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Think about it, what draws you in? The different needs of Fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Conventional or unconventional?

Me? Definitely my unconventional. That first message or two that somehow compliment but challenge/disagree with me.

That first social where the conversation flows but again not because you're being sycophantic or just agree with what each other are saying. Those sighs of frustration or disbelief at what the other says. The debating to and fro, the attempted explanations and the inevitable teasing of the intellect.

Sex the first and each time. Passionate but fun, the laughter just as important as the fit. The unabashed exchange of fluids and the unashamed need for body contact afterwards.

The need to contact, tease and meet that person again as soon as they’ve left your space and not being afraid to tell them that...

Yep. Thank you Fab for delivering....

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Me it’s the je na sais quo or however it’s spelt. There’s this unwritten rule or whatever that somehow you get that feeling when you encounter someone and for some reason you just click , and it isn’t always in a sexi way I don’t know it’s too early for me to go all physiologically but it happens. Someone you’ve never met never seen only through a couple of photos but the way you interact by messages just grabs your attention and kinda blows your mind. Jesus incan now you’ve confussed me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me it’s the je na sais quo or however it’s spelt. There’s this unwritten rule or whatever that somehow you get that feeling when you encounter someone and for some reason you just click , and it isn’t always in a sexi way I don’t know it’s too early for me to go all physiologically but it happens. Someone you’ve never met never seen only through a couple of photos but the way you interact by messages just grabs your attention and kinda blows your mind. Jesus incan now you’ve confussed me "

You sweetheart are a kindred spirit.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well it sounds like someone's had a great time,I need some of what you've had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it sounds like someone's had a great time,I need some of what you've had "

And you of all people will find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start with it was just to find some couples to have fun with but to be honest it has become much more ! We’ve made friends for life , met some incredibly sexy people and although D doesn’t really come on the forums I have ‘met ‘ some really lovely people who I speak to regularly and at times have been a real comfort as well as some of the threads which make me belly laugh! So we’re definitely grateful we came on fab !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To start with it was just to find some couples to have fun with but to be honest it has become much more ! We’ve made friends for life , met some incredibly sexy people and although D doesn’t really come on the forums I have ‘met ‘ some really lovely people who I speak to regularly and at times have been a real comfort as well as some of the threads which make me belly laugh! So we’re definitely grateful we came on fab !"

Get you completely. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me it’s the je na sais quo or however it’s spelt. There’s this unwritten rule or whatever that somehow you get that feeling when you encounter someone and for some reason you just click , and it isn’t always in a sexi way I don’t know it’s too early for me to go all physiologically but it happens. Someone you’ve never met never seen only through a couple of photos but the way you interact by messages just grabs your attention and kinda blows your mind. Jesus incan now you’ve confussed me "

I totally get that, without sounding slushy I think sometimes you are just meant to meet certain people and they just fit into your life like they have always been there x

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Me it’s the je na sais quo or however it’s spelt. There’s this unwritten rule or whatever that somehow you get that feeling when you encounter someone and for some reason you just click , and it isn’t always in a sexi way I don’t know it’s too early for me to go all physiologically but it happens. Someone you’ve never met never seen only through a couple of photos but the way you interact by messages just grabs your attention and kinda blows your mind. Jesus incan now you’ve confussed me

You sweetheart are a kindred spirit."

My point exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t get me wrong with my original message. I’m talking about living in the present and enjoying life, not planning for the next 40 years... My unconventional.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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For me possibly unconventional? I'm not sure how the two vary.

But yes, much like you OP, I like the conversations that are stimulating and engaging. That challenge me on my preconceived notions and encourage me to think about my daft stances. I like those who can mock me and call me on my ridiculousness in a playful yet skilled way, who turn me on with a few words probably not designed to but do.

I like the sex to be less about ascribed roles and dynamics; you switch fluidly from one to another and don't shy away from bodily fluids but indulge in all the carnal delights. I'm not one for passivity or gender determined roles and I lust after people who don't want that. Who don't shy away from being forward and do so with confidence and ease. I enjoy being in control but relish that moment when I give it up and others are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me possibly unconventional? I'm not sure how the two vary.

But yes, much like you OP, I like the conversations that are stimulating and engaging. That challenge me on my preconceived notions and encourage me to think about my daft stances. I like those who can mock me and call me on my ridiculousness in a playful yet skilled way, who turn me on with a few words probably not designed to but do.

I like the sex to be less about ascribed roles and dynamics; you switch fluidly from one to another and don't shy away from bodily fluids but indulge in all the carnal delights. I'm not one for passivity or gender determined roles and I lust after people who don't want that. Who don't shy away from being forward and do so with confidence and ease. I enjoy being in control but relish that moment when I give it up and others are the same."

Conventional or unconventional- we choose our own box and definition. You my duckie ( ) are also a kindred spirit and I’m glad to have you in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking about this today. Looking at most of the people here I think I'm fairly conventional, perhaps even boring fab has given me a couple of amazing friends but other than not much else... oh some anxiety and the odd bout of rage.

Maybe I'm still waiting for what you guys have found or to work out where I fit in

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I just like to see how peoples minds work, someone who is just as daft and silly as me, don't take themselves seriously, can laugh and joke and just have fun!!!

Love to see what makes people tick and and how their brain works....so I'm defo unconventional I'd guess!!! Hahaha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been thinking about this today. Looking at most of the people here I think I'm fairly conventional, perhaps even boring fab has given me a couple of amazing friends but other than not much else... oh some anxiety and the odd bout of rage.

Maybe I'm still waiting for what you guys have found or to work out where I fit in "

You're not boring G. Most people are fairly banal in day to day; they post particular things or at particular points which make them sound more exciting and interesting. You'll work out where you fit in soon. Or you'll do what I do and realise you'll never quite work it out so you might as well have fun doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you and Meli said, absolutely. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been thinking about this today. Looking at most of the people here I think I'm fairly conventional, perhaps even boring fab has given me a couple of amazing friends but other than not much else... oh some anxiety and the odd bout of rage.

Maybe I'm still waiting for what you guys have found or to work out where I fit in

You're not boring G. Most people are fairly banal in day to day; they post particular things or at particular points which make them sound more exciting and interesting. You'll work out where you fit in soon. Or you'll do what I do and realise you'll never quite work it out so you might as well have fun doing it."

Thanks _eli x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just like to see how peoples minds work, someone who is just as daft and silly as me, don't take themselves seriously, can laugh and joke and just have fun!!!

Love to see what makes people tick and and how their brain works....so I'm defo unconventional I'd guess!!! Hahaha "

Yes. I’m a people person too

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