FabSwingers.com forum: Menopause

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Peeps, my partner who is 50 has been menopausal for about 12 months now. It’s really upsetting her as her libido has all but disappeared, gained weight, feels crap and all the other head fuck symptoms as well. It’s really pissing her off now, she’s been the docs, seen so called ‘experts’ but they’ve been no help at all. She doesn’t want to take HRT as her Mum had breast cancer.

Any other ladies out there who have been through the same and have come out the other side? Will she ever feel herself again?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had those symptoms for over a year now and I found the hot flushes the worse plus the night sweats and the waking up countless times a night . I’ve recently started on Hrt a very low dose because I too was very unsure about it ,but up to now it’s been great my flushes , sweats have all gone I’m sleeping well again .im still not feeling very sexy though and my confidence is not how it was but I’m battling through , hubby helps trying to keep me positive .. but it’s definitely a hard time in a woman’s life .. hope your wife finds her solution x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is going through it too, our sex life has dropped off a cliff and she’s feeling pretty crap