FabSwingers.com forum: What would you..?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really worth it?

If the answer is yes then you could send him one of those horse's head masks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it really worth it?

If the answer is yes then you could send him one of those horse's head masks

It will be worth it for me just to know he will shit himself for a bit although even though he's betrayed me I would never destroy his marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just some laxatives inside a nicely done homemade cake would do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really worth it?

If the answer is yes then you could send him one of those horse's head masks

It will be worth it for me just to know he will shit himself for a bit although even though he's betrayed me I would never destroy his marriage"

But what if his wife is the one who receives and opens the packages? She'll have questions surely and that could be the start of more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a book one of you mentioned that the other should read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it really worth it?

If the answer is yes then you could send him one of those horse's head masks

It will be worth it for me just to know he will shit himself for a bit although even though he's betrayed me I would never destroy his marriage

But what if his wife is the one who receives and opens the packages? She'll have questions surely and that could be the start of more. "

I think you can send stuff through Amazon as a gift, not sure if they put the recipient on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps a book one of you mentioned that the other should read?"

There is a music artist he knows I really like so I did think about a cd of his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if his wife opens it OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really worth it?

If the answer is yes then you could send him one of those horse's head masks

It will be worth it for me just to know he will shit himself for a bit although even though he's betrayed me I would never destroy his marriage

But what if his wife is the one who receives and opens the packages? She'll have questions surely and that could be the start of more.

I think you can send stuff through Amazon as a gift, not sure if they put the recipient on. "

They don't if it's from them but marketplace sellers might.

Surely an anonymous parcel turning up would raise questions though?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I would honestly just save the money and treat myself to something nice. I think as hard as it is, moving on is the best thing. A petty parcel will temporarily make you feel better but your hurt/anger whatever else will soon return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please please don't do this. Yes he's a knob for lying to you but all you are going to achieve is the possibility of his wife finding it which does she deserve that? And a waste of your own money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would honestly just save the money and treat myself to something nice. I think as hard as it is, moving on is the best thing. A petty parcel will temporarily make you feel better but your hurt/anger whatever else will soon return."

Absolutely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages. You're right, just the feeling of being lied to and let down is conjuring up revenge tactics. I'll have let it go and move on in my own time

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Thanks for the messages. You're right, just the feeling of being lied to and let down is conjuring up revenge tactics. I'll have let it go and move on in my own time "

I've been there a couple of times in my single days. The best way of getting revenge is by being happy without him.

If you're both on social media then he'll be looking at your page, so just post pics of you having the time of your life without him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the messages. You're right, just the feeling of being lied to and let down is conjuring up revenge tactics. I'll have let it go and move on in my own time

I've been there a couple of times in my single days. The best way of getting revenge is by being happy without him.

If you're both on social media then he'll be looking at your page, so just post pics of you having the time of your life without him."

Good plan. He is on my Facebook so I'll continue to post good things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!"

I’d say his poor wife doesn’t deserve that. Walk away and let her find out her own way, these things have a way of coming out.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

And no doubt he won’t be able to resist staying off here so keep posting lovely pics , show fantastic veris from fantastic meets and knowingly smile to yourself that he hates seeing it

Take it from someone that has done exactly that in the past ......

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Thanks for the messages. You're right, just the feeling of being lied to and let down is conjuring up revenge tactics. I'll have let it go and move on in my own time

I've been there a couple of times in my single days. The best way of getting revenge is by being happy without him.

If you're both on social media then he'll be looking at your page, so just post pics of you having the time of your life without him.

Good plan. He is on my Facebook so I'll continue to post good things "

Totally understand your feelings but I think the Facebook positive posts will have the biggest impact. Took me a while to realise my happiness annoys my ex more than anything else so if he is on your Facebook then go enjoy life and let him know it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And no doubt he won’t be able to resist staying off here so keep posting lovely pics , show fantastic veris from fantastic meets and knowingly smile to yourself that he hates seeing it

Take it from someone that has done exactly that in the past ......

