FabSwingers.com forum: What is the kindest rejection you have had on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Think fuck off is the kindest lol

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"You're not coming anywhere near me with that, you could have my eye out".

To be honest I was a little upset....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was go fuck yourself off a very abusive couple

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thank you but no thanks"

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

"What happened to your hair?!"

.....to the point.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It was ‘eat shit and die’.

I was like aaawwww

Then I had a little wank

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I didn't get a reply, just a block.

Does that count as kind?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?"

off topic I know but wow 5 stone that's amazing x

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"I didn't get a reply, just a block.

Does that count as kind?"

Mostly it's either unread or just deleted. I honestly can't remember getting a rejection reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?"

Good for you. Well done that's an achievement you should be proud of.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It was ‘eat shit and die’.

I was like aaawwww

Then I had a little wank

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

"You are too masculine"

I never get that compliment as a guy.

I'm so happy

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

that as lovely as I seem, I am too fat for him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was ‘eat shit and die’.

I was like aaawwww

Then I had a little wank

Just spat my tea out laughing at this.

Love the humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was

"sorry short hair doesn't do it for me"

I took that as a polite way of saying "fuck ain't you ugly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are the worse...

Silence

ahahah there s no manners nowadays ahahaha

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards "

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

Thanks Sarah....was it you that sent me it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

Thanks Sarah....was it you that sent me it"

Oh shush you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank you sound foreign!! Made me laugh

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

Thanks Sarah....was it you that sent me it

Oh shush you

You still had a peek at my profile to see if you had rejected me lol love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

Thanks Sarah....was it you that sent me it

Oh shush you

You still had a peek at my profile to see if you had rejected me lol love it"

No.. I looked at you, because you looked at me so ner ner ner ner ner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been rejected but there again I rarely send a first message and I've never asked a guy to meet me,I must be old fashioned

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"We don't think you'll like us after seeing your face pics, you're too good looking. Anyway why the fuck are you on here?"

Haha sweet couple we still chat though from time to time.

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Mine was sort and sweet.

Send me a picture. Which I did.

Response was stay hidden you ugly cunt.

Oh well onwards and upwards

Laughing here... Suddenly mine doesn't seem so bad

Thanks Sarah....was it you that sent me it

Oh shush you

You still had a peek at my profile to see if you had rejected me lol love it

No.. I looked at you, because you looked at me so ner ner ner ner ner.

Will let you message mecawayvfrom here to stop filling chat up

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If I met you after a nights drinking I might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll let you know if it happens

"
lol youre in love it's not gonna happen anytime soon

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Someone once told me I was a fucking cunt but in the nicest way. It was the bestest compliment I was ever paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here” "

Must have been a complete idiot!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here”

Must have been a complete idiot!"

this is just what I was thinking

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here” "

I'm more concerned that they think you're too old at 41

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here”

Must have been a complete idiot!"

Each to their own I guess

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By *DM9012Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

It was"Fuck off"

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Rejection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a couple, all going well. They then asked how big my chopper was.

It wasn't big enough for them but they said I was perfect in every other way, I suppose that's kind

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve not had it....yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either read and ignore or sorry not for us after they received the requested face picture.

Lesson learned never message first. Ever!!! Lol.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Suppose the best one was,from a lady..I like anal, but you're too girthy for me... I'll take that as a compliment any day of the week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?

off topic I know but wow 5 stone that's amazing x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell u if it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?

Good for you. Well done that's an achievement you should be proud of."

I am and thank you.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?"

Aw congrats on the weight loss - you look great!

I’ve had a few people tell me I’m not their type - which is fine! It’s impossible to be everyone’s type!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I was at a club recently, to be told "you're too old, positively Ancient!"

Saw the lady on here later; her profile showed she'd Veri's from several guys older than me!

