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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don't think they're perfect at all, maybe they are unsure of how to give rejections and follow the "no reply means no interest" mantra?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swap face pics early in the conversation if they don’t reply, move on, don’t waste your time with rude people.

Conversely make sure when you receive pics of people you don’t fancy just a polite “not for us” will suffice.

But hell this is Fab you didn’t expect people to have manners, class and social skills did you?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No different from when single guys are treated that way really - whilst it would be nice to get a reply, sometimes it's easier not to and open yourself to potential abuse just because you have said someone is not for you

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys? "

We have never claimed to be perfect and a no but no thank you usually has the right results.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We always send a reply even if it’s a no thank you your not what we are looking for....Maybe some cples just find it awkward and don’t want to hurt peoples feelings ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No has found solace on sitting grief, past cannot be changed, future you don't know, live what present gives you, there more people who would love you, like you. half-Saint, half pervert

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always send a reply even if it’s a no thank you your not what we are looking for....Maybe some cples just find it awkward and don’t want to hurt peoples feelings ..."

We are always trying to do the same. It is a site for pleasure so physical attraction is a must and we understand that. We are just wondering why some couples who are just.. well... average... nothing special at all acting like they are "WOW". Or ...maybe we are just so ugly... we need to have a good look in the mirror again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap face pics early in the conversation if they don’t reply, move on, don’t waste your time with rude people.

Conversely make sure when you receive pics of people you don’t fancy just a polite “not for us” will suffice.

But hell this is Fab you didn’t expect people to have manners, class and social skills did you? "

True ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys? "

So them not telling you you are unattractive is rude. But you ignoring the fact you think he is ugly because you fancy his wife and will put his looks aside in pursuit of that is okay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys?

So them not telling you you are unattractive is rude. But you ignoring the fact you think he is ugly because you fancy his wife and will put his looks aside in pursuit of that is okay?"

I never said he is ugly..I only said he is not perfect. Just like we are not perfect.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Just because you are willing to take one for the team and sleep with the "not sexy" guy, doesn't mean everyone feels the same. That's perhaps why they didn't reply.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Ultimately manners cost nothing!!...always good to be honest if your not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys?

So them not telling you you are unattractive is rude. But you ignoring the fact you think he is ugly because you fancy his wife and will put his looks aside in pursuit of that is okay?

I never said he is ugly..I only said he is not perfect. Just like we are not perfect. "

"Not sexy at all". Forgive my paraphrasing but that was the impression I got

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just because you are willing to take one for the team and sleep with the "not sexy" guy, doesn't mean everyone feels the same. That's perhaps why they didn't reply. "

Oh well.. that's not the point but that's all right. We were just wondering why some people can't be honest. It is a site for grown ups after all..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question...why some couples are so full of themselves... You are chatting...it is ok..then exchanging some pics

... usually the male is not sexy at all but you think...oh well...we are not perfect too but not ugly so you are still nice..and then the couple not bother to even reply something polite like..."sorry..we don't like you".haha. Our point is ...if you are not perfect models please don't act like that!! And have some manners. What do you think guys?

So them not telling you you are unattractive is rude. But you ignoring the fact you think he is ugly because you fancy his wife and will put his looks aside in pursuit of that is okay?

I never said he is ugly..I only said he is not perfect. Just like we are not perfect.

"Not sexy at all". Forgive my paraphrasing but that was the impression I got"

My apologies. Not what I meant .

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