That is a really good idea! He will definitely log on here to see what I'm up to

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"Just some laxatives inside a nicely done homemade cake would do the trick."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!"

'A Woman Scorned'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ignore him, best revenge possible and will destroy his ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give him the time of day , no reaction will hurt him more than any revenge gift , just ignore him move on and enjoy your life , he will end up the sad one

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"And no doubt he won’t be able to resist staying off here so keep posting lovely pics , show fantastic veris from fantastic meets and knowingly smile to yourself that he hates seeing it

Take it from someone that has done exactly that in the past ......

That is a really good idea! He will definitely log on here to see what I'm up to "

Of course , and you have the freedom of actually being single to get out and enjoy yourself - the best bet he had is to sucker someone else in to his bullshit

Go to some clubs , make friends as well as the sex stuff and post your status updates all about how much fun you are having !!

Then when he eventually messages to try to ‘hook up’ again , explain how you just don’t hsve the time or the effort to put into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't give him the time of day , no reaction will hurt him more than any revenge gift , just ignore him move on and enjoy your life , he will end up the sad one "

Thanks. I'm going to plan some fun and I've taken great pleasure in updating my profile as a free, single woman

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"Don't give him the time of day , no reaction will hurt him more than any revenge gift , just ignore him move on and enjoy your life , he will end up the sad one

Thanks. I'm going to plan some fun and I've taken great pleasure in updating my profile as a free, single woman

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good for you he will see it and he will know what hes missing out on. He will end up being the jealous one when he sees how your loving life without him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!"
awwww this is lovely of you to send him a token of your affection

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!"

Have you really nothing better to do with your time apart from turning schizo....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pregnancy test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pregnancy test

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bet his arshole disapears into his throat

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"A pregnancy test

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!

Have you really nothing better to do with your time apart from turning schizo.... "

Thanks for your supportive comment. Take it you're an advocate of cheating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A pregnancy test

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!

Have you really nothing better to do with your time apart from turning schizo....

Thanks for your supportive comment. Take it you're an advocate of cheating!

Most certainly not, but also don’t support turning nuts...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a very long term fwb. He declared his love for me very early on and we ended up having more of a relationship.

I have recently found out he's married and he has ghosted me for over two weeks.

Without wanting to go all Glenn Close/fatal attraction I want to post him something from Amazon.

I know most of you will say just forget about him but I want to post a reminder to him to show annoyance for various reasons

What would you send? No dead rabbits please!

Have you really nothing better to do with your time apart from turning schizo....

Thanks for your supportive comment. Take it you're an advocate of cheating!

Most certainly not, but also don’t support turning nuts... "

Hence why I posted on here before doing something silly

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'd just post a letter addressed to his wife with a note saying. Fabswinger.comusername.

Bastard you will not be the only one he does this to either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd just post a letter addressed to his wife with a note saying. Fabswinger.comusername.

Bastard you will not be the only one he does this to either. "

I've found out what his wife's name is and seen her online fbook profile. I'm not psycho but he could be in the divorce courts before Christmas if I was!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The best revenge for you, is to delete him from your life, to move on, to forget about him and to be happy.

Block him on here. Block his number. Block on FB.

The not knowing what you’re upto will fuck him over far more than him seeing what you're doing.

Go out, live your best life and find a man who treats you right.

Seeking revenge is a trait of bitterness in my opinion. And bitterness is ugly.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Personally I think it's a bit of a process that many people go through.

Anger, bitterness and revenge are things you feel before you can start to let go and move on. The trick is not to do something you'll regret whilst having these horrible feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think it's a bit of a process that many people go through.

Anger, bitterness and revenge are things you feel before you can start to let go and move on. The trick is not to do something you'll regret whilst having these horrible feelings."

That's why I've vented on here. I'm finding I'm thinking slightly less of him each day. I've just found it really cathartic updating my profile on here which I know he'll see so that feels good

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