Subtlety wasn't her strong-point!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t meet people who live in London haha

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I don’t meet people who live in London haha "

Tbh the cost of accommodation (unless you accommodate) can be prohibitive! It’s also a very expensive place to eat/drink etc if you’re just a poor lowly northerner on a shit wage! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 on the same day,

1. you are too young and cute (I was quite happy with such words)

2. You are too far to meet (facepalm)

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

Couple messaged me for pics . I sent them and got told . Not for us and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been told a few I was 10 years they would play but at last aww well haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 on the same day,

1. you are too young and cute (I was quite happy with such words)

2. You are too far to meet (facepalm)

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distance one can be a annoying blow

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I don’t meet people who live in London haha

Tbh the cost of accommodation (unless you accommodate) can be prohibitive! It’s also a very expensive place to eat/drink etc if you’re just a poor lowly northerner on a shit wage! Xx"

Understand that, but it was purely the fact I lived here.... so did they lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t meet people who live in London haha "

Interesting

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kindest - do one, your in breach of the no contact order...

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Sorry...you are too hairy for me"......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck off you ugly git.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Fuck off you ugly git.

Obviously blind.....I mean..omg no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck off you ugly git.

Obviously blind.....I mean..omg no!

I think it was the light when the picture was taken.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I can't believe just how thoughtless and bloody awful people can be. There really is no need for it and whilst I don't wish ill on others I wonder how they would feel..probably not to good about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to Dumpsville , population, YOU." Homer Simpson...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady mailed me to say no thank you as I was to slim.

It took me three years to lose 5 stone so that rejection put a huge smile on my face

What is your best ever rejection?"
Rejection is part of the game here even if people loses weight they still get rejected even after losing 7 stone and a bit where most was with slimming world which took 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh, your bald...fuck off

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Urgh, your bald...fuck off "

Jesus h....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh, your bald...fuck off

Jesus h...."

I didn’t get chance to point out is should’ve been “you’re”

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Urgh, your bald...fuck off

Jesus h....

I didn’t get chance to point out is should’ve been “you’re”

That would of been a touche' moment....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'll know it when I find it.

I've had one so far and that would be my kindest. They just said we approach the site differently. That was sweet and true.

*she sits awaiting the next few to pile in now.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

""You're not coming anywhere near me with that, you could have my eye out".

To be honest I was a little upset...."

Sorry! It was pointing right at my eye in that picture.

I think the kindest was on GK's Marvel thread last week when he preferred a different version of Valkyrie.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Actually, the blocks when I send a face picture are kind. It saves time and I don't get an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either "unfortunately, you're too far away" or "you have a good body, but you're not quite my type"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what rejection feels like as I never message first. Sorry.

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

""You're not coming anywhere near me with that, you could have my eye out".

To be honest I was a little upset...."

Be really honest...you loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got told that my cock was too big and that it would probably hurt her.

I had mixed feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just quietly disappear ...

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've been told that i'm "too forward for a woman"

Several times actually - it seems that confident women emasculate some men

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Mine was “OMG your too old to be on here” "

I’ve gotten that

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Best I’ve gotten was your so my type but just not now .... still waiting

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I had "get to fuck, you freak" in reply to my first message I ever sent on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told by a gym fit couple lose another stone and they would be interested ! Pmsl I love it on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for someone slimmer

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I can't believe just how thoughtless and bloody awful people can be. There really is no need for it and whilst I don't wish ill on others I wonder how they would feel..probably not to good about it"

This ^

As they say “nothing stranger than folk”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I looked too high maintenance & I’m scary....

More fool them, I’m a pussy cat really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""We don't think you'll like us after seeing your face pics, you're too good looking. Anyway why the fuck are you on here?"

Haha sweet couple we still chat though from time to time.

Ha! Love it! I have to see for myself.

Eve. X

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Mostly radio silence although I wouldn't mind a polite 'fuck off' like others seem to get.

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

New boy, 50mile drive to meet avatar lady. No show. Arrive home to a text "You don't look like your photos, wasted my time"

HER TIME and my fuel. Never again, no pic, no meet.

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