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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Are you more shallow about folks looks or their bodies on here than in real life or on more mainstream dating apps ?,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the purpose of meeting people from fab, I'm shallow and proud. I have to fancy the people I have sex with. I'm not here to meet a life partner.

I'm not looking for sexual encounters away from here so can't say if I'd select differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have been shallow in my 20's as I wanted hot girls with smoking bodies(not that I got too many like), as I've gotten older though I've realized that it's the mind that I'm most attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm attracted to all body types so I'm not shallow in that respect. And I'm only attracted to the faces I'm attracted to, which can't be helped, so I don't think I'm shallow there either. Having said that lots of little things can instantly put me off someone. Is that shallow? I don't know.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If I like someone, I like someone

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

My physical preferences (what few ones there are) don't change. I like what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only looking for people to have sex with on here so in that respect we are probably quite shallow .but saying that if we have a social and we don’t connect in anyway we don’t take it any further ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly face and good looking curves usually grabs my initial interest

Then if she can handle 'boredom' well.

She is in for a 'fun time'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m shallow and happy to admit it.

I won’t meet anyone I am not physically attracted to, both on here and dating sites if I still used them.

Personality is important but if I don’t like someone’s looks or body, I won’t be interested.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Its the same where ever I am I couldn't shag someone I wasn't physically attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely shallow for nsa sex.

I don't date and not looking in real life. That's why I joined a swingers site.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Surely there has to be harmlessly a modicum of attraction to at least do the deed???

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

I don't have a particular physical type whether that's here or the real world. There has to something I'm attracted to but that can be any number of random things.

What's important is who they are and the chemistry between us. No chemistry, no play

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Equally shallow in both worlds. It usually works fine.

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I asked as I'd seen another thread whdre a lady said she met guys on here but they wouldn't be seen walking down the street with her.

Likewise its often said ladies can have their pick on here...

I was curious if folk altered their attitude for nsa or more meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m attracted to the same on here as I would outside of fab. I like what I like, no difference in that.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are you more shallow about folks looks or their bodies on here than in real life or on more mainstream dating apps ?, "

Can you define "shallow" in this context?

I ask because a lot of people think if you only like (conventionally) attractive people who have baywatch type bodies, then you ARE shallow

However if you ONLY like larger body type people and won't meet with other body types, then you are NOT

In reality both types exclude others for not being their preference so both deserve the same label.

Personally for us ,we are looking for people we find hot. A good conversationalist who we don't find attractive will get nowhere with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just shallow,have to be at age,every hole a goal

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I asked as I'd seen another thread whdre a lady said she met guys on here but they wouldn't be seen walking down the street with her.

Likewise its often said ladies can have their pick on here...

I was curious if folk altered their attitude for nsa or more meaningful "

I've replied a moment ago, but apologies I misunderstood your question!

We don't change our standards at all tbh, if we wouldn't be interested in the real world, then we won't be interested in the fab world either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m shallow and happy to admit it.

I won’t meet anyone I am not physically attracted to, both on here and dating sites if I still used them.

Personality is important but if I don’t like someone’s looks or body, I won’t be interested. "

This.

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Are you more shallow about folks looks or their bodies on here than in real life or on more mainstream dating apps ?,

Can you define "shallow" in this context?

I ask because a lot of people think if you only like (conventionally) attractive people who have baywatch type bodies, then you ARE shallow

However if you ONLY like larger body type people and won't meet with other body types, then you are NOT

In reality both types exclude others for not being their preference so both deserve the same label.

Personally for us ,we are looking for people we find hot. A good conversationalist who we don't find attractive will get nowhere with us.

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Not sure I can to be honest

I posed the question (perhaps badly) as a lady had posted on another thread guys met her on here for sex but wouldn't be seen walking in thd street with her.

Seemed as though some folk had a different attitude for nsa and something more meaningful.

I'm shallow or whatever description is appropriate if I don't find the other person attractive its not happening on here or anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked as I'd seen another thread whdre a lady said she met guys on here but they wouldn't be seen walking down the street with her.

Likewise its often said ladies can have their pick on here...

