FabSwingers.com forum: Primary reason for Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

E for me. I'm here for new recipe ideas and financial advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"E for me. I'm here for new recipe ideas and financial advice

You've hit the jackpot! I'm a qualified financial adviser and a keen amateur chef!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"E for me. I'm here for new recipe ideas and financial advice

Where’s your apron pic then to warn people?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I actually don't know anymore

So I'll take the other

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

I came here for C with an eye open for B, but ended up doing a lot of A instead. Perfectly happy with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E i found who i want i use it to talk to her as she was the one who convinced me to return and say random shit on forum to amuse myself

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!"

Help me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually don't know anymore

So I'll take the other

Truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

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dating site for me oh and a chat site and possible a guide to better living, you know life advice and all that, help with problems, like minded people etc etc etcetera

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"E for me. I'm here for new recipe ideas and financial advice

You've hit the jackpot! I'm a qualified financial adviser and a keen amateur chef! "

Win, win. Super!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

I came here for C with an eye open for B, but ended up doing a lot of A instead. Perfectly happy with that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A/C for me :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially C but that hasn’t worked,now just enjoy perving the pics and forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C.. D.. E

Fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!"
why? Lots of people found happiness in one on one off here i think people reveal more of themselves on a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A to start with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy making like minded friends and being apart of a ‘secret soceity’ where I can be myself and show my true side.

It’s nice to have meets yes, but I do enjoy the social aspect too!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A little bit of A mixed with C

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"E for me. I'm here for new recipe ideas and financial advice

Where’s your apron pic then to warn people?"

It's on show. I like to make my intentions clear

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Mostly C for me. But some people I’ve met have become good friends too. And even some I haven’t met I’ve enjoyed chatting to.

But I’m really here for C

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I'm just lost and can't find my way out.....so I'm gonna stay a bit in all options Hoping to find some answers!!!

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!why? Lots of people found happiness in one on one off here i think people reveal more of themselves on a site like this "

the question was the primary reason for joining fab....

If you join looking for the love of your life on Fab in particular your already abit tweaked in the head.

"Son, I remember the first time i laid eyes on your mother, She was strapped to a sexswing surrounded by black guys and covered in jizz.."

& C all the way because porn brainwashed me

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!

Help me

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I enjoy making like minded friends and being apart of a ‘secret soceity’ where I can be myself and show my true side.

It’s nice to have meets yes, but I do enjoy the social aspect too! "

Not much of a secret society,

Just people embarressed to let everyone know their happy marriages runs on orgies, Gangbangs and random partners

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

A for us, but specifically with a sensual, sexy slant.

I (Luke) also like the banter on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E for me..

Like who knew the order of the MFMFMF, MMF, FFM, MFM or FMF mattered!

So many other things I was clueless about, its been a hell of an education!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started out with C, spending plenty of time on A with a bit of D and E thrown in! Fab has been and still is whatever I want it to be

Peach x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

F - Fucking bum holes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A, C and E for me. I can't choose between them. C I'm not actively looking for, if it happens, it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Started out with C, spending plenty of time on A with a bit of D and E thrown in! Fab has been and still is whatever I want it to be

Peach x"
yes exactly this, it's what I want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

Seeking a nearby regular friend with benefits. I have a high sex drive but I don't want to sleep around. Nothing wrong with that l, just not how I want to live my life. I don't want go settle down yet either. So a friend and benefits would suit me!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

A C And E, in different quantities and at different times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

A then C and D sometimes for us. Assume that E is mainly 'Looking at pics to beat off to' and 'timewasting'...? As plenty do each...

