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By *ere4funonly OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever I park my truck that's home

Just wanted to know others opinion

Some women on here are really getting clever

Asking for food money or traveling money before you meet

In my opinion that's either

A. A scammer

B. An escort

What do others think and should they be named and shamed

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Some are asking for generous men only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just wanted to know others opinion

Some women on here are really getting clever

Asking for food money or traveling money before you meet

In my opinion that's either

A. A scammer

B. An escort

What do others think and should they be named and shamed"

no u could be lying for example i could say you jeremy clarkson its easy to spead bullshit just report em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What use is naming and shaming. Unless they've directly asked you for cash, you can't prove anything.

I want to be pampered. That's a statement, not me asking for money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sugar dating is a thing x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Some guys like to do this... some women like to do this. Dont think it makes them an escort as they arent guaranteeing sex but i do think fab isnt the place for it.

This week ive been offered several gifts.. ive declined but you can see why some women ask.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s an awful lot of men putting up statuses offering to reward women for massages and their company too, each encourages the other.

Just report or block

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By *ere4funonly OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever I park my truck that's home

Trust me she goes to WhatsApp then starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s an awful lot of men putting up statuses offering to reward women for massages and their company too, each encourages the other.

Just report or block

"

I don't see the men's ones, which I'm sure are plentiful, bit there's an awful lot of attempted scamming going on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just wanted to know others opinion

Some women on here are really getting clever

Asking for food money or traveling money before you meet

In my opinion that's either

A. A scammer

B. An escort

What do others think and should they be named and shamed"

why would you “name and shame”...? It’s not your thing, move on. I do that literally hundreds of times daily on here when I get propositioned with rather gross things.

Grow up and press delete just like all of us.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There’s an awful lot of men putting up statuses offering to reward women for massages and their company too, each encourages the other.

Just report or block

"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just say no and/or report/block.

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By *ere4funonly OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever I park my truck that's home

I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

The statement I want to be pampered could mean massages and worshipped in the bedroom. Doesn't mean someone wants payments

Same goes for being spoilt

Don't read too much into things.

Some women just want to be treated like a queen or a goddess.

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By *aughtynacWoman
over a year ago

somewhere close to you

I get asked to do some disgusting stuff , I just block or delete

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

That's a bit... excessive.

I've had some horrendous messages, threats, abuse, all sorts. That have made me afraid, cry, and/or gag. I just want them to go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just wanted to know others opinion

Some women on here are really getting clever

Asking for food money or traveling money before you meet

In my opinion that's either

A. A scammer

B. An escort

What do others think and should they be named and shamed"

Not just women had a guy this week asking for cash as kicked out of hotel and doesn’t get his salary cheque till Monday block !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

Jesus! How old are you?!?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There’s an awful lot of men putting up statuses offering to reward women for massages and their company too, each encourages the other.

Just report or block

"

Ooh what are the rewards do you know? . I'd love an icecream right now and a bottle of Pimms

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

I bet she's gutted

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer

That's a bit... excessive.

I've had some horrendous messages, threats, abuse, all sorts. That have made me afraid, cry, and/or gag. I just want them to go away. "

That’s awful no1 should do that too you *hugs* xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Some are asking for generous men only."

Won’t find them here

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Blimey why can’t I get pampered ??? I’m doing something wrong

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

I maybe way off, but I'm guessing from the anger in this post, there is more to this situation than your initial OP suggests?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Sugar dating is a thing x"

And that is just another name for prostitution lol

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer

I maybe way off, but I'm guessing from the anger in this post, there is more to this situation than your initial OP suggests?

"

I didn't sense the anger, I got feeling of sentiment, understanding and forgiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sugar dating is a thing x

And that is just another name for prostitution lol"

No because no sex is involved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best examples are threads where people mention money/ gifts. Certain women start hinting how horrified they are at what they got offered and would want more.......

It's so blatant it's ridiculous.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"

Just wanted to know others opinion

Some women on here are really getting clever

Asking for food money or traveling money before you meet

In my opinion that's either

A. A scammer

B. An escort

What do others think and should they be named and shamed"

I wouldn't name and shame, as you would be in trouble from admin, as it is against their rules.

I've

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I immediately report them to admin

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I live in Spain. I'm genuinely single. The amount I've had come on too me big time to travel here and meet is incredible,but then you get please transfer funds for my air fare! Block and report

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer

That's a bit... excessive.

I've had some horrendous messages, threats, abuse, all sorts. That have made me afraid, cry, and/or gag. I just want them to go away.

That’s awful no1 should do that too you *hugs* xx"

You get used to it, I'm afraid! But thank you.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just ask for good manners and they cost nothing.x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's possible to be pampered without it requiring any financial aspects - you'd just be taking care of them I like to look after some fellas, including sexually ensuring that they're satisfied but it may include pouring them a drink, calling a cab etc. They may have brought a bottle of wine around that we're sharing: life can involve some aspects of investment, when you get together socially (that's not escorting). At a bar, it's reasonable to assume that you each pay for what you consume: we all do what is right for us.

