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Single men wasting couple's time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the deal with sad single guys well i use the term single loosely talking to couple's getting to arrange a meet etc to then ignoring and blocking.

3 times we have had it happen with the latest clown then blocking us. And single guys then complain they get ignored. I wonder why !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Every demographic does it.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The ole single man scenario gets us every time doesn’t it. They chat us up. Share a few photos talk a little durty arrange a meeting and then then go off line have a wank over your photos before the wife gets home and then blocks you. O I love fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see someone chatting then deciding its a no go as a time waster its just being selective in my book. Granted if you arrange to meet and they don't turn up or give notice of cancellation but changing ones mind isn't time wasting its the opposite as I see it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't see someone chatting then deciding its a no go as a time waster its just being selective in my book. Granted if you arrange to meet and they don't turn up or give notice of cancellation but changing ones mind isn't time wasting its the opposite as I see it. "

Yeah to me time wasting is arranging a meet then no showing or messing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to single guys too..... everyone is capable of wasting other people’s time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a little manners doesn’t go a miss

If you can’t make it at least 24 hours notice should be given

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Cuts the other way - was chatting loads to a couple for 2 months or so, had a social but taking it slow, couldn't respond to their last messages for 2 days while I was away, got home to find they'd left our chat & unfriended me here.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"What's the deal with sad single guys well i use the term single loosely talking to couple's getting to arrange a meet etc to then ignoring and blocking.

3 times we have had it happen with the latest clown then blocking us. And single guys then complain they get ignored. I wonder why !"

Sadly it’s very difficult for anyone to get meets with real people. Seems most are just living in fantasy land sadly.

My meets come from twitter on here it seems impossible to get a reply let alone a meet.

Had a couple of replies from sensible people but that’s few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ole single man scenario gets us every time doesn’t it. They chat us up. Share a few photos talk a little durty arrange a meeting and then then go off line have a wank over your photos before the wife gets home and then blocks you. O I love fab "

Exactly meet arranged all we needed was time and adress. Couldn't say sorry no longer able to make it or not interested just blocked. No bollocks in my mind.

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By *ustfun001Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The ole single man scenario gets us every time doesn’t it. They chat us up. Share a few photos talk a little durty arrange a meeting and then then go off line have a wank over your photos before the wife gets home and then blocks you. O I love fab

Exactly meet arranged all we needed was time and adress. Couldn't say sorry no longer able to make it or not interested just blocked. No bollocks in my mind."

Yeah thats just rude! I cant speak for all single men... but i would never have stood you up

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I don't see someone chatting then deciding its a no go as a time waster its just being selective in my book. Granted if you arrange to meet and they don't turn up or give notice of cancellation but changing ones mind isn't time wasting its the opposite as I see it.

Yeah to me time wasting is arranging a meet then no showing or messing about. "

Yep... Having a change of heart or circumstances wouldn't make someone a timewaster in my view.

But I suspect OP that you're actually talking about the wank brigade rather than genuine folk who have changed their mind...

A little tip for you OP. Don't be in a rush to add guys on kik, swap phone numbers, or even to add them as friends on here, and don't send them explicit photos. The ones who are just hunting for pics and wank material will lose interest very quickly and move on to someone else. The ones who aren't pressuring you for explicit pics or details will be happy to keep chatting because they're still interested in meeting. Pic hunters notoriously pretend to want to meet in order to gain wank material, but then wank themselves into oblivion and rarely (if ever) actually get around to meeting anyone. Asking to be added on kik and sending friend requests within 4 or 5 messages are usually indicators that all they want is to see your private pics. If someone is still chatting without asking for explicit photos or explicit details of your sex life, you're on fairly solid ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with sad single guys well i use the term single loosely talking to couple's getting to arrange a meet etc to then ignoring and blocking.

3 times we have had it happen with the latest clown then blocking us. And single guys then complain they get ignored. I wonder why !"
single guys get the brunt of negativity here but everyone, couples, singles and TV,ts,cd also have a portion of blame for let downs to, you've just been unfortunate in the choices you made

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If this thread was written by a single Male everyone would be wading in with “everyone’s got a right to change their minds”.

As it’s written by a couple it’s all roses.

I do feel your pain because it’s happened to me countless times.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Just saying great legs and bod op, I wouldn’t block, I’m just to old for u

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"What's the deal with sad single guys well i use the term single loosely talking to couple's getting to arrange a meet etc to then ignoring and blocking.

3 times we have had it happen with the latest clown then blocking us. And single guys then complain they get ignored. I wonder why !"

Weird and not good to hear. Clubs/parties best for this dynamic while using the site to complement if wanted/needed. Keys/Anklets best guidance suggests all boxes are ticked by couples. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this used to happen a lot with us, we’d arrange socials and they wouldn’t show up, even inviting them to our home after we’d arranged for the kids to stay out overnight, i think a lot enjoy the chase but are too scared to actually meet.

We only arranged with verified by meeting in person members but even that wasn’t fool proof, it just happens I guess, part of life on fab.

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