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By *ewkesbury cowboyMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

C mostly, but B has been known to accidentally happen

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

I'm in here for the rejections

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

sex and forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E at the moment. An unknown other, no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E and only E, was C when we had the couples profile,but since we started living in different countries we closed that one. I opened this one despite having no interest in meeting solo and swinging is now a club thing mostly in Berlin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

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can I still be nosey though?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

A C and E as in attending friends parties/socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C and E. If there was an "F" and a "K", I'd pick them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

can I still be nosey though? "

Yes but you can't pass judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be encouraged to get a cape now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E= only here for the private cake eating parties and to block the fake couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It passes time

It's a hoot

You get to meet nice people

Occasionally get to bonk the odd one

From my point of view, if the Forums weren't here, it's likely I wouldn't be either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of A and C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E. Talking shite in my safe space hugbox

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A C and E.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

F. Buffet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it would be a little bit of C but mainly A and E...... E maybe I should elaborate?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

D for me x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It passes time

It's a hoot

You get to meet nice people

Occasionally get to bonk the odd one

From my point of view, if the Forums weren't here, it's likely I wouldn't be either"

Yep this. I'd have gone along time ago if not for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

A and C-ish ...

Not looking for many / multiple fuck buddies, but not limiting myself to just the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging funnily enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

F. Buffet"

I know I’m going to regret it but.... pardon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

F. Buffet

I know I’m going to regret it but.... pardon?"

Please don’t say there isn’t going to be a buffet, ffs ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it would be a little bit of C but mainly A and E...... E maybe I should elaborate? "

Please do...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It’s a C from me

F. Buffet

I know I’m going to regret it but.... pardon?

Please don’t say there isn’t going to be a buffet, ffs ?!"

Get yourself down to Pizza Hut dearie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

A blend of A to D but mostly C for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A&E

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"A&E

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ambulance chaser?

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Starts out with the idea of C,

Then A happens ,

Then as time goes on B hits ,

Then D happens with the new partner ,

E, starts all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?"

You'll be amazed. When I've turned guys down in the past, I've been verbally abused and called a timewaster. And how this is a sex site and no wonder no one meets me! Lol. Guess some can't read profiles nor verifications before messaging.

Happens to so many on this site. Its a shame we all can't use fab however we wish (within site rules), without being verbally abused etc.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

A and E for me

sounds like an accident waiting to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A and C for me. I'm not getting a lot of sexytime but I do like meeting me people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A and C for me. I'm not getting a lot of sexytime but I do like meeting me people!"

Meeting *new* people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly think if its option B your in need of some sort of help lol...

C all the way!"

I’m very happy with B as my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F. Playing word games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with C..not much luck.

Progressed to A...even less luck

Now I'm an E....x

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Definitely A

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

A for me now...was a and b.xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences."

If Fab inventors didn't want people to be active in forums, they wouldn't have created this section on website in the first place.

How people use this site is completely up to them and all you can do is wonder why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences."

Why does it matter what others do? Some of us are just here for the forums as maybe we met someone but have friends here, many are not swingers and like the social aspect of the site. Whatever reason, it shouldn’t affect your enjoyment. After all, Fab is a social media site for all kinds of things to enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences."

Oh dear

People can do whatever they like, that is the joy of a forum and a site like this.

Speaking of which...why come on a forum and bitch about it? Just go about your day, swinging away and let others be.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

If Fab inventors didn't want people to be active in forums, they wouldn't have created this section on website in the first place.

How people use this site is completely up to them and all you can do is wonder why..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not looking for anything or expecting anything. If anything happens then happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E a bit of the other

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"I’m not looking for anything or expecting anything. If anything happens then happy days

wise words....you are my Yoda...

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

Between B/C dating for a regular Fwb for lots of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not looking for anything or expecting anything. If anything happens then happy days

wise words....you are my Yoda...

Message from the fab side I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting people to play with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above

Occasional good company and fulfilling sex was what I was seeking when I joined and not necessarily with different guys.

I've adapted how I use the site over time

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

wise words....you are my Yoda...

Message from the fab side I know

Haha Haha there's goes a mouthful of cider wasted.....clean up in aisle 2 please....

