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It just makes me think. I mean two men shagging each other and they're still straight

Makes you think what?

You are on a website for swingers.

People are getting it on all the time.

Why do you wonder about what complete strangers are up to?

It makes me think that what I've allways known about men who have sex with one another doesn't seem to mean the same thing in fab land.

And I think we all wonder what people are upto sometimes.

"

Some find an outlet in Henry vacuum cleaners. Each to their own i say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site? "

My thoughts exactly!

V

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It just makes me think. I mean two men shagging each other and they're still straight

Makes you think what?

You are on a website for swingers.

People are getting it on all the time.

Why do you wonder about what complete strangers are up to?

It makes me think that what I've allways known about men who have sex with one another doesn't seem to mean the same thing in fab land.

And I think we all wonder what people are upto sometimes.

Some find an outlet in Henry vacuum cleaners. Each to their own i say."

Haha that was a joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

My thoughts exactly!

V"

How do you interpret ugh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

My thoughts exactly!

V

How do you interpret ugh? "

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

My thoughts exactly!

V

How do you interpret ugh?

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww "

That's how I interpreted it,which is why I called him out on it

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Men are like spaghetti..

Straight until wet ...

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight? "

Wouldn't that really depend on why they are fucking each other?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I changed mine from straight to curious after a meet with a couple. When i was in the woman her husband kept pulling me out sucking and putting back in. I was weirded out at first but didnt feel any different to if it was with two women in the same position. So id do it again. But nothing goes up my bum lol just make that clear from the get go. Also i wouldnt like to gobble on someones peen "

Not up the bum so you must be straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight?

Wouldn't that really depend on why they are fucking each other?"

What

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

My thoughts exactly!

V

How do you interpret ugh?

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww "

I didn't think of it like that.

Il have to stop doing that. No wonder my private conversations don't go well

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

We are born, we live, then we die. No returning, second chances, re-runs.

Dead. Life ends.

So what does it even matter if folk are gay, bi, straight etc etc sleep with whoever? What's it to do with you OP

Live your own life OP stop worrying about everyone else's.

No one should have to justify.

Or explain.

If you are shocked by a swingers site I suggest you stick to your local church men's groups, maybe less confusing for you

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By *ngel Of SexMan
over a year ago

london

It’s shocking

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Surely this is just the opposite of FAB "Straight"?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww "

I love liver, bacon and onions with gravy...

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww

I love liver, bacon and onions with gravy... "

^ with a nice creamy proper mash

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Yes proper mash and mums gravy

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place. "

What the difference between a str8 and bi?

About 5 pints

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

What consenting adults do is up to them. Just apply the necessary settings on your profile to stop the messages.

Makes you appreciate what the ladies get inundated with, message wise and gives you a different perspective.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm straight and wouldn't knock anything till I've tried it so if I ever come across a gay guy wanting to knock on my virgin back door I might I might just let him in.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Gay men sometimes seduce straight men..

But we're they ever straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I was straight before a lesbian got hold of me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This always seems to create a lot of excitement.

So, just to prolong things ... if a guy who thinks he's straight gets tempted and tries sex (of whatever type) with another man and then realises it's not for him ... what does that make him? Confirmed straight or forever bi-something?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

The gay or bi fellas are not shagging straight men at all. They are shagging gay or bi or even bi curious men who for what ever reason are not open about their sexuality. They identify as straight where in reality they are not.

I’m sure the are a few gay or bi guys who love the idea of converting straight guys, and they may be successful.

As said earlier, there are a lot of fab straight guys use this site. They identify as straight so as not to put off straight women who won’t meet bi guys for whatever reason.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"This always seems to create a lot of excitement.

So, just to prolong things ... if a guy who thinks he's straight gets tempted and tries sex (of whatever type) with another man and then realises it's not for him ... what does that make him? Confirmed straight or forever bi-something? "

Anyone can change their mind.

