FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learned since joining fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Got to say before i joined i was very very naive

I thought bisexual was just a porn thing and not a real life thing

Never heard of a cock ring still have no clue what the point is

Bdsm was a scary looking world or bad juju

Shitting on peoples chest is actually a thing

But also more personal stuff about myself mainly positive

Like im more lovable that i thought and am one hell of an awesome fuck

And many many more

So what stuff you learned or were you always a pervy sexpert

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve learnt that woman actually like sex and that you can send random cock photos and won’t get a slap

That straight attached guys like to talk about sucking others guys cocks

And that not everyone is as weird as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m really poor at talking to the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is rewarded

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

That felching is nothing like belching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That felching is nothing like belching."
no idea what either is

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Self acceptance

Some people really are that rude, disrespectful, diabolical, etc.

The depths of human stupidity and laziness

More about my worth as a person

Friends outside my usual comfort zones and circles

Lots of stuff I wish I hadn't googled

Being tough and defensive rather than nice, and owning it

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Nowt as queer as folk....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nowt as queer as folk....

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i thought the banjo player was fruity too

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

That after 5 years my meets are still very very few and far between

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not to trust people very easily.

There's someone for everyone.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

That there are 27 ways to get in a woman’s underwear and only 1 way to get out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that I'm way more kinky then I ever thought that I was,and to be bluntly honesty I didn't know what half of sexual stuff like cuckold meant

I also learned that I'm still not into bed hoping that connection has to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learned to play jazz flute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learned to play jazz flute"
does it attract rats tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like to shove veg up their foof.

Everything can be used as a measuring device!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learned to play jazz flutedoes it attract rats tho?"

Nah, the pussy love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People like to shove veg up their foof.

Everything can be used as a measuring device!

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foof i never heard of that pre fab one of the 10 funniest ever words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learned to play jazz flutedoes it attract rats tho?

Nah, the pussy love it"
a higher class of groupy

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I've learnt that I need to buy a smaller sky remote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just learned what boldys freshly shaven snatch looks like from right up close.

Zooooommmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the concensus seems to be that size isn't everything, but age really can be.

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By *ndysaysMan
over a year ago

Winsford

Ive learnt that even if the word straight was in 19ft high letters across my profile...the messages from gay guys still keep coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive learnt that even if the word straight was in 19ft high letters across my profile...the messages from gay guys still keep coming

Just accept their offers and you'll keep coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you fabbers for making me feel normal

Not all female members want sex every minute of their living day,

joke I never really thought that before I joined

I am no better than anyone else, just as nobody else is better than me as a person

It's really hard to to start a conversation with the people you really like, people ignore you if they choose. The block button is there for a reason.

Fab remains an enigma(can't let go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My spelling has definitely improved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems That im very attractive to guys

..... or maybe that most guys will attempt go with anyone to get their end away!!

Also that im very picky and do actually have a type... who'd have thought it!

Cheers fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My spelling has definitely improved

Predictive text has ruined my once good ability to spell. I should check what I have typed before pressing send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there definitely *isn't* someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just learned what boldys freshly shaven snatch looks like from right up close.

Zooooommmm

Almost spat my mouthful of tea on my screen.

Brat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That there definitely *isn't* someone for everyone. "

Someone's Monday didn't start so well

...

Lots of people give out virtual hugs.

Would you like one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people love to try and waste your time ..

That most single guys don’t read profiles .

That a lot of people have massively high opinions of themselves .

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By *ndysaysMan
over a year ago

Winsford

"Ive learnt that even if the word straight was in 19ft high letters across my profile...the messages from gay guys still keep coming

Just accept their offers and you'll keep coming"

I have no issues with that anyway..so think i will pass on them for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people who type ‘yous’ massively irritates me, guys asking to chat on kik are a total waste of time.

On a positive that so many people see that D is as gorgeous and sexy as I do

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm much fussier than i was in my 20s as I'm dubious of 99.5% of men who message me. Can't seem to get rid of that feeling of mistrust.maybe finding fwb or nsa on fab isn't right place? But i seem to be ok meeting guys on usual dating apps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m actually quite a greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that I start to lose feeling after the third cock is done with me

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I've learnt that I need to buy a smaller sky remote."

Lol...that made me chuckle

btw your cock looks delicious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People like to shove veg up their foof.

Everything can be used as a measuring device!

foof i never heard of that pre fab one of the 10 funniest ever words

It’s a great word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that on a site that actually is for likeminded individuals who are generally just after sex, it's easier to get sex on other apps.

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

That some think "peeps" is a cool word for "people"

It's not!

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

Some people have hair in places I would never have previously imagined...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gapping arsehole can contain more than one corn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people are just cunts and need to be blocked.

That I'm not as unlikeable as I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people are just cunts and need to be blocked.

That I'm not as unlikeable as I thought

Oh! And anything can be a sex toy if you're brave (or weird) enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people are just cunts and need to be blocked.

That I'm not as unlikeable as I thought

What's the first thing I checked

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

That women like me a hell of a lot more than I ever thought they would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That while there are some blokes that will say anything just to try to get their dick wet theres also lots of lovely blokes who really do want and desire a woman like me.

Also although im vanilla im not as vanilla as i was before joining..

And getting less vanilla as time goes by.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

To teabag someone boiling water is not necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/08/19 11:02:59]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To teabag someone boiling water is not necessary."

Nor is cream

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

That some people in forums spout utter rubbish, in order to attract attention like petulant children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people in forums spout utter rubbish, in order to attract attention like petulant children"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people in forums spout utter rubbish, in order to attract attention like petulant children"

Well said that man, well said!

