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Women who moan about men not reading your profile, what stops you blocking men and looking yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I couldn’t fit the question mark in at the end of the title, ran out of room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think of everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You think of everything "

You’re welcome!

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

I dont bother looking either lol! I wait for people to view me first, i dont miss what i have never had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

You ok hun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You ok hun?"

Lost for words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You ok hun?

Lost for words! "

Only because they couldn't all fit on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would mean the usual suspects would have one less thing to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pat is here now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pat is here now. "

Don’t panic everyone, Pat’s here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pod's here...filling up nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely. "

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ? "

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because most mens profiles in my area have the one line of 'looking for fun' or 'single guy looking for women or couples' then have a backup of a cock pic!

That is why that doesn't work

If you can think of a work around please feel free to leave your feedback here:...…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an obvious solution. I've always gave women seeking men (especially newer ones drowning in a sea of shite) the advice of "Block all men. Turn huntress and become the one sending out initial messages" as it works far better?

Don't know how many took that advice or not though tbf?

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting "

Will he have a beard ?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m always looking .... never moaning just a happy ray of sunshine here

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Does seem to make a difference what filters you have on, individuals still get through that are on your blocked list.

Plus I think it’s just rude to block a whole group because of a few individuals, delete is there for a reason as is block, when required

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Am I allowed to say they'd have nothing to moan about?

Because if I am, the answers they'd have nothing to moan about.

If I'm not allowed, that's not the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ? "

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm part of a couple and do message.

Sorry if I'm not your demographic for this thread. Well actually I'm not but hey-ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I allowed to say they'd have nothing to moan about?

Because if I am, the answers they'd have nothing to moan about.

If I'm not allowed, that's not the answer.

"

Yes yes yes....women moan and men talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because most mens profiles in my area have the one line of 'looking for fun' or 'single guy looking for women or couples' then have a backup of a cock pic!

That is why that doesn't work

If you can think of a work around please feel free to leave your feedback here:...……."

That doesn’t make sense, if you block men then those blokes can’t message you and you move on to a profile that appeals to you more, unless you just like random blokes messaging and it gives you something to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you."

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do. "

Are you and CerealMRmeanors in the same room together ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up."

Where's this French man anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do.

Are you and CerealMRmeanors in the same room together ?"

Tell him nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up.

Where's this French man anyway? "

I’ll only tell you if you tell me what you’ve been baking ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont and dont tarr all with the same brush i mainly play with guys so i just block the individuals that dont appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block anybody from messaging me, I don't mind getting shit messages, they take seconds to deal with so there's nowt to moan about here. I suspect the serial moaners secretly enjoy the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do.

Are you and CerealMRmeanors in the same room together ?

Tell him nothing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do. "

There's a flaw in every plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up.

Where's this French man anyway?

I’ll only tell you if you tell me what you’ve been baking ?!"

I like to make gingerbread men and then tear their legs off whilst still steaming hot...the pic was for a avator challenge sometimes I like to conform.

The whisk is handy for many things not just baking and I'm not being crude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up.

Where's this French man anyway?

I’ll only tell you if you tell me what you’ve been baking ?!

I like to make gingerbread men and then tear their legs off whilst still steaming hot...the pic was for a avator challenge sometimes I like to conform.

The whisk is handy for many things not just baking and I'm not being crude."

Thank you for replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime women as moaning that they get too many messages we always say block single men from messaging you! The lack of response tells us all we need to know!

For some women receiving loads of messages helps with there self confidence, ego and they measure themselves against others, we’ve heard them boasting on here and in clubs, but if it makes them feel better about themselves then all good

Secondly many women like to be hunted, rather than be the hunter, maybe for old fashioned reasons, maybe because there ego gets in the way of initiating contact or a number of reasons.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pod's here...filling up nicely.

Who else do you reckon will be along shortly ?

Someone from Wales or France....oh exciting

Will he have a beard ?

He may well do.

I might read your profile as well. Was this a 'look at me post'?...shame on you.

All threads are look at me posts, please keep up.

Where's this French man anyway?

I’ll only tell you if you tell me what you’ve been baking ?!

I like to make gingerbread men and then tear their legs off whilst still steaming hot...the pic was for a avator challenge sometimes I like to conform.

The whisk is handy for many things not just baking and I'm not being crude.

Thank you for replying."

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I just use a lot of filters so I dont need to block men. I dont get many messages at all and that suits me the way it is.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


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You ok hun?

Lost for words!

Only because they couldn't all fit on... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of it is because they can't be arsed, why go hunting when the prey will come to you?

Complaining just passes time until the right one comes along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont they still have to read your profile after you hunt them down and message them. And what about if they still don't read it, and are just so excited to receive a message they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do. "

Sorry You promised you wouldn’t post that message

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t moan

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't moan.

People who clearly demarcate themselves as suitable or otherwise are doing me a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s a good question."

Good question everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t moan "

What about when a bloke is balls deep in you Babs ?

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Makes total sense to me. It’s what I always do. I like the hunt anyway and it works for me

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t moan about that, just in bed.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley


"I don’t moan about that, just in bed."
I bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can't take rejection, it makes me cry. Having an inbox full of messages makes me feel attractive and wanted.

It makes me feel good when I ignore messages because then they send more and start begging. I don't owe them a reply. Me rejecting them is tough shit, I only care about myself.

I like to post sexy pics so that I can get mad at men who mail me about them. Especially the ones who say I'm sexy or mention sex. How dare they be so rude and mention sex when I've got my tits/ arse/ fanny out in public!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I like to post sexy pics so that I can get mad at men who mail me about them. Especially the ones who say I'm sexy or mention sex. How dare they be so rude and mention sex when I've got my tits/ arse/ fanny out in public!!"

That’s why I hide my cock! You should see the horrible offers I get when it’s on display.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I don’t moan

What about when a bloke is balls deep in you Babs ?"

I’m more of a screaming, swearing, crying type of girl at that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I like to post sexy pics so that I can get mad at men who mail me about them. Especially the ones who say I'm sexy or mention sex. How dare they be so rude and mention sex when I've got my tits/ arse/ fanny out in public!!

That’s why I hide my cock! You should see the horrible offers I get when it’s on display. "

It's awful isn't it. Who wants to know that people are lusting after them. Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t moan

What about when a bloke is balls deep in you Babs ?

I’m more of a screaming, swearing, crying type of girl at that point "

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"...they just blurt out they wanna fuck you in every hole and cum noisily on your toes. Then what do we do. "

Get into foot fetish?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think people need to moan less and fuck more...just saying

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

The folk that moan are really the only ones who can say why.

My thoughts

Some like the attention and posting a thread creates more attention..

Some are lazy..

Some would have to raise their game to interest and entice..

Some would rather say no thanks than be the one thats turned down.

I'm sure there are other reasons, chances are the folk that moan won't post on here.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I do hunt - I like the thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not much to read on my profile :/ ... still a work in progress.

My filters are activated and single men can't message. If a profile piques interest I'm the one to initiate.

I found the influx of hundreds of message with the type of content, requests and demands being made quite unhealthy.

Proactive rather than reactive works for me

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

The forums.... If there was a way to block all mail except forum mail I'd never grumble about men pestering me because they hadn't read my profile again

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