FabSwingers.com forum: How do you know?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we have been very quiet on fab and in life recently. However I was on a night out last weekend, and I pursued my first kind of one night stand.

So my question is, how do you know, if someone is an asshole in these situations?

He was very nice in the club with lots of sexual tension.. but when it came down to it... it was awful...

Any advice if I where to pursue anything like this again?

Or is it just one of those things you have to deal with

(cant sleep and bored so some crack would be good)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't know until you do it

Was he just bad in bed? Or his personality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't know until you do it

Was he just bad in bed? Or his personality? "

Bit of both. Like i just wanted something in return other than a 2 minute fingering was all. He just wanted more and more from me. Sex did not happen at all. I'm not sure if he knew the clit existed or just chose not to give me any fun. I was left sitting naked on a hotel bed feeling kind of confused!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't know that you can realistically tell but I'd be kissing them to get a feel for how they involve themselves with me. After that, it's pot luck. I'd also be wary of alcohol affecting someone, such that I couldn't gauge their personality too well or their sexual abilities being hampered. I picked up a couple of guys at a swingers club and they joined me back at my student shared house - all having had alcohol - generally good but 1 who stayed the night didn't seem to get that we had to get on to lectures next morning and wasn't the best in the sack either. It was during my early swinging period.

I think we just have to be willing to give them up, put them out etc, when we're not too well matched with each other. Or just shag them where we meet - if possible - and make do with swapping a longer intimate session with one that's a quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't know until you do it

Was he just bad in bed? Or his personality?

MrD

Could you not have stopped and said I want sex?

Or been a big more forward and move from sucking him off to climbing on top of him? Sounds like he was shit anyway so you would have needed to be on top lol

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Usually kissing in the bar or club will tell you. If they kiss back as hard and their technique is good, it usually means the rest isn't bad either. But that isn't a given either. Alot is trial and error in afraid, but thats the fun part x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually kissing in the bar or club will tell you. If they kiss back as hard and their technique is good, it usually means the rest isn't bad either. But that isn't a given either. Alot is trial and error in afraid, but thats the fun part x"

I'm not sure she would agree it's fun by the sounds of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If his name was Keith. You should have avoided him

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Think why I never actually engaged in a one night stand from a pub. I always meet men from site's like this, plus it enables you to decide much better.

I think if not for you the pub's , maybe try the hotel area when you are away your in, i hear that's a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think why I never actually engaged in a one night stand from a pub. I always meet men from site's like this, plus it enables you to decide much better.

I think if not for you the pub's , maybe try the hotel area when you are away your in, i hear that's a good way. "

Yeah Fab is a bit like Amazon... Read the reviews before you buy

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

U dont know it's all about connection connection plays a big part aswell

Did you not tell him hey boy here my clit give it a good lick

Depends who they been with to some just like a good fucking me I love oral to

You just have to put it down to experience

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