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Many thanks guys. It is accurate tho!!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"To teabag someone boiling water is not necessary.

Nor is cream

Cream in tea? You pervert!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

That people like to be heard ... some people like to be heard a lot

You can’t trust everyone, no matter how friendly they may appear.

That some people would trample you to death to get to yet another meaningless shag.

I’m braver than I thought.

Wiser than I realised.

That no matter what others say and do or how they choose to do things, I am true to myself and how I want to interact on here.

I enjoy socials.

I have become cynical ... boo to that.

That people think absolutely nothing of being nasty to others which I feel is such a shame and a waste of time

Fab has shown me that some people believe there is something wrong being a nice person- I feel they are wrong.

Mostly though that I am overwhelmingly happy and comfortable being me and I don’t have to explain myself to others

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Mostly things that I've had to go look up, to find out what they are. And they're not to be repeated ad I'll save others the distress

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I was already borderline genius prior to joining so no real change here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt nothing

same as at school

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Some people are funny, some people are sexy, some people are crazy, the best kind are a combination of the three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are funny, some people are sexy, some people are crazy, the best kind are a combination of the three

Are you describing me

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Ha swinging and lying seem to go hand in hand.

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"That people like to be heard ... some people like to be heard a lot

You can’t trust everyone, no matter how friendly they may appear.

That some people would trample you to death to get to yet another meaningless shag.

I’m braver than I thought.

Wiser than I realised.

That no matter what others say and do or how they choose to do things, I am true to myself and how I want to interact on here.

I enjoy socials.

I have become cynical ... boo to that.

That people think absolutely nothing of being nasty to others which I feel is such a shame and a waste of time

Fab has shown me that some people believe there is something wrong being a nice person- I feel they are wrong.

Mostly though that I am overwhelmingly happy and comfortable being me and I don’t have to explain myself to others

Oh this entirely!!!

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

I thought, before I joined Fab I was silver tongued...

Turns out i’m Not

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t think I have learnt anything that I didn’t know already, I have always enjoyed lots of sex and being on swing sites allowed me to peruse some of the less vanilla traits I had lurking in me for years

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've learned that sexuality can present itself in a myriad of ways, as diverse as the people who use the site.

That each person has something sexy about them to someone, it's just about finding someone on your wavelength.

That I can forgive easily and move on - people make mistakes but that's life.

Even someone like me can find love.

That who I am is more than good enough and I should embrace me for me. Confidence is sexy. Putting myself down is silly and daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still not very at communicating with the opposite sex

There alot of negativity on here and alot of shallow people but also alot of great people too

That I'm more open minded than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm worth it.

I'm nobody's fool.

Some people are cunts.

Some people are beautiful inside and out.

Trust my gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing & anything else is a bonus

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Ives learned straight doesnt always mean straight ,that there ARE some decent genuine people on here if you have the patience to wait for them ,we are all just normal people with an interesting other life or hobby ,and im so much more open minded than i ever used to be ,and what could have destroyed us as a couple has actually enriched our lives and hope it continues ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought, before I joined Fab I was silver tongued...

Turns out i’m Not

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is it bacterial?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people are funny, some people are sexy, some people are crazy, the best kind are a combination of the three

Are you describing me

Ya know i think she is dude

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

The circle of the forums

Also that there’s some lovely folk and some not so lovely....who knew!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Men are much more primitive than I first imagined.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

This site is nothing like my dating sites ..

Even tho lots of the women love sex they still have their standards

I'm not as popular as I am away from the site

I have more patience than I thought ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the things I was afraid were true about myself, are.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I've learned...what I thought was kinky isn't and if you have enough patience there are rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never experienced squirting or women until I joined FAB xx

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

That people genuinely think I'm lying about my age

That some men do actually love curves and I'm not as fat and ugly as I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never experienced squirting or women until I joined FAB xx

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same on the squirting i thought it was a made up porno thing

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I've learned many kinks I never even knew were a thing

I'm more adventurous than I thought

Fab isn't all about swinging

Clubs aren't quite as scary as I imagined

The Forums are a good source of information, shite and giggles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another epic word butterface

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I've learned that swingers arent scary people at all and are in fact some of the nicest people I've met xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now know what an arse looks like, and that people love spreading their arse cheeks to take a picture..

Oh and the camera does lie, the correct angle can lose 5 stones or add 5 inches dependant on gender

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Many many thing's.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I learnt that I had become bisexual. I’d had an accidental bi sex session with a couple and joined fab to see if it was a one off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Many many thing's. "
i read that as commandant lasard from police academy

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Many many thing's. i read that as commandant lasard from police academy"

Same mind set!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I learnt that I had become bisexual. I’d had an accidental bi sex session with a couple and joined fab to see if it was a one off. "

Its made me think i probably might like a threesome with a man and woman. So bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me realise I’m more than just a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is sex no matter who you have it with, but there is still the stigma with bi guys and they still hide behind straight profiles.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Never judge a book by its cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ladies are way dirtier than I thought lol

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Keyboard warriors really do exist and should be exterminated

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

That I'm not nearly as perverted as I thought... And straight guys love cock.. Apparently

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

People are people no matter where they call home

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"ladies are way dirtier than I thought lol"

I don’t like this term. I’d prefer to say they are more interesting.

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By *akedcampersCouple
over a year ago

MAIDSTONE

"Expect nothing & anything else is a bonus "

Couldn't agree more!

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