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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So does anyone actually have any luck finding a friend with benefits I think I should give this swinging lark up

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I think there are so many fake on here. The genuine ones run away from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some manage to pull it off but it's not always as drama free as we would like

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have several fwb gets better each time we meet...more relaxed & chilled

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Yup

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I did have a long term fwb then situations changed so we are just friends now but I would love a new one

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By *aughtyboy651Man
over a year ago

bideford

There are loads and loads of people on here who just mess you about! Makes it even more difficult for a genuine single man...

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"So does anyone actually have any luck finding a friend with benefits I think I should give this swinging lark up "

I capitulated last Tuesday but was back in the game by Thursday tea time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two. The one I met off here about 6 years ago.l and unfortunately she getting a bit glingy of late.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We have several fwb gets better each time we meet...more relaxed & chilled "

Plus always room for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on my 3rd since joining, been seeing him for 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I have in the past.

Longest was 3 years but I moved away sadly.

It is possible, don’t give up sweet x

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"So does anyone actually have any luck finding a friend with benefits I think I should give this swinging lark up "

I'm still looking ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my fwb on here

But after a guy a grabbed a pussy in the pool at rios without permission, she was so traumatised she left the swinging scene altogether !

Hence why I am now in the scene as a single male.

Would love to find a fwb, In the London area.

Someone to go for drinks, dinner and swingers clubs with.

Obviously some awesome sex too haha

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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Yep I have in the past.

Longest was 3 years but I moved away sadly.

It is possible, don’t give up sweet x "

Mwah thanks hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a FWB she is 30yrs old been enjoying each others bodies 6yrs.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here, but in the past, yes, so it can be done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be done. I have a lovely one and we partner up to make a couple when people only want couples

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

it might help if you change the last bit on your profile to something else.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Dont actively look for one.

Just meet a few guys and see if you click with anyone. That's what I did.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"There are loads and loads of people on here who just mess you about! Makes it even more difficult for a genuine single man..."

Folk often blame others for their perceived lack of success when as often as not the reason lies far closer to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

No luck so far but to be fair I haven't been putting that much effort in, just been enjoying the forums.

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

I had one for ten months up until Easter this year. Sex turned into him just wanting sucking, no pleasure for me then he turned up as a friend suggestion on Facebook in a committed relationship so I ended it, but we met on here and it was great for several months

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs"

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs"

Me too.

Not everyone on here is for one offs or swinging

It’s a good place to find a FwB if someone isn’t looking for a ‘relationship‘

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked a treat

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had a few fwbs since I've joined here but not atm. It's very difficult finding the right people if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Guys never wanna come back after a meet so don't think I l ever find a fuck buddy or FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great one for 2 years I didn’t meet him on here though, would like to find another one

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I’m trying visiting clubs while search for the right fwb and club going buddy continues ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I do feel lucky as when I met my fwb he had no interest in having a fwb....that was October last year and we are still going strong. I'm also lucky enough to have another friend that's interested in regular meets with me despite a huge travel distance between us.

I just think you need to change your outlook and don't accept less than what you really want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find another regular fwb

It is a hard slog, finding I'm having to kiss a lot of frogs

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have found a few over the years but I don’t think looking for them helps, you just sort of find them, you enjoy meeting and it becomes a regular thing

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I was on the verge of giving up looking. Then out of the blue and a bit of a fun forum thread up she popped. So yes it can happen. So all I can say to you is never give up looking. You don't know what will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found a few over the years but I don’t think looking for them helps, you just sort of find them, you enjoy meeting and it becomes a regular thing "

This is true. I suppose I have been spoilt with my last two fwb's one treated me like a princess.

The one after I connected with on another level, we are still close but don't fuck anymore as he moved away.

I am talking to another guy, again amazing connection. But it seems to be a game of psycho analysis roulette. I need more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up. Took me nearly 2 years, but most of that is down to me and my pickiness and not budging on what I was looking for. I decided fab wasn’t for me and I gave up and up he popped! I intend keeping him, in fact he’s locked in my attic as we speak. He’s going nowhere

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m very lucky. I found one.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I wish!

Preferably a female fwb for me. But most of the profiles I come across end up being fake.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

There are folk of all genders seeking a friend with the added bonus's.

My observation

The more niche your requirements the longer your search will be.

Theres one thing for certain if you stop looking you'll not find the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are folk of all genders seeking a friend with the added bonus's.

My observation

The more niche your requirements the longer your search will be.

Theres one thing for certain if you stop looking you'll not find the other person. "

That emoji looks wrong

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

So far, all the people I have chatted with where there's a bit of chemistry live at least 300 miles the other end of the country. It feels like a bit of a shallow pool round where I live especially once compatibility is taken into account. A lot of women I'd love to meet have set their uppermost age filter to 40 which is frustrating when you're 42 and still get ID'd for alcohol after a shave lol

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"There are folk of all genders seeking a friend with the added bonus's.

My observation

The more niche your requirements the longer your search will be.

Theres one thing for certain if you stop looking you'll not find the other person.

That emoji looks wrong "

That emoji looks like the insect bite on my arnkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are folk of all genders seeking a friend with the added bonus's.

My observation

The more niche your requirements the longer your search will be.

Theres one thing for certain if you stop looking you'll not find the other person.

That emoji looks wrong

That emoji looks like the insect bite on my arnkle."

Ankle indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you? "

Well i met my previous fwb on here she was looking for the same. That was a amazing 2 years, im back on now and so far has been 3-4 months with her now. It works for me.. i stick around for the forums and would like to do a club with her one day... purely for the buzz of people watching.. not to share. So id say in many ways no its not. But in so many other ways yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you? "

I’m not into intentional one offs as a single but with a partner swinging is fun. Why would this place not be for people like us? I’ve met someone on here recently and he’s not into swinging but I am. That’s going to take some compromise. I’m still here for the forums and social events currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you?

Well i met my previous fwb on here she was looking for the same. That was a amazing 2 years, im back on now and so far has been 3-4 months with her now. It works for me.. i stick around for the forums and would like to do a club with her one day... purely for the buzz of people watching.. not to share. So id say in many ways no its not. But in so many other ways yes it is."

You have every right to be here. Peoples needs are not the same. Glad you met someone you can enjoy things with. That’s what it’s about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you?

Well i met my previous fwb on here she was looking for the same. That was a amazing 2 years, im back on now and so far has been 3-4 months with her now. It works for me.. i stick around for the forums and would like to do a club with her one day... purely for the buzz of people watching.. not to share. So id say in many ways no its not. But in so many other ways yes it is.

You have every right to be here. Peoples needs are not the same. Glad you met someone you can enjoy things with. That’s what it’s about. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have, its the only thing i want off here im not one for 'swinging' & one offs

You’ve probably heard this before, but is this site for you?

Well i met my previous fwb on here she was looking for the same. That was a amazing 2 years, im back on now and so far has been 3-4 months with her now. It works for me.. i stick around for the forums and would like to do a club with her one day... purely for the buzz of people watching.. not to share. So id say in many ways no its not. But in so many other ways yes it is.

You have every right to be here. Peoples needs are not the same. Glad you met someone you can enjoy things with. That’s what it’s about. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I ha a lady friend for several years on and off and then one a few months ago for a few weeks but really would like a FWB.

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