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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got to love it!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Hahaaa

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Gotta love it, but only with trustworthy people who don’t have it with just anyone. People that play safe with one offs and new partners and get regularly tested!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Just had it, got to love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sunbathe with a bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex friendly here

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I sunbathe with a silverback "

You've got a gorilla??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sunbathe with a silverback

You've got a gorilla??????

"

In the winter it looks like I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it "

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I sunbathe with a bareback "

Careful you don’t get burnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement"

Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement

Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.

"

The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement

Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.

The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe. "

people in relationships cheat all the time, let's not be silly now. It's good you and your fwb trust each other, and I'm not saying it's happening to you, but it does happen.

Saying results are pointless because they're only for a snapshot of a one day window - ok, so what measure does anyone have of someone's cleanliness? Basically it all boils down to trust - and your own judgement that you can have faith in the other person.

It's just tiring that a good portion of this website slings shit on another good portion, week in week out, for their sexual practices and preferences, more often than not out of stigma, fear, and judgement. It would be nice to change the narrative is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement

Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.

The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe.

people in relationships cheat all the time, let's not be silly now. It's good you and your fwb trust each other, and I'm not saying it's happening to you, but it does happen.

Saying results are pointless because they're only for a snapshot of a one day window - ok, so what measure does anyone have of someone's cleanliness? Basically it all boils down to trust - and your own judgement that you can have faith in the other person.

It's just tiring that a good portion of this website slings shit on another good portion, week in week out, for their sexual practices and preferences, more often than not out of stigma, fear, and judgement. It would be nice to change the narrative is all."

There really is only one winner in this debate

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

The thing is, if the EU are not prepared to shift on the backstop then we are heading for a no deal brexit.

Oh sorry, wrong pointless argument.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

prefer it but it can't always be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, what do you say?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"The thing is, if the EU are not prepared to shift on the backstop then we are heading for a no deal brexit.

Oh sorry, wrong pointless argument. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it

How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?

If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement"

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It does feel a lot better without a condom which is why I had a vasectomy. However, Hannah and I would only go bareback with each other. If we met anybody from here it would be protected. It's conceivable we would have enough trust with a third party but I doubt it even if we knew them very well.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Im guessing the op likes bareback but is happy to have safe sex when his partner does. I list anal as an interest, doesn't mean I want it every time. I think the majority would agree bareback feels better, practicalities aside.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I am not saying it doesn't feel better without a condom but it's like a game of Russian Roulette to have random sex with strangers without one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own really, if one person prefers and wants to go bareback, and the other doesn't its up to the person who wants bareback to respect the choice of the other surly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondered how long it would take to see Russian Roulette mentioned

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

It’s a trust thing. I only dare bare with my regular fwb that I have been seeing for over a year. We both share our test results and are completely honest about what we get up to, well I am and so far he hasn’t given me any reason to doubt him. I don’t exactly trust easily either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im guessing the op likes bareback but is happy to have safe sex when his partner does. I list anal as an interest, doesn't mean I want it every time. I think the majority would agree bareback feels better, practicalities aside. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

We are all adults that make our own choices. I would choose not the have unprotected sex, not even with a special friend who says it’s only with me etc.

I’m responsible for myself so I wouldn’t hand that over to anyone else.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Doritos launched a new bag where the chips can be mild, medium or hot. You can only tell when you eat them which one is hot and blows your head off. This is a bit like random sex with strangers without protection. If the hot one did you harm would you still eat the packet. I prefer the term Russian Roulette. It's the same principle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doritos launched a new bag where the chips can be mild, medium or hot. You can only tell when you eat them which one is hot and blows your head off. This is a bit like random sex with strangers without protection. If the hot one did you harm would you still eat the packet. I prefer the term Russian Roulette. It's the same principle. "

Terrible metaphor. The odds of Russian roulette are 1:6; can anyone actually statistically quantify the risk of contracting a fatal illness from bareback sex? This is disregarding how manageable HIV is these days (not saying that it's a non issue, just that it isn't a death sentence like a bullet), let alone the transmission rates for most sti's between hetero partners is actually quite low.

I'm not advocating that people never using protection, but jesus some people doom-monger

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Bareback is great - it's how we all got here.

But I aint on fab to make babies, so no BB for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it "

Surely, your not that stupid to say the risk is minimal if you have good judgement and go for testing! Testing is to see if you have an STD, and if you do you get treatment. Your judgement would never know if a person has any STD'S, how could it? Most STD'S have no symptoms. A man your your age should know this. You honestly sound so stupid its shocking. You have just shown FAB how shocking your judgement is.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The OP's profile is not up for discussion

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Many of the infections are increasingly resistant to treatment. Gonorrea, Chlamydia and an emerging one where unsafe anal takes place leaving weeping sores in your anus which again is resistant to anti biotics. A leading charity claims that in men's saunas one in six people have undiagnosed HIV.