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

That's exactly what i've said in the past. This is virtually the only social media I use and with the "adult" flavour to boot

In answer to the question; A - perfect for this and very enjoyable. B- too much of a free spirit for that atm. C - within possibility. D - definitely do this

E- it's been a tool of self discovery

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over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

If Fab inventors didn't want people to be active in forums, they wouldn't have created this section on website in the first place.

How people use this site is completely up to them and all you can do is wonder why..."

Amen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

Amen II

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above I’d say. People have seasonal moods and their interests are no different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

Oh dear

People can do whatever they like, that is the joy of a forum and a site like this.

Speaking of which...why come on a forum and bitch about it? Just go about your day, swinging away and let others be.

Amen III

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% swinging sex site for me im here to look for fun and nothing else as for what other's use it for is up to them nothing to do with me or anybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time management

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E : writing my random thoughts on the forums while hoping to fuck cleaned women's anuses behind supermarket X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Its a mix of A, C and D for us.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

Oh dear

People can do whatever they like, that is the joy of a forum and a site like this.

Speaking of which...why come on a forum and bitch about it? Just go about your day, swinging away and let others be.

Well that isn't true...your not free to do as you like.

you cant say whatever you like or else forum only weirdos cry that it doesn't fit their view or call for an admin..

A site like this...a swingers site..let that sink in

Why come in the forums and bitch? Because i'm a site user..who is active (IRL)

Oh and im using the forums while abroad because site owners wont improve their search critera for the 7th year on the run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

That just sounds ridiculous. I’m already spending time with someone so no need to add others at this early stage. I wanted to meet a swinging partner. Even if I weren’t into swinging, I would still come on here to meet guys. I’m sexually open minded and like to explore why not on here?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A, B and D for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

Clearly if you had read the comments on this thread you should have realised that members are using the site in different ways to achieve different goals. The term ‘Swinging site’ is now multifaceted and that is a good thing.

As the OP, I thank you for your input and your well intentioned advice and advise you in turn that calling people perverts for chatting on forums and not actively looking to get fucked is certainly not cool.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

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over a year ago

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay...

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

Main reason? ACTIVE.

I did read the thread.. i posted...then i posted my opinion of those who use the site just to nose & perv, Who mostly seem to be forum only users.

Trying to call people perverts? Im going to an event addressed to all perverts at a club...so it isn't an offensive word...On this site/ community anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

I’ve been seeing someone from here 2-3 nights/days a week for last 2 months. He’s not a swinger and I am. I’ve just put things on hold to see what happens. Hence just using forums. I came here to find a swinging relationship originally so maybe a compromise will he needed. If it doesn’t happen then I will be back to meeting.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay... "

Months or years or foreplay?

If your seriously being strung along for months and years you need to look in the mirror and say "Am i desperate?"

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You sweetheart are not required to explain yourself to anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not looking for anything or expecting anything. If anything happens then happy days

I would say that avatar makes you look like you are expecting something....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sweetheart are not required to explain yourself to anyone..."

I know. Thank you.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We meet at clubs and parties now and I also use this site to keep in touch with them

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over a year ago

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

Actually I don’t think you’re a dick. I quite like dicks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay...

Months or years or foreplay?

If your seriously being strung along for months and years you need to look in the mirror and say "Am i desperate?"

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

I spend months sometimes getting to know someone on WhatsApp away from here before meeting. All part of building trust.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

You sweetheart are not required to explain yourself to anyone..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay...

Months or years or foreplay?

If your seriously being strung along for months and years you need to look in the mirror and say "Am i desperate?"

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

I don't know you so can't comment on your character mate. But chatting and flirting doesn't have to be seen as getting strung along. I do alright. I'm sure you do too. Just saying some people like to hang out in forums and only shag occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come here for the word games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

I come here for FPF

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

So if hes not a swinger...And you decide to tell him, Do you think he will.go " Oh thats great" or " Shes fucking multiple people"

As someone who was outed & constantly asked about my choices, Guys hear a girl swinging and call her a slag or whore...Because the connotations of swinging are?...Group sex...wife swapping...multiple partners.

