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Would you be comfortable naked in the company of vanilla friends.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

As I user of the communal gym showers I am regularly naked in the company of mates and we chat away as if it’s perfectly normal.

But I don’t know how I’d be in the company of family friends and particularly with lady friends. I remember being embarrassed when a female friend was topless on the beach with me. I was so conscious to not look at her boobs, it was obvious I wasn’t looking at her boobs. Incidentally she found it most funny.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

What, at my age

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, it'd be so weird.

In clubs, I'm fine. Whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What, at my age "

This

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’ve just been on hols and walked around naked in front of my adult Daughters... plus side is I got first dibs in the bathroom

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Club , no problem ) but female friends could be tricky

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t do naked My body doesn’t like it when the fresh air touches it soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I am the only one naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it'd be so weird.

In clubs, I'm fine. Whatever. "

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m pretty relaxed now.

I wouldn’t purposely strut around in front of vanilla friends but I wouldn’t shy away either.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

It’s funny how we seem in consensus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah doesn't bother me, but the scares on my back do tend to raise questions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugby player all my life - we fully embrace it too....

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Nobody vanilla or otherwise wants to see me naked.....it ain't pretty.....haha

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"Rugby player all my life - we fully embrace it too.... "

at the rugby bromance.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My friends who aren't on fab would be far from comfortable if we were naked together that would make me uncomfortable

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm fine with it all. I'd run down the street shouting hala lula but I need knickers on even if just a thong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully embraced the rugby bromance - soap on a rope is needed.....

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

One of the "spin offs" of a boarding school education....!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Boarding school didn’t bother me, you had no choice anyway

Now I’m happy naked in my home, but wouldn’t be around family or friends as it’s not them

Any where that’s warrants it, then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine ever being somewhere with vanilla friends that wandering naked is the norm. I wouldn't just do it in my house or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with some but i played rugby for 30 yrs so spent that whole time showering with blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been. Admittedly it was a naked sauna but there was still plenty of bashfulness from most of the others

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've talked about this and there are certain people who we would be fine being naked around, but certainly not anybody.

It mostly comes down to how the other person feels about it. If they feel uncomfortable we wouldn't want it to happen.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find my body hangups bother me a lot less in my vanilla life, now I go to clubs. It's interesting.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I have done a number of streaks in my time, and actually found them very funny, however it’s very different to being in a social situation.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"One of the "spin offs" of a boarding school education....!!! "

Or time in the forces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't hang around with guy friends naked but if it's just the girls it doesn't bother me. I have a close group of friends and we'll all get together to do fake tans or sit and chat while the other is in the bath etc. It's not remotely sexual though, just that we've known each other that long no one cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the military so it’s kind of the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Itd depend on why.. but I'm pretty body comfy.

To be fair.. if someone is topless on the beach, they should kind of expect that people will look, men especially.

1. It's not common on UK beaches and bathing areas.

2. It's a pair of tits and men can't help it!

So I wouldn't feel too bad. I'm sure she thought it was quite cute that you tried not to look. I had a similar experience travelling round SE Asia, Norwegian girl who did same thing. I just looked right at them as soon as she did it! Couldn't help it.. Then I tried not to look, but kept getting caught not looking. I apologised, she said she was flattered.

End of the day.. if your starters, people will look.. whatever situation your in.. whether they are same sex, opposite, straight, bi, gay whatever.. people are curious and unconsciously compare their own body.

Personally, I think if you want to go topless.. you do it in your own garden, privately and not overlooked. OR you go to nudist and naturalist places to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naked is something I’ve almost always been comfy with, whoever’s watching.

Doing sex stuff however is completely different for some reason.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Clubs, fine. But it's natural to be naked there. I can't imagine a situation where it would be natural to be naked with friends - unless it was a very brief nudity, like getting changed. That'd probably be OK. But extended periods? It just wouldn't happen

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No I wouldn’t. I’d prefer us all to keep it covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would... especially if we were all like that.... skinny dipping springs to mind.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless we were all in an appropriate environment, then I would, but only if we were all in it together.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yeah. My beasties know that if we're staying somewhere for the night they're gonna see my tits and arse at some point. They don't even blink an eye anymore

We also tan together. We're happy with each others nuddy bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only ever been naked on a one to one basis so I don't know really. I was in frilly things the only time I have ever been to a club.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Naked bits with stockings heels and basque

Yep

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