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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very nearly sent you a message then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I very nearly sent you a message then "

You knew better not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think this is my first post in the lounge I usually just comment not start a thread please be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very nearly sent you a message then

You knew better not to "

I did, sometimes a joke is best left alone

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes it can be irritating at times.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

But would it still annoy you if you fancied the pants out of them . It doesn't annoy me,if I don't want to answer I won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But would it still annoy you if you fancied the pants out of them . It doesn't annoy me,if I don't want to answer I won't."

A little yes cause I know I'll not get to meet that sexyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "

No. Just shows they are interested

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Not anymore, we've never been after single guys but we'd still get them message chancing it.

So we blocked them all, no more messages. Blocking newbies & those without pics helps too.

If you then message a guy you are. Interested in hey bypass the block

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do. And yup rather annoying x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not anymore, we've never been after single guys but we'd still get them message chancing it.

So we blocked them all, no more messages. Blocking newbies & those without pics helps too.

If you then message a guy you are. Interested in hey bypass the block

S"

Best thing to do I did the same on my couple's profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance

No. Just shows they are interested "

I get that but it's not always possible to have any follow up because of distance

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It depends who it is and why they've messaged me privately. If its something they could've just said on the thread it is a wee bit annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what they're after. If it's wank chat they're wasting their time.

They usually do it more in the night. They see a woman post, realise she's online and send some filth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends who it is and why they've messaged me privately. If its something they could've just said on the thread it is a wee bit annoying. "

That particularly annoys me there's just no need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it may be because you’ll definitely see mail but not necessarily the forum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on what they're after. If it's wank chat they're wasting their time.

They usually do it more in the night. They see a woman post, realise she's online and send some filth. "

Yes! And it's usually something you are not into I end up feeling repulsed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think it may be because you’ll definitely see mail but not necessarily the forum?"

It could be I'd the subject is to do with the forum post

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Yes it’s my pet hate

I always reply to their DM back on the original form post telling them I’m not interested

There’s one or two I swear start posts just for the responses and as an excuse to DM

people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it’s my pet hate

I always reply to their DM back on the original form post telling them I’m not interested

There’s one or two I swear start posts just for the responses and as an excuse to DM

people"

I was going to do that earlier but didn't go through with it

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Is 330 miles away (Driving) to far away to inbox you. Oxo

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Depends on what they're after. If it's wank chat they're wasting their time.

They usually do it more in the night. They see a woman post, realise she's online and send some filth. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is 330 miles away (Driving) to far away to inbox you. Oxo "

For me personally yes I wouldn't expect anyone to travel that far and wouldn't myself

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Fortunately I use my message filters to eliminate the annoyance

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "

Yep. I find that like someone thinking that anyone talking to them at a party is a come on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wouldn't dare

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I only post to people via pm things I won't post in the forums.

Can't say we get many messages that annoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting the messages even though I know it will unlikely lead to a meet.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Doesn’t annoy me no.

Actually most of my meets and chats have started off the back of a forum thread, where we had a mutual interest or similar views, it’s a good starting point

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not just men that do it you know - it doesn't annoy me but I do wonder why if it's something that could have been said on the thread - sometimes though if the thread has gone off at a tangent or if it's a more personal comment it makes sense to.

It's also been know for people to hit the Reply Privately button by mistake.

Like most things on here though I don't let them get to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just men that do it you know - it doesn't annoy me but I do wonder why if it's something that could have been said on the thread - sometimes though if the thread has gone off at a tangent or if it's a more personal comment it makes sense to.

It's also been know for people to hit the Reply Privately button by mistake.

Like most things on here though I don't let them get to me"
I didn't specify if it was men

The messages I'm meaning are intentional

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes it annoys me, but sometimes it's fine. It's no more annoying than any other unsolicited message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a beautiful sunny day....

Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a beautiful sunny day....

Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life...."

Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a beautiful sunny day....

Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life....

Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time"

I'll PM you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No it doesn’t bother me... not that it happens that often anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a beautiful sunny day....

Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life....

Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time

I'll PM you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance

Yep. I find that like someone thinking that anyone talking to them at a party is a come on."

It annoys me when they say well I'm on here so obviously I'm looking for fun.

Err no. Not with you matey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if you don't want mails from other users, block all mail.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I just ignore them or delete them or answer them if it suits me .....

I often wonder why they won't put their comment in the forum but WILL comment to me in private.

The ones I really don't like are the lurkers who don't comment on the forum but message you because of something you've said in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "
lol u think its only women and couples who get them

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "

Just PM’d you love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance lol u think its only women and couples who get them "

Actually yes because no one has ever told me any different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just talking to someone about this other day after a bloke from a couple thought it was a licence to tell me his wifes antics really odd convo that was after i said i dont care and he tells me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was just talking to someone about this other day after a bloke from a couple thought it was a licence to tell me his wifes antics really odd convo that was after i said i dont care and he tells me anyway "

There's some strange folk around

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I only get that if i mention in the forums i like to watch men wank or that i like cock pics

I don’t mind, i don’t fet thousands. A polite message in response and they’re happy.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I just ignore them or delete them or answer them if it suits me .....

I often wonder why they won't put their comment in the forum but WILL comment to me in private.

The ones I really don't like are the lurkers who don't comment on the forum but message you because of something you've said in there. "

Yeah that's a bit weird isn't it,I'm more likely to ignore those.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I agree totally, and it really annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get the private message from someone I wouldn't want it from, I just post in the thread that there is no need to PM me but they could have replied in the thread. Usually they get the hint.

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