The thing is with this site...Your never good enough & Theres always someone better...How many swinging couples i've met in clubs that last a few months until one or both partners get jealous the other shags other people, Then they think theybmay aswell be single and have multiple fuckbuddys who *technically* can't get jealous

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

[Removed by poster at 28/08/19 19:10:46]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

I come here for FPF "
lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

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omg we are a match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A and e, also to use the forum. I come for the forum, it is fun

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay...

Months or years or foreplay?

If your seriously being strung along for months and years you need to look in the mirror and say "Am i desperate?"

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

I spend months sometimes getting to know someone on WhatsApp away from here before meeting. All part of building trust. "

See i just meet them in person & decide from there.

Its not hard to be all nice & Sweet over text messages...Heck half of the people on fab pretend to be nice to meet the female half.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not sure why i’m Here anymore. I think i’m Just killing time between shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

"
very

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"A and e, also to use the forum. I come for the forum, it is fun

Hi Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

So if hes not a swinger...And you decide to tell him, Do you think he will.go " Oh thats great" or " Shes fucking multiple people"

I met him on here, he knows I wanted a swinging relationship. I’m pretty open with everyone around me. I could see others right now if I wanted to as we are not exclusive right now but I don’t want to. I quite like his company and want to see where it goes first. No hiding anything. I’m only a swinger within a couple, not as a single. I don’t really see that as swinging, just promiscuous sex and that’s not my thing anymore. Gets boring as need a huge mental attraction and I have that with this guy already.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

I'd be scared.....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex "

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

May I enquire why you feel you have the right to dictate how Fab should be used?

I'd add that hanging around chatting and flirting and being picky is all part of the process of swinging. Call it foreplay. Albeit in some cases months or years of foreplay...

Months or years or foreplay?

If your seriously being strung along for months and years you need to look in the mirror and say "Am i desperate?"

And as a single guy, we are a penny a dozen, Yet i have no problem meeting & I assume most in this thread assume im a dick

I spend months sometimes getting to know someone on WhatsApp away from here before meeting. All part of building trust.

See i just meet them in person & decide from there.

Its not hard to be all nice & Sweet over text messages...Heck half of the people on fab pretend to be nice to meet the female half."

I need a slow mental stimulation and can’t get that by meeting quickly.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

I'd be scared.....

"
,

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive..."

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

"
naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E. To gain more confidence and exploring

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

So if hes not a swinger...And you decide to tell him, Do you think he will.go " Oh thats great" or " Shes fucking multiple people"

Hes not a swinger...but you met him on here?

double negative there?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

"
I do........ What we talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i cant seem to get my head round is that multiple people are here literally just to be nosy....

If your not involved with clubs, parties, Meets and are strictly Fab only/Forum only/ Never meeting, Then why are you here?

I'm Here to swing & Be active in the community...Posting on forums isn't that.

No wonder everyone complains about fake profiles when there are people joining & Just perving/ Living through others experiences.

1)some of us are here for the forums... Then use reddit or other forum boards? Probably ones that werent meant for people finding sexual partners.

2)many are not swingers and enjoy the social aspect...Why are you on a swinging website if not a swinger? Yet again weirdos perving and nosing.

3)social media yes, But for swinging...a sexual activity...Stick to FB,myspace

What do you mean "Spending time with someone"

Are they a partner? FB or someone you just use for group fun?

TBH poochie if you make use of the site & use the site to meet people thats it purpose...

Using it to be a forumite and act like a swinging nazi when you arent involved in the scene is the point im tryimg to make.

It's like one of the above posters...blocked me over my view of TS/TVs a few months back..Yet is going through my post history now adding sly comments

So if hes not a swinger...And you decide to tell him, Do you think he will.go " Oh thats great" or " Shes fucking multiple people"

Hes not a swinger...but you met him on here?

double negative there?"

