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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So recently iv been thinking alot about the future, where do I want my life to be like in 5 years time.

So where do you see yourself in 5 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully living in a cabin somewhere hot by the sea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hopefully living in a cabin somewhere hot by the sea

That's a very good goal.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I see my self 5 years older

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Still fighting and making memories hopefully.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see my self 5 years older"

Yay, your back!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still fighting and making memories hopefully.

Jo.Xx "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

To many factors in play, I just take one month at a time, let’s see where decisions take me

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'm due to retire in May 2021.

The Mortgage will have been paid off.

I'll have zero debts.

My pension won't make me rich, but I'll be ok.

I plan to write a book.

I will do volunteering or Charity work.

Join Lions Club's local branch.

Oh, my funeral plan is in place.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I see my self 5 years older

Yay, your back!!!

Not for another 5 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To many factors in play, I just take one month at a time, let’s see where decisions take me

That's what iv always done but I feel like I need more of a plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm due to retire in May 2021.

The Mortgage will have been paid off.

I'll have zero debts.

My pension won't make me rich, but I'll be ok.

I plan to write a book.

I will do volunteering or Charity work.

Join Lions Club's local branch.

Oh, my funeral plan is in place."

Oohhh exciting. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see my self 5 years older

Yay, your back!!!

Not for another 5 years

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Sitting in Spain drinking and smoking myself to death writing a book

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I'm due to retire in May 2021.

The Mortgage will have been paid off.

I'll have zero debts.

My pension won't make me rich, but I'll be ok.

I plan to write a book.

I will do volunteering or Charity work.

Join Lions Club's local branch.

Oh, my funeral plan is in place.

Oohhh exciting. X"

I forgot to add, I'll be looking a FWB!

Must get the priorities right!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sitting in Spain drinking and smoking myself to death writing a book "

So like the perfect way to go.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Sitting in Spain drinking and smoking myself to death writing a book

So like the perfect way to go.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be happier in 5 years and hopefully further up the ladder at work. Other than that I don't think much will change

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Retired early after winning the lottery, sipping Margueritas on a nice hot sunny beach somewhere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea and after a life time of routine that's how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to say things are going to change for the better.. But unfortunately I can't see anything changing.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"To many factors in play, I just take one month at a time, let’s see where decisions take me

That's what iv always done but I feel like I need more of a plan. "

The biggest factor and the priority is my lad and his happiness. He’s just about to start secondary school so that controls our location for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in France in a chateau (Fingers crossed)

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Mortgage ends in less than 3 years. Once we've cleared a loan and credit cards we'll be debt free and enjoying some romantic weekends away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I tend to just live one day at a time now as you never know what's around the corner

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Bloody retired I hope

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Alive, hopefully.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Hopefully living somewhere other than Telford and spending a much greater percentage of time dressed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Retiring from the job and Starting my own consultancy, either I will be debt-free or......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years closer to retiring at 57

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alive, hopefully. "

A very good plan, I hope you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to be happy .

No idea how that will look but I hope we achieve it

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

In 5 years time I will be well into my 50's but despite being much older will be enjoying an amazing life with my lovely OH and making plans to travel around Spain so she can see what a beautiful country it is and other places around Europe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finished with uni, working in a job I love, living life with the man I love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In 5 years time I will be well into my 50's but despite being much older will be enjoying an amazing life with my lovely OH and making plans to travel around Spain so she can see what a beautiful country it is and other places around Europe...

This has actually made me cry

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Cremated probably lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cremated probably lol"

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This has actually made me cry

Awe you two.

Take her to the fountains in Barcelona Ash, I'm certain Lorna will love it.

It's such a beautiful place!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely have no idea and it scares the life out of me!

Other than still being happily married and having healthy, happy kids...

.. the rest is a blank.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finished with uni, working in a job I love, living life with the man I love. "

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

If things work out as I am planning able to work anywhere and pick the client I choose to work for. Also making comfortable money and just living the good life. Learning and improving on my skillset, maybe planning family etc. who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finished with uni, working in a job I love, living life with the man I love. "

Fuck yeah you will

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Hopefully as happy as I am now and obviously 5 years closer to being mortgage free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lucky OH

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Oh gosh.....i don't care as long as I'm happy and my children are it's all that matters.xxx

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

This has actually made me cry

Awe you two.

Take her to the fountains in Barcelona Ash, I'm certain Lorna will love it.

It's such a beautiful place!

Jo.Xx "

Thanks for the info about Barcelona Jo....I have been there before but many years ago when younger...I'm sure Lorna would love it there x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This has actually made me cry

Awe you two.

Take her to the fountains in Barcelona Ash, I'm certain Lorna will love it.

It's such a beautiful place!

Jo.Xx

Thanks for the info about Barcelona Jo....I have been there before but many years ago when younger...I'm sure Lorna would love it there x"

No problem Ash, it's such a lovely place, you're going to have the time of your life's. Enjoy. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a plan. I am all to aware that plans get changed however so it is a loose evolving plan

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I would love to be married and hopefully on a particular council and studying for a PhD. But more than anything, I'd like for my partner (and family) to still be in good health and still happy and in love with me.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I would love to find somebody who will love me for the rest of my life....never gonna happen though......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is full of unexpected changes.

Where I have wanted to be for the past two years is no closer, and seems even further away much of the time....

So today I'll do what a can today, tomorrow will look after itself, and in 5 years time I will be where I will be.....

Who knows where that may be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would love to find somebody who will love me for the rest of my life....never gonna happen though......

Don't say that. I said that this time last year and now iv got the love of my life. X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Living my last year and having a blast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Living my last year and having a blast.

That's very precise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea, honestly. I can barely think past tomorrow.

I’d like if my daughter is healthy and happy, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to retire at the end of October so five years I will have been retired for 5yrs.

Earlier this year I bought myself a retirement home in Nabq Bay Sharm El Sheikh, which I will move to and sell my Apartment in Cairo,

Just need to find that special someone to share my life with, but that's unlikely to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly cant say the speed my life keeps changing it could be anything from dead to really alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well, in five years time we could be walking round a zoo

With the sun shining down over me and you

And there'll be love in the bodies of the elephants too

And I'll put my hand over your eyes but you'll peek through

And there'll be sun, sun, sun all over our bodies

And sun, sun, sun all down our necks

And there'll be sun, sun, sun all over our faces

And sun, sun, sun, so what the heck

'Cause well be laughing at all your silly little jokes

And we'll be laughing about how we used to smoke

All those stupid little cigarettes and drink stupid wine

'Cause its what we needed to have a good time

But it was fun, fun, fun when we were drinking

It was fun, fun, fun when we were d*unk

And it was fun, fun, fun when we were laughing

It was fun, fun, fun, oh, it was fun

https://youtu.be/Ag-_PWZzuJA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be happy and take life as it is, free from problems and emotional vampires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I will get my life together and beat my anxiety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a Volvo hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a cell also

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