FabSwingers.com forum: Do your family know of your lifestyle

By *ensualpleasures69 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions??? "
no abd no way am i telling them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions??? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooo, they would never understand it!!

Most of my friends wouldn’t understand it either!!

I see it that we are a different breed of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance! They would just see swinging as seedy or something, what they dont know wont hurt them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do.. if not most have their suspicions

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

None of their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some do.. if not most have their suspicions

I dont think they care. They just want me to be happy. My famalam's pretty good like that.

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By *lienrockMan
over a year ago

Fife

I can't imagine there's much guys or ladies that would have that conversation with their folks. It's a weird one because nobody should be ashamed of who they are and yet in no way would I want to tell my mum that I was on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would have to be part of a very liberal and free thinking family for everyone to understand. Although I don't consider myself a swinger, just happened to find my way on here.

Life is much easier if they don't know.

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By *allinyorkshireMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

No, nor do my friends. They just wouldn't understand...

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

No chance. Fab life and personal life are very separate

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Big nooo

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Regardless of whether we were completely monogamous or all-out swingers meeting different couples and singles several times a week, I can't see us discussing our sex lives with our families.

The the answer is no, but not because of the swinging. It would be a no anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, nobody in my family or circle of friends are shocked. I’m quite lucky and that people I know are not shocked by much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some do.. if not most have their suspicions

I dont think they care. They just want me to be happy. My famalam's pretty good like that."

You have a similar outlook and family to mine. People I know love that I’m open and happy.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Friends yes, dad yes, a couple of my cousins yes!

Mum and rest of the family...nope!!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

2 friends but everyone else, NO

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By *penminded bbw cplCouple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions??? "

Both my sister in-laws knows and my father inlaw know that we swingers but my wife doesn’t know they know and they never said anything to her only my father inlaw always drop a joke if we going out meeting friends i love watching my wife fucking other man and eating other Pussy

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Some friends know. I have had some interesting conversations

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Some of my friends know as they are/were on here too.

Another friend of a friend knows too about my bisexuality because a couple local to me who I planned to meet showed her my pictures to ask if it was genuinely me.

Yes they outed me to a third party! Needles to say they got a scathing phone call and blocked

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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago

Whitland

3 people know, 2 female best mates I've played with before, one is in the lifestyle, and one other very open minded friend (also female) that is really happy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and best mate do if that counts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I'm lucky as I have only my gf and she knows and occassionally reads and looks on here..no family and am too much of a loner to have close friends.Tbh it doesn't t bother us who finds out..we are very sexual people and love that we are and love the freedom of openness.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Yes but it took me years to get to the stage of telling them. I've been on various kinkster/swingers websites for around 18 years. I had always kept it quiet, never told anyone my real name etc I was enjoying it and it suited my personal life but I was always scared they would be ashamed of me especially as my sisters are very overprotective of me (being the youngest). I had a couple of bad experiences with the lifestyle one in which resulted in the police being involved. I took a year break and then when I decided to return I decided to 'come out' to my family and close friends as I didn't want anyone to think they had the power to expose me to my family ever again.

Best thing I did they were amazing and supportive, yes they had questions. Just wish I had done it earlier. Even my two grown up children know and they are ok with it.

But I know I am very fortunate as it isn't the same for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No family but can't tell friends as I'm bi curious too

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

My daughter, mom, my 2 sisters, plus a couple of friends know

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

My youngest son does ... he’s 24

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions??? "

Why should they?

Would you discuss your sex life with them if you weren't a swinger? I doubt many would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't and not really any of their business, as their sex life isn't any of mine. I don't see any benefit in telling them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I don’t ask about their sex life either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions???

Why should they?

Would you discuss your sex life with them if you weren't a swinger? I doubt many would."

Exactly our thoughts on the matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a few know and they are the ones who swing too

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

No, but I think they might have an inkling from the padlock and chain on my lap top when I am not about.

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By *reeSpiriT17Man
over a year ago

Local

"My daughter, mom, my 2 sisters, plus a couple of friends know"

We all here for the same thing xx My wife’s cousin on here and few of her friends which they happy to chat about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, most my family and all my friends know.

None were surprised

Most friends are intrigued and none judge me for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your family know of your swinging lifestyle, their reactions??? "
what family

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

My mum knows we go to clubs and meet cpls for chat and social, she as never asked about anymore. I have no secrets from my mum.

My aunty is also on here and found ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not family. I’ve told a couple of friends. One male and one female. Male was surprised. Female wasn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No although we think our eldest daughter suspects.

We've changed our profile names as we think her boyfriend is snooping around occasionally too. Less bothered about her finding out for sure than we are about him blabbing.

We have friends who we play with now who came out to us, told us they knew we were on here and they'd always fancied us, so that ended better than expected.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No one knows apart from my Fab friends. They do know I have “friends” though lol.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

My brothers do (and probably their wives).

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"My brothers do (and probably their wives)."

But have you had fun with your brother's wives?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Erm...I'm not sure if I can really be classed as a swinger. But no.

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