He’s not into sharing, he’s more interested in poly relationships. Not explored one yet. He was on here for fantasy reasons to meet younger ladies he wouldn’t date in the real world. I was here to meet someone for a swinging relationship. We both wanted different things but we met and clicked over mutual interests outside of sex. Opposites sometimes attract. No need for further explanation. I would love to share him and he’s been there and done it and no longer desires it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

It's a mix of all for me personally people go at different speeds etc. But it's not something people admit. So love this post

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

I do........ What we talking about?

You know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

I do........ What we talking about?

You know...

"
oooooo ok Wednesday

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that. "

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"A very sexy, intelligent man informed me last night that I use Fab as an ‘adult Facebook’. He’s absolutely right and I find nothing wrong with it. Survey time. What is your main reason:

A. Making friends and chatting

B. Dating site- looking for the one

C. Casual sex site- finding multiple fuck buddies

D. Perusing the meetings and events info pages

E. Other?

E - All the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?"

I think the guy spouting about how people who aren't swinging shouldn't be here has proven my point.

I don't know why people care what others are doing but you see it all the time around here.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

I do........ What we talking about?

You know...

oooooo ok Wednesday

Thursday is better for me....I'm reading my dictionary on Wednesday...and washing my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

I do........ What we talking about?

You know...

oooooo ok Wednesday

Thursday is better for me....I'm reading my dictionary on Wednesday...and washing my hair

"
Ok I'll bring the scrabble and the conditioner

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I come here for the word games

Me too

omg we are a match

Scary isn't it?

very

Admit it, you have learnt lots from me

naaaaaaa, power always goes to a woman's head...... Nothing I can't deal with

You love it though

I do........ What we talking about?

You know...

oooooo ok Wednesday

Thursday is better for me....I'm reading my dictionary on Wednesday...and washing my hair

Ok I'll bring the scrabble and the conditioner

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A and e, also to use the forum. I come for the forum, it is fun

Hi Shag

"
Hi, how are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

I’m on here to use the forums, I have friends on here and I go to social events too. He’s still on here as he has a few female friends and he’s still free to meet if he so wishes. I just don’t want to meet currently as I’m away with work as a flight attendant and see him and friends on my only days home. I don’t have time to fit others in at the moment if I wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?

I think the guy spouting about how people who aren't swinging shouldn't be here has proven my point.

I don't know why people care what others are doing but you see it all the time around here. "

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Not in my eyes. He wouldn’t have group sex, he wouldn’t go to a club or party. He doesn’t want to see me or share me with someone else. He’s into one on one sex. More deeper connections and poly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?

I think the guy spouting about how people who aren't swinging shouldn't be here has proven my point.

I don't know why people care what others are doing but you see it all the time around here. "

Proven what point? That part time swingers and those looking for a quick fuck are more entitled to use the site comparitive to the active users?

Its like those people who profess not to meet every c**t on here yet hide their veris so as not to be called a hypocrite

Saying "why are real swingers getting pissy with part timers/ lurkers" is like asking why do people get sick of dickpics...Because it wastes time, effort and energy that could be spent in a 13 person orgy...

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

We are not in an exclusive relationship. Still getting to know each other and new territory for each of us. He is still free to do as he pleases if he so wishes. He said the same to me but asked me not to tell him. I did and he was a bit disappointed. We are not an actual couple at this point. I would only be happy for him to fuck others if I was included, sadly that will never happen. I don’t share unless I’m involved.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

So You & this guy are regular fuck buddies...You both have the choice to fuck others, But he doesnt want to know?

That sounds like a guy who doesnt want you fucking others or wants exclusivity...

His " Dont tell me" is a reminder the lady he likes fucks other people but returns to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

So You & this guy are regular fuck buddies...You both have the choice to fuck others, But he doesnt want to know?

That sounds like a guy who doesnt want you fucking others or wants exclusivity...