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"Ah I was straight before a lesbian got hold of me lol. "

I too was straight before receiving the best BJ id ever had at the time, from a lad. Im not into anal but have also been told I give great head - other guys words not mine

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I'm straight and wouldn't knock anything till I've tried it so if I ever come across a gay guy wanting to knock on my virgin back door I might I might just let him in."

Your not straight if thats your _iew

"Im straight up until the point someone bums me"

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"We are born, we live, then we die. No returning, second chances, re-runs.

Dead. Life ends.

So what does it even matter if folk are gay, bi, straight etc etc sleep with whoever? What's it to do with you OP

Live your own life OP stop worrying about everyone else's.

No one should have to justify.

Or explain.

If you are shocked by a swingers site I suggest you stick to your local church men's groups, maybe less confusing for you"

No one bigs up a speech when its about guys messaging about discrete sleazy sex

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Why are straight folk gettig pissy weird gay guys message them for discrete liasons?

Yeah stick to the site that was built for you...No need to pollute this ecological disaster of a site

Ecological disaster? All the plastic people?"

No the huge influx of fake profiles, escorts & Creepy gay guys messaging for "Discrete" instances.

Its not like theres a site made for the homosexuals SOLELY by the same owners of fab.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think people (gay or not) go for guys who they are attracted to - not necessarily straight.

If you are straight but repulsive to that particular gay person, I don;t think he want to have sex with you just because you are "straight".

It's because you are attractive to their eyes - not because you are straight.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I think people (gay or not) go for guys who they are attracted to - not necessarily straight.

If you are straight but repulsive to that particular gay person, I don;t think he want to have sex with you just because you are "straight".

It's because you are attractive to their eyes - not because you are straight.

"

Completely disagree...A huge community on here buzz about corrupting straight people...They see it like recruitment to their ravenous homo sect

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Prison Rule #2....

...its not gay if you don't push back.....

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore


"We are born, we live, then we die. No returning, second chances, re-runs.

Dead. Life ends.

So what does it even matter if folk are gay, bi, straight etc etc sleep with whoever? What's it to do with you OP

Live your own life OP stop worrying about everyone else's.

No one should have to justify.

Or explain.

If you are shocked by a swingers site I suggest you stick to your local church men's groups, maybe less confusing for you

No one bigs up a speech when its about guys messaging about discrete sleazy sex "

I don't understand that remark.

*discreet

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"

Completely disagree...A huge community on here buzz about corrupting straight people...They see it like recruitment to their ravenous homo sect "

Only if they are attractive !

Not because they have "straight' labelled to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo my fantast us to suck a guy off whilst he's being done from behind!! Love gay and bi porn ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The genuine straight men on here are all assumed to be fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The genuine straight men on here are all assumed to be fab straight "

I was thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because they do"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are born, we live, then we die. No returning, second chances, re-runs.

Dead. Life ends.

So what does it even matter if folk are gay, bi, straight etc etc sleep with whoever? What's it to do with you OP

Live your own life OP stop worrying about everyone else's.

No one should have to justify.

Or explain.

If you are shocked by a swingers site I suggest you stick to your local church men's groups, maybe less confusing for you"

I'm not worrying about everyone else's.

You are right nobody has to justify or explain anything, but this is a forum for chatting in after all.

The church men's group would confuse me too.

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By *iguyandbbwCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Why do straight men message us then, when our profile says no to straight guys? They try their luck ain't gona get them anywhere other than our block list lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'm straight but I want to try the tip of a dick in my ass.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

They do, that's why they think they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Nothing wrong with them wanting a straight arse surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people (gay or not) go for guys who they are attracted to - not necessarily straight.

If you are straight but repulsive to that particular gay person, I don;t think he want to have sex with you just because you are "straight".

It's because you are attractive to their eyes - not because you are straight.

Completely disagree...A huge community on here buzz about corrupting straight people...They see it like recruitment to their ravenous homo sect "

LOLWUT?? That just reads like a conspiracy theory.