I was curious if folk altered their attitude for nsa or more meaningful "

When looking for a partner or relationship I'm way less shallow. Looks are less important for relationship material.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I genuinely don't care what my platonic friends look like, I just need to like them.

When it comes to a romantic relationship I care about physical appearance. I don't mean they need to look like a movie star but I need to find them physically attractive and they need to care about their appearance. There does also need to be a deep emotional connection I'm not that shallow.

When it comes to fab the same applies without the deep emotional connection

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Shallow is a judgemental term and I'm equally selective overall, though sometimes I probably put more emphasis on the shallow ie looks, when not on fab.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I have to be attracted in some way shape or form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I couldn't meet any guy for sex if there was no physical attraction if that makes me shallow then So be it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Shallow hints at skin deep, superficial, aspects being attractive, though I'm uncertain if liking someone for their money would count - guess it would.

Anyone who has sex with absolutely anyone else, as long as their body is living, is a rarity. We have preferences - if those with preferences means we're all shallow, it's a perhaps inappropriate description to use.

Who wants to live in a permanent dark room, where you incessantly have sex with all bodies around you? The party will be listed on clubs later .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shallow hints at skin deep, superficial, aspects being attractive, though I'm uncertain if liking someone for their money would count - guess it would.

Anyone who has sex with absolutely anyone else, as long as their body is living, is a rarity. We have preferences - if those with preferences means we're all shallow, it's a perhaps inappropriate description to use.

Who wants to live in a permanent dark room, where you incessantly have sex with all bodies around you? The party will be listed on clubs later . "

I agree.

Surely everyone is “shallow” in some way, as we all want to have sex or date someone we are physically attracted to in some way.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not that shallow, beggars cant be choosers afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm not shallow or proud ha. All I ask is good hygiene. Don't even mind a lovely big Bush

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Personally I'm not shallow or proud ha. All I ask is good hygiene. Don't even mind a lovely big Bush "

That’s one awesome beard you have

Anyhoooo back to the thread I’m not shallow at all and have met all sorts of shape and sized guys, I can’t really make any comparison to dating sites as I have never been on one, so for me if I look at someone and feel like I could snog them for an hour or two that is enough for me to be interested in meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks _andybeach. I like it when it gets salty from the sea ha ha that was my poor attempt at a humorous innuendo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I love someone's pictures on fab it doesn't necessarily mean that i would be crazy for them in real life.

I could also meet someone from fab who's pictures are not doing them justice and think wow! I want you.

I imagine there are quite a few ladies who I would feel differently about if I met them in real life and I guess many ladies would feel attracted to men in real life, who they haven't given a chance online.

It's happened to me before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought i was shallow but i have various types, i prefer how a guy looks im attracted to his face

MsC

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

Very shallow. I could pull a middle age lard arse at the pub. On Fab only gym fit,hung Black men need apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you more shallow about folks looks or their bodies on here than in real life or on more mainstream dating apps ?, "
nope I'm deep

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Shallow hints at skin deep, superficial, aspects being attractive, though I'm uncertain if liking someone for their money would count - guess it would.

Anyone who has sex with absolutely anyone else, as long as their body is living, is a rarity. We have preferences - if those with preferences means we're all shallow, it's a perhaps inappropriate description to use.

Who wants to live in a permanent dark room, where you incessantly have sex with all bodies around you? The party will be listed on clubs later . "

This exactly. One person's preference/attraction/likes differs to another's. Meeting real people is key plus just coz you get on doesn't mean chemistry, has to be a spark for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found that dating apps and fab have made me much more shallow. There are people who I see on here and apps like tinder that I think they aren’t my type. However, realistically if I met them in bar and they were friendly, polite and flirty I’d probably find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shalom as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like what i like its no more complicated than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here for NSA sex and fun. I am attracted to a guys personality rather than looks but I suppose in some respects I am shallow as I won't meet guys who overly obese or very short or very hairy. Face doesn't really come into it but a nice smile and sense of humour goes a long way. Dolly x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Thanks _andybeach. I like it when it gets salty from the sea ha ha that was my poor attempt at a humorous innuendo "

I sea what you did there

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