The treatment is not the only issue it's the drain on the NHS.

One in Six. Maybe the Russian Roulette metaphor is not so silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many of the infections are increasingly resistant to treatment. Gonorrea, Chlamydia and an emerging one where unsafe anal takes place leaving weeping sores in your anus which again is resistant to anti biotics. A leading charity claims that in men's saunas one in six people have undiagnosed HIV.

The treatment is not the only issue it's the drain on the NHS.

One in Six. Maybe the Russian Roulette metaphor is not so silly "

Interesting claim. But if undiagnosed then it's not really empirical evidence, is it.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I don't mind if they have a bare back or not to be fair....its quite nice sometimes to have a bit of artistry to stare at whilst one is pounding away from behind....even if it is just a tramp stamp......

XxX

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Just read information from the Terrence Higgins Trust site. The increase in STIs year on year is staggering and the cost over 5 years is something like 700 million. Interestingly there is more prelevance amongst certain racial groups and gay and bisexual groups.. and the rise in syphillis is alarming..

There is literally an exponential growth in infection. At least be informed before making choices..

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I sunbathe with a silverback

You've got a gorilla??????

In the winter it looks like I have "

Mind bleach, aisle 5, STAT.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Just not worth the risk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback feels better and if the risks are managed by everyone involved by having regular sti tests it can be safer fun. But no sex is 100 per cent safe.

Happy swinging

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking"

Hope you don't run red lights

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking"

Yep.

Informed choices.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking

Yep.

Informed choices.

"

Lives revolved around risk taking tend to be short...

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Yep.

Then again, none of us is getting out alive.

Just how much of a good time you want first, I guess.

Whatever makes you happy.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Yep.

Then again, none of us is getting out alive.

Just how much of a good time you want first, I guess.

Whatever makes you happy."

Agreed and lots of happiness without bareback..

Glad we agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delicious"

I have a problem with the girth of my cock

It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback

I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun

I've never had a STI

So there you go

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"Delicious

I have a problem with the girth of my cock

It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback

I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun

I've never had a STI

So there you go

"

modest to boot......

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By *un with carolineCouple
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I am not saying it doesn't feel better without a condom but it's like a game of Russian Roulette to have random sex with strangers without one.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Girth is big

I'm only about 6 /7 inch hard lengthwise bud

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"Delicious

I have a problem with the girth of my cock

It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback

I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun

I've never had a STI

So there you go

"

For starters you're not that big going by photos king size at a push. Can even get super king size from the clinics which is practically same size as a femidom. There's also other condom brands and even ones who will custom make condoms tailored to your cock.

It's just an excuse

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Delicious

I have a problem with the girth of my cock

It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback

I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun

I've never had a STI

So there you go

"

Go to theyfitdotcom. They do custom sizes at least as thick as yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn u nix u looked at my pics lol

I had some of the men going though didn't I lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps

She has a really tiny hand

Xxxx

Lol

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"Ps

She has a really tiny hand

Xxxx

Lol"

She isn't gob almighty though. I've had cocks i could barely get in my mouth yet they wore condoms.

That's over 7 inches girth. You can get condoms to fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps

She has a really tiny hand

Xxxx

Lol

She isn't gob almighty though. I've had cocks i could barely get in my mouth yet they wore condoms.

That's over 7 inches girth. You can get condoms to fit

"

Ok

Leave me alone now I'm getting a cock complex

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps

She has a really tiny hand

Xxxx

Lol

She isn't gob almighty though. I've had cocks i could barely get in my mouth yet they wore condoms.

That's over 7 inches girth. You can get condoms to fit

"

Yea and but well

She has a tiny face as well

Mwahhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't spoken to one person in my life who actually prefers safe sex over bareback.

Who knows, maybe there are very few who have a latex fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sunbathe with a bareback "

Rebel

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"prefer it but it can't always be done."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, if the EU are not prepared to shift on the backstop then we are heading for a no deal brexit.

Oh sorry, wrong pointless argument. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it too .

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

What's not to like? It's just dangerous..

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What's not to like? It's just dangerous.."

This

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I don't think there's any doubt that BB "feels" better.

Gloving up can sometimes spoil the mood of the moment.

It can also lead to Mr Droop.

Know the risks, make your choices.

Live with the consequences of uninformed and poorly thought out choices.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Exactly...Russian Roulette is fine but why should the State fund the fallout..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bareback sex now comes with a 1 in 6 chance of blowing your fuckin' head off?

Seriously? Might wanna choose a different game to compare it with.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

STI can kill.. syphillis can kill you, HIV can kill you..

Selfish to be risky do taxpayer funds your treatment

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Latex friendly here "

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"I haven't spoken to one person in my life who actually prefers safe sex over bareback.

Who knows, maybe there are very few who have a latex fetish.

"

Couldn’t have said this better - but I value my health waaaaaaay more! No glove no love!

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