This site is literally just people wanting to fuck and be fucked in many and varied ways. If you're reading any deeper into it, you might want to go get some fresh air.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Why do straight men message us then, when our profile says no to straight guys? They try their luck ain't gona get them anywhere other than our block list lol"

Because they're fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

Nothing wrong with them wanting a straight arse surely? "

surely they're not going to get it if the arse belongs to a genuinely straight man though.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Over half the messages I get are from guys whose profile says they are straight.

There is straight and there is fab straight. The two are quite different! Many guys fearvid they admit to being bi, they will get less interest from women or they think by saying they are straight, they are straight, despite wanting to be fucked by a guy or fuck a guy, which once tried, will usually leave them wanting it more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

They do, that's why they think they can."

they do pull genuinely straight men or do you mean fab straight men?

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

1) sexuality is personal and complex and our terminology doesn’t really do it justice.

2) we don’t have this (long) debate about straight women having sex with women and questioning their sexual orientation (or maybe I missed that memo)

3) gay men occasionally have sex with women and the ones I know don’t suddenly become straight

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By *nsatiable NurseWoman
over a year ago

Brighton


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

so you think a straight man would fuck another man?

No offence to anyone here but if you think like that I think you are deluded.

I think rather than call other people deluded maybe you could look at this from a far less narrow perspective than you currently are.

Lots of people of all orientations who have been on the scene and on the site a lot longer than you have are all saying that 'straight' men fuck other men and TVs. And while the debate of does that mean they are heterosexual is a valid one it doesn't alter the fact they claim to be.

Dismissing that this happens, calling people deluded and coming across as a bit of a homophobe with the levels of disgust shown probably doesn't come across that well to be honest..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

I think 90% of men have thought about it at some point,I know I have. I am up to try just about anything and if it's not for me I just simply won't do it again. Oh and the other 10% of guys who say they have never thought about it are liars!!

"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

They do, that's why they think they can.

they do pull genuinely straight men or do you mean fab straight men?

"

I know of at least 3 men that are straight that have played with men, they have no interest in doing it again but they tried it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Really though, at the end of the say, does it matter what they want or if they get it? You do you and let them do them.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Really though, at the end of the say, does it matter what they want or if they get it? You do you and let them do them."

Day, not say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

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Block men from messaging, simple!

Quite simply there are some men on here who won't use the bi label but like sex with guys, so the straight label means nothing.

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By *akboyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

The guys they're looking for are obviously not 100% straight but remember sexuality is complex :P. The "straight guys" their looking for might be newly curious, bi, orally bi or in denial about their curiosity etc which is common... Some women on here wouldn't meet somebody that writes curious on their profile either so a lot of men write straight but are open to meeting guys too .

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Simply put a lot of men don't see a person but an object. All they see is their pleasure making it no difference who partakes. A hole is a hole. No sexual attraction just a means to an end.

They don't see a man they don't see a woman it's just sex and their own pleasures.

Being bi, gay, straight and what ever inbetween and more tells you who they are attracted to, who they can make intimate connections with.

Straight guys fucking guys is just objectification. Hands free masturbatory aids.

Just like guys fucking women they have no attraction to, all they care about is the orgasm nothing more nothing less. They don't care about the other persons pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simply put a lot of men don't see a person but an object. All they see is their pleasure making it no difference who partakes. A hole is a hole. No sexual attraction just a means to an end.

They don't see a man they don't see a woman it's just sex and their own pleasures.

Being bi, gay, straight and what ever inbetween and more tells you who they are attracted to, who they can make intimate connections with.

Straight guys fucking guys is just objectification. Hands free masturbatory aids.

Just like guys fucking women they have no attraction to, all they care about is the orgasm nothing more nothing less. They don't care about the other persons pleasures."

I couldn't fuck someone who I'm not attracted to. I wouldn't get it up.

I guess everyone is different though.

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland

This made me laugh... they do! Gosh the stories I could tell... so just because YOU wouldn’t, don’t say they all wouldn’t... there easier than gay men sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply put a lot of men don't see a person but an object. All they see is their pleasure making it no difference who partakes. A hole is a hole. No sexual attraction just a means to an end.