Report behaviour that's likely to be against site rules to admin and otherwise move along to the next profile that is a match with your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

Wow.

So to be clear for the heinious crime of wanting to be pampered she's a bitch who needs to suffer? Do you not think that this is maybe a little excessive?

Oh and they may be a scammer, they may be an escort or maybe they just don't want a bloke to take them to the local 'spoons for a social?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I have walked for 6 hours today so have throbbing feet therefore some pampering would be great. I sat on my bed to get changed and can’t get back up

So I need someone to bring me an ice cold berry cider, crackers n Philadelphia and to remove my sweaty socks

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"I have walked for 6 hours today so have throbbing feet therefore some pampering would be great. I sat on my bed to get changed and can’t get back up

So I need someone to bring me an ice cold berry cider, crackers n Philadelphia and to remove my sweaty socks "

Oh I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers

Lots of guys with foot fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have walked for 6 hours today so have throbbing feet therefore some pampering would be great. I sat on my bed to get changed and can’t get back up

So I need someone to bring me an ice cold berry cider, crackers n Philadelphia and to remove my sweaty socks

Oh I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers

Lots of guys with foot fetish. "

Oh yes but then if you refuse them you maybe target to a thread like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

Why she gonna suffer cos you blocked her are you actually clarkson omg

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I have walked for 6 hours today so have throbbing feet therefore some pampering would be great. I sat on my bed to get changed and can’t get back up

So I need someone to bring me an ice cold berry cider, crackers n Philadelphia and to remove my sweaty socks

Oh I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers

Lots of guys with foot fetish.

Oh yes but then if you refuse them you maybe target to a thread like this. "

Only thing is I hate my feet being touched

They would only be allowed to remove my socks so they maybe block me when I tell them this (but sshhhh I won’t tell them till I have my ciders n crackers )

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've blocked her now just want the bitch to suffer"

What does that say about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming is against site rules and will land you on the naughty step.

Asking for money from others is also against site rules and should be reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eck id love to be pampered.

Dont even get a bag of sweets.

Must change tack ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you suspect anyone of asking for money for sex.. in any form.. just report them to Admin. I do. I dont want to see Fab turn into that kind of site.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you suspect anyone of asking for money for sex.. in any form.. just report them to Admin. I do. I dont want to see Fab turn into that kind of site. "

Ditto. (although in my case it's usually those offering)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if wanting to be pampered counts as asking for cash though.

I love dogs.. but I'm definitely a cat type of personality. I LOOOVE being pampered.. luxury hand and blowjobs? Massages? Fuck yes please. But only if they're given.. not paid for.. real is sexier

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not sure if wanting to be pampered counts as asking for cash though.

I love dogs.. but I'm definitely a cat type of personality. I LOOOVE being pampered.. luxury hand and blowjobs? Massages? Fuck yes please. But only if they're given.. not paid for.. real is sexier"

Definitely!

Foot rub, massage, cuddles, nibbles in bed after play, etc. I rarely accept because I don't want strings to negate my right to revoke consent. But the idea is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't saying she a gold digger

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Report them to admin dont ignore them always report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report them to admin dont ignore them always report."

I'll report you for hottness

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Trust me she goes to WhatsApp then starts"

You can still report her.

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Meh if ya don't like it just block save yourself the hassle

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"Not sure if wanting to be pampered counts as asking for cash though.

I love dogs.. but I'm definitely a cat type of personality. I LOOOVE being pampered.. luxury hand and blowjobs? Massages? Fuck yes please. But only if they're given.. not paid for.. real is sexier

Definitely!

Foot rub, massage, cuddles, nibbles in bed after play, etc. I rarely accept because I don't want strings to negate my right to revoke consent. But the idea is lovely. "

Strings to negate your right to revoke consent??

Even if you were married you're allowed to revoke consent at anytime. Accepting a bit of pampering doesn't give anyone the right to own you in any way

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not sure if wanting to be pampered counts as asking for cash though.

I love dogs.. but I'm definitely a cat type of personality. I LOOOVE being pampered.. luxury hand and blowjobs? Massages? Fuck yes please. But only if they're given.. not paid for.. real is sexier

Definitely!

Foot rub, massage, cuddles, nibbles in bed after play, etc. I rarely accept because I don't want strings to negate my right to revoke consent. But the idea is lovely.

Strings to negate your right to revoke consent??

Even if you were married you're allowed to revoke consent at anytime. Accepting a bit of pampering doesn't give anyone the right to own you in any way"

I know, but I've encountered enough guys who think if they do nice thing X, I'm less within my rights to change my mind. They're wrong, but I don't want to go there.

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