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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If ur going to block people

Can you please explain why first or they will never learn

Is it the attitude, the pics, the way they message you? What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount some people block they wouldn't have time too let everyone know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we explained why we blocked every single person. Some days we would run out of messages and spend hours doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur going to block people

Can you please explain why first or they will never learn

Is it the attitude, the pics, the way they message you? What?"
i block people cos i want to its my business who i want checking me out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh my god you got a beard!!!!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to know why I've been blocked.

They don't have to explain it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv like 250 blocked i enjoy blocking folk for no reason leaving them puzzled why its fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry

I'm ex admin/ host on a few chat sites

We used to tell them why before they got blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my god you got a beard!!!!!'"
yep and i swim daily in an ocean of flange well i could if i wanted to but i dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol and now u blocked me

So funny I spat me drink out

Ok people it's been fun

Night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur going to block people

Can you please explain why first or they will never learn

Is it the attitude, the pics, the way they message you? What?"

It's the shoes....always!...well sometimes,...occasionally, seldom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my god you got a beard!!!!!'yep and i swim daily in an ocean of flange well i could if i wanted to but i dont "

Tell him that's your ball sack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry

I'm ex admin/ host on a few chat sites

We used to tell them why before they got blocked"

As the person or persons providing or administrating a "service". you have a duty to explain why there not eligible to receive said service. As a consumer we dont have to justify our personal choices to anyone. If go to a shop any buy Sony TV for example you dont write a letter to every other manufacturer explaining why you didnt buy there product.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blocked everybody on this thread for posting on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blocked everybody on this thread for posting on this thread."

Ha ha ha. Does that mean you blocked yourself aswell though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blocked everybody on this thread for posting on this thread.

Ha ha ha. Does that mean you blocked yourself aswell though? "

I'm too good looking to block myself, here's proof

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/856772

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It means they don't want to talk to you. That's all. Could be for any or no reason, and other site users aren't obliged to give you lessons.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm not here to teach arseholes how to stop being arseholes. Most of mine are counter blocks anyway, so I couldn't tell them even if i had the urge to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pricks who send me cock pictures get blocked straight away - it says clearly in my profile. So they are either not reading profile or choosing to ignore my wish.

I block idiots who don't take no for an answer as a grown up men would. Those usually get nasty as cannot handle rejection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good for you

I'm also sick of people who don't read my profile first before messaging me

And saying ewwwww I m not into beards

Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm not here to teach arseholes how to stop being arseholes. Most of mine are counter blocks anyway, so I couldn't tell them even if i had the urge to. "

Yeah. If you want to learn how not to offend people, don't start with the people you've offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't deserve the explanation. No effort in message and clearly not read the profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're not matched so I block

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've been blocked today and I have no idea why... I don't think I've even spoken to him... So if I'm honest it's bugging me what I've done... Fair enough if ice done something... But I'd rather know... Still it's fab so no point worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my god you got a beard!!!!!'yep and i swim daily in an ocean of flange well i could if i wanted to but i dont

Tell him that's your ball sack "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur going to block people

Can you please explain why first or they will never learn

Is it the attitude, the pics, the way they message you? What?"

Why would I want to explain ? No doubt I’d end up getting abuse for the explanation!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I have only ever blocked one or two people.. .. only for persistent offers when they don't take a polite no for an answer... People who take pleasure out of blocking others are weird in my humble opinion...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If ur going to block people

Can you please explain why first or they will never learn

Is it the attitude, the pics, the way they message you? What?

Why would I want to explain ? No doubt I’d end up getting abuse for the explanation! "

Quite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block everyone who sex a dick or sex photo - my profile says don’t

I routinely block people if I come across a profile and wouldn’t want to meet them

People that are crude, rude, obnoxious, etc e.g. a random message saying ‘fancy a shag!’

People who clearly haven’t made any attempt to read at least some of my profile

Oh and anyone that thinks my name is him / sexy / babe / gorgeous etc or worse ‘hey bitch / dirty whore’ like that’ll get them anywhere. That REALLY pisses me off

It doesn’t matter how many people us ladies block there is always an inbox stuffed full of messages when we log in

Weird fetishes like seeing up someone’s foreskin or guys wanting mammy / son role play - both of those really turn me off so get blocked too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops that should have said SEWING up his foreskin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked once because I turned a guy down! I suppose he blocked me so he wouldn’t go over the same ground twice! I don’t care if people block me got better things to worry about!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes it's going to be really obvious why you are blocked, if you engage a few working brain cells.

Focus on those who are available, not those who are not. For some people, they seem to have skipped some of the early developmental stages and it's not others' jobs to remedy this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block for several reasons ive 100s on there but not all of them are on there for bad reasons and i dont have to explain why either i block for my reasons its my personal tool that helps me stay on this fantastic site

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

My profile my choice, I'll have had a reason, some are new entries on the list and I can remember why, some have been there that long I can't remember why I put them on , if others block me their profile their choice they'll have had a reason too ..its a site tool folk use for any number of reasons, No justification needed.

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

To be honest i have learned not to care if someone blocks me especially if i can see no valid reason for it.

I just move on and forget about it, as they say plenty of other fish in the sea.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It may be best not to know why your blocked.. if it's for racialist reasons for example it could open a can of worms..

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

At a rough count, I have about 600 people on my block list.

I have a valid reason, for everyone of them to be on that list.

I'd say more than half on there, have never contacted me, or even viewed my profile so wouldn't even know they've been blocked

I've spotted them & hit the button so they can't contact me

Defeats my objective, if I'm expected to notify them I'm blocking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's going to be really obvious why you are blocked, if you engage a few working brain cells.

Focus on those who are available, not those who are not. For some people, they seem to have skipped some of the early developmental stages and it's not others' jobs to remedy this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it is just a power thing

I have blocked everyone from that thread

I feel so powerful now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve blocked the bloke above. Just because I’m from Brighton does NOT mean sending me saucy photos of what he alleges to be his bottom - however, one was a black mans chuffer and the other had a tattoo miraculously appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to block every guy with a cock as their avatar. Why? Because that's the last thing I don't want to look at those things so I choose to filter them from my messages forever.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

600 blocks ... OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to block every guy with a cock as their avatar. Why? Because that's the last thing I don't want to look at those things so I choose to filter them from my messages forever. "

Is that a double negative making a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to block every guy with a cock as their avatar. Why? Because that's the last thing I don't want to look at those things so I choose to filter them from my messages forever.

Is that a double negative making a positive "

For sure nah just decided to change the sentence and kinda forgot to proofread it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually block guys who have profile pics like yours op

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I usually block guys who have profile pics like yours op"

His are better than yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually block guys who have profile pics like yours op

His are better than yours x "

Each to there own

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I usually block guys who have profile pics like yours op

His are better than yours x

Each to there own "

Trust me.. it's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually block guys who have profile pics like yours op

His are better than yours x

Each to there own

Trust me.. it's true "

Aye well that's your opinion

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Shared by many I guess

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been blocked by people we see on forums, and we know we have never even spoken to them.

I guess they have their reasons, but, it does not bother us at all. No sense worrying.

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

No explanations.. Just slam the door shut forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I tend to block people who delete my messages, helps you remember who not to reach out to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really into blocking ... only occasionally for exceptional stupidity and I tell them why before I block them 90% of the time

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