They don't see a man they don't see a woman it's just sex and their own pleasures.

Being bi, gay, straight and what ever inbetween and more tells you who they are attracted to,

who they can make intimate connections with.

Straight guys fucking guys is just objectification. Hands free masturbatory aids.

Just like guys fucking women they have no attraction to, all they care about is the orgasm nothing more nothing less. They don't care

I have to agree ! I large % of men on here would absolutely fuck anything, even if it was dead but still warm !!! The amount of straight guys I’ve had offers off is unbelievable.

about the other persons pleasures."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my previous account here it was mostly straight guys that contacted me on here for blow jobs or for them to try sucking their first cock even down to them taking full pleasure so yes straight guys do want fucking from guys at timesome but not all straight guys want it but more on here do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg they don't do they......... How do they get erect if they're straight? I think if they get erect at the sight of another man's penis in his jeans they are gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site?

My thoughts exactly!

V

How do you interpret ugh?

Like ewww. Like watching someone eat liver and onions. Uggh ewwww

I didn't think of it like that.

Il have to stop doing that. No wonder my private conversations don't go well "

Oops!

How do you interpret ugh?!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"They may be straight when I meet them

They ain’t when they leave "

Haha, I have that effect sometime too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If two guys fck each other then there not straight it's as as simple as that,no matter how horny I was I'd never go or be tempted by a woman because quite frankly I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must do!! And I have had I’m bigoted because I’m not that way inclined. No...just not my thing.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Your only considers gay if you kiss. Well that’s what the fab straight men of fab say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't you heard of FAB straight?

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I mostly get chat up lines from supposed straight men

They don’t read your profile, and think you can just run to them and drop you knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if 2 men are fucking neither of them are straight?

Wouldn't that really depend on why they are fucking each other?"

Very good point.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place.

"Ugh"??? If this is your reaction to it,maybe you're a little too narrow minded for this site? "

Or have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only considers gay if you kiss. Well that’s what the fab straight men of fab say "

See, I've never got the 'it's too intimate' line

Surely if we're talking intimacy, having another mans cock up your arse pips a snog to the post?

I think we have romantic notions of kisses, that they denote closeness and affection and love

It is that perceived 'connection' that makes some guys run for the hills

But there is also that other connection ... lust and passion and that overwhelming will to devour

I call it the 'grrrr feeling'

You get it when you get lost in sex with someone, where you lose knowledge of your surroundings, you lose your conscious self, you lose your inhibitions

For me, kissing definitely adds rather than detracts

Measured sex is kinda fucking by numbers

It's never as good as wanton abandon

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

A very pressing and serious issue! *nods knowingly*

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think we should all have sexuality spectrum stickers that can be coloured in to show where you are on the sexuality spectrum.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot


"Since using this site I've noticed quite a lot of men who are looking for sex with straight men.

Do gay and bisexual men genuinely think that a straight man would have sex with them!?

"

Whilst I would never pursue a straight man and if _iewing profiles won't go any further as in _iew pics etc if the profile says Straight a large number of fabs, winks, profile _iews and messages I get come from supposedly straight (according to their profile info) guys, you'd also be surprised how many supposedly straight guys frequent Gay hook up sites.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just for the record, I don’t do saucy looks to men and don’t touch their bottoms either.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Actually, I’ve decided I identify as straight so there you go. The fairground ride of labelling is.....over.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot


"You like to post a lot lol.but yes straight men do fall for it,I've got a couple of fay mates who always get straight men into bed

Ugh how can they fall for it. surely they are not straight in the first place. "

Quite, it can be denial, maybe they lie or they think as long as they don't kiss they are still straight also some guys think putting anything other than straight on their profile will lessen their chances with the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels don’t matter. People experiment and can change or not. Sometimes things happen in the heat of the moment that you regret no matter who you’re with.

Also, for centuries gay men have pretended to be straight, getting married even having a family for fear of persecution so certainly some men can and do have sex with people they’re not attracted to.

Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself

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