Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
![]() | Back to forum list |
![]() | Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest | ![]() |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we are just who we are....we certainly don't put on a persona in different situations." I'm not sure it's a conscious thing though, our behaviour is just modified depending on the audience. I say things in front of my friends I'd never say in front of my parents for example. They're all versions of ourselves, I just wondered when the unfiltered one comes out. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Its only in the last year iv been comfortable enough to just let go and realise my potential I like it" forgot to add only 1 maybe 2 people know the real me | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we are just who we are....we certainly don't put on a persona in different situations. I'm not sure it's a conscious thing though, our behaviour is just modified depending on the audience. I say things in front of my friends I'd never say in front of my parents for example. They're all versions of ourselves, I just wondered when the unfiltered one comes out. " My parents (Flik) are outrageous and there's nothing I could say that would shock them...more likely to be the other way around but we've always been open with each other. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we are just who we are....we certainly don't put on a persona in different situations. I'm not sure it's a conscious thing though, our behaviour is just modified depending on the audience. I say things in front of my friends I'd never say in front of my parents for example. They're all versions of ourselves, I just wondered when the unfiltered one comes out. My parents (Flik) are outrageous and there's nothing I could say that would shock them...more likely to be the other way around but we've always been open with each other." My kids & I are wonderfully open with each other ... sometimes probably way too much ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we are just who we are....we certainly don't put on a persona in different situations." i agree with you guys. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Most of us have a range of versions of ourselves, we change our behaviour depending on the company. For example I act differently at work than I do with my parents and different still to how I act with friends. My question is when, if ever, do you feel most like the "real" you, do you ever let your barriers down completely and just be yourself? What makes or stops that from happening? " When I am with my man, especially when we are on a relaxing holiday, away from pressures and stresses. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"How about you op? Anyone bring out the real you?" You. Sorry about that ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I was thinking something around this last night; I’m not sure sometimes which *is* the real me. I often don’t feel very me with others but an extension of their own conversation/ persona / need. But it was late, and alcohol has been consumed and I was alone. ![]() I thought about it sober ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’m the same at work, with friends and on meets ![]() P.s. I’m different with my Mum as she scares me ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, I'm just an eejit all the time ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"All the facets are the real me. Just me in different circumstances. " This is closest to me I think! All parts of me are me, it's not putting on a different face in different circumstances, rather that different parts come to the fore. The only person who knows all the parts is Mr ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I am a firm believer of Goffman's dramaturgical analysis so I do think that we expose different facettes of ourselves depending on who we enteract with. I guess my true self is when I am alone " deep man deep | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I am a firm believer of Goffman's dramaturgical analysis so I do think that we expose different facettes of ourselves depending on who we enteract with. I guess my true self is when I am alone deep man deep" I'd hope that shit I have googled will help me to fuck a sappiofile ! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I am a firm believer of Goffman's dramaturgical analysis so I do think that we expose different facettes of ourselves depending on who we enteract with. I guess my true self is when I am alone deep man deep I'd hope that shit I have googled will help me to fuck a sappiofile ! " i think it might just do ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Most of us have a range of versions of ourselves, we change our behaviour depending on the company. For example I act differently at work than I do with my parents and different still to how I act with friends. My question is when, if ever, do you feel most like the "real" you, do you ever let your barriers down completely and just be yourself? What makes or stops that from happening? " I'm always the real me what you get is what you see and hear ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() So you speak to your parents exactly the same way you speak to your mates ? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I act the same in any situation never change " Exactly the same? Or the same person reacting to the situation you are in? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I am basically me all the time but have to act differently in certain situations for example I work with vulnerable people so I have to be careful on what I say and how I say it so as not to offend or appear patronising. With family (kids, mum and siblings and their kids) I am the organiser and the go to person. I have different groups of friends and I am mostly the same with each of them. Some I am more proactive in organising nights out and in others I wait till they organise things. Don’t think I am ever false except when I don’t like someone but don’t want to offend then I try hard to be nice and if need be put sunglasses on so they can’t see the expression in my eyes ![]() I should have read you’re post before I posted. I agree ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() Yep, sounds strange but yeah. My family isnt a posh one. We enjoy a laugh as much as anyone else. ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() That’s good If it’s like that but nothing to do with being posh. My parents know me better than anyone but there are certain things they won’t understand so I don’t put them on an uncomfortable situation x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() Do you? ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() My parents know I'm on here. They might not approve but I speak freely it ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Most of us have a range of versions of ourselves, we change our behaviour depending on the company. For example I act differently at work than I do with my parents and different still to how I act with friends. My question is when, if ever, do you feel most like the "real" you, do you ever let your barriers down completely and just be yourself? What makes or stops that from happening? " Professional at work Me at home and with close friends Daughter and what my parents expect of me Fab what I want people to see Fan dates? Depends on the level of trust | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That’s cool mate I’m not judging, everyone to their own, it’s just something I’d rather not tell my parents. We all have opinions that’s why we’re on a forum no one is right and no one is wrong | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Of course ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You do realise that you’re wrong though? ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I sometimes wonder if GMF and the real me are actually alike? Albeit, I'm rather fond of the sometimes pompous and self indulgent flirt of a guy..." I’d say the two of you have similarities but are not alike. You play the forum (and the ladies) as GMF but, I’m sure the ‘real’ you is perhaps somewhat less arrogant or pompous and perhaps a little less of a bounder in person. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I sometimes wonder if GMF and the real me are actually alike? Albeit, I'm rather fond of the sometimes pompous and self indulgent flirt of a guy... I’d say the two of you have similarities but are not alike. You play the forum (and the ladies) as GMF but, I’m sure the ‘real’ you is perhaps somewhat less arrogant or pompous and perhaps a little less of a bounder in person. " thankyou ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I d agree with you, but then we'd both be wrong ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I sometimes wonder if GMF and the real me are actually alike? Albeit, I'm rather fond of the sometimes pompous and self indulgent flirt of a guy... I’d say the two of you have similarities but are not alike. You play the forum (and the ladies) as GMF but, I’m sure the ‘real’ you is perhaps somewhat less arrogant or pompous and perhaps a little less of a bounder in person. " I'm a rebounder ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I sometimes wonder if GMF and the real me are actually alike? Albeit, I'm rather fond of the sometimes pompous and self indulgent flirt of a guy... I’d say the two of you have similarities but are not alike. You play the forum (and the ladies) as GMF but, I’m sure the ‘real’ you is perhaps somewhat less arrogant or pompous and perhaps a little less of a bounder in person. thankyou ![]() Huh? Why did that apply to you? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ditto ahahaha ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I sometimes wonder if GMF and the real me are actually alike? Albeit, I'm rather fond of the sometimes pompous and self indulgent flirt of a guy... I’d say the two of you have similarities but are not alike. You play the forum (and the ladies) as GMF but, I’m sure the ‘real’ you is perhaps somewhat less arrogant or pompous and perhaps a little less of a bounder in person. thankyou ![]() everything can be applied to me ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I just like having a laugh, we all have different tastes and interests it takes an arrogant individual to think it’s only what they think that matters, so thanks for the sense of humour ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nah, im just myself all the time. Its a revelation not to put masks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We re all here for some good times, whoever wants the opposite can go, right there ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I can only be truly myself when alone " and I can only be myself with you ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top | ![]() |