His " Dont tell me" is a reminder the lady he likes fucks other people but returns to him

We are fwb currently, more friends than anything. I don’t want to meet anyone else right now. He’s not into the swing scene and I have to respect that or find someone that does. We are both late 40s, been around the block and wanting to explore something more sexually deeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?

I think the guy spouting about how people who aren't swinging shouldn't be here has proven my point.

I don't know why people care what others are doing but you see it all the time around here.

Proven what point? That part time swingers and those looking for a quick fuck are more entitled to use the site comparitive to the active users?

Its like those people who profess not to meet every c**t on here yet hide their veris so as not to be called a hypocrite

But how does it waste those for you? No one forces you to engage with anyone here, if they're not what you're looking for then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

So You & this guy are regular fuck buddies...You both have the choice to fuck others, But he doesnt want to know?

That sounds like a guy who doesnt want you fucking others or wants exclusivity...

His " Dont tell me" is a reminder the lady he likes fucks other people but returns to him

We don’t really have loads of sex, that’s secondary to the other stuff we do. We hang out with my housemates and friends, drink, cook, go and visit museums etc. I wouldn’t say fuck buddies, more like a married couple that are not in an exclusive relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

He was disappointed that you met someone else or that you told him?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A. I'm here to pass time, if people aren't happy with that then they probably need to stop being a twat and mind their own business

Why would they care?

I think the guy spouting about how people who aren't swinging shouldn't be here has proven my point.

I don't know why people care what others are doing but you see it all the time around here.

Proven what point? That part time swingers and those looking for a quick fuck are more entitled to use the site comparitive to the active users?

Its like those people who profess not to meet every c**t on here yet hide their veris so as not to be called a hypocrite

For someone so young, you certainly have quite a lot of options. I have 22 years more swinging/orgy/group experience. Sometimes it’s nice to just go with the flow and not force stuff. I don’t want to just fuck anyone. Even at a club I rarely see anyone I fancy so I usually go with a partner so I can get some action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost the last word

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Almost the last word "

Good penultimating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

He was disappointed that you met someone else or that you told him?"

He didn’t want to know. I secretly think he was both. He just said ‘if you felt the need to go elsewhere...’ he also thinks I told him to spite him which wasn’t the case. I’m just very honest and didn’t think he wanted anything more with me so I was exploring options as I really would like to meet someone in a serious way. They have to be on the same sexual

Wavelength so dating sites are hit and miss.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Casual sex site

That's why we initially joined,and though we get lots more out of it than we ever imagined,it's still to meet others for casual sex

Hallelujah...Someone who gets the premise of the site.

Its like going on pornhubs forums and trying to make a friend for life...Theres an underlying motive...

Couples will use it differently than singles. Why can’t you get that. You are too stubborn and blinkered to see that.

They are a couple?

The couples i've met in clubs, parties & Meets use if for the primary function...

Heck even if your a couple just using the forums...WHY?

if only one of you swings, End the relationship...if neither or you do whats your reasoning for being on a swingers SEX site?

Saying "Why can't i get that" when i seem to only talk & meet actual swingers who use the forums for arranging events & finding new partners is abit hypocritical?

So my couples profile with my ex FB where we looked for the 3rd or 4ths to our lifestyle never made me see the way couples use fab...

so he is a swinger

Okay so apart from.group sex...he has the option to fuck others and your fine with that?

Sorry love thats a swinger

If everyone used that excuse then most couples who cheat would call themselves swingers

So You & this guy are regular fuck buddies...You both have the choice to fuck others, But he doesnt want to know?

That sounds like a guy who doesnt want you fucking others or wants exclusivity...

His " Dont tell me" is a reminder the lady he likes fucks other people but returns to him

How refreshing this is. Someone who wants to spend quantity time with you and wants you for you.

Not everything about sex the bee all of everything. I've found this site has actually changed me not for the better either. As soon as guys start sex talking I just turn off. It's all become very boring abit like cock in hands etc.

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