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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?

Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.

Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.

Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer not to eat before sex to be honest, unless there's like a 2 hour rest period in-between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a bit of grub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nice that you make the effort & to build up to an explosive evening . So yes in my opinion & experience fellas like it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think you need to do what works for you. I'm not big into seduction, but I like getting on the same page with expectations. If I can't find people who are happy to make me comfortable, I stay home.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

All about the tease, both ways

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Nah, a waste of time.

Just fuck

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"All about the tease, both ways "

Ooh there's much to be said for an engaging conversation with the sexual tension clearly building between you. The little looks and smiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?

Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.

Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.

Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company "

Your Aim is bit higher well it's not wrong but in my _iew, it shows four love and caring towards your partner, and I am sure he would love it.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to go for drinks first. Tease and flirt, build up to the moment we both want to get each other naked x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I just send dirty sexts and a picture of my wanting vag.

My cooking wouldn’t seduce me never mind anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different occasions require different seductions. If my wife tries to cook me a nice meal when I get to her house in September, its going to burn while she is on the kitchen table naked and dishevelled. But the second day it would be great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would prefer not to eat before sex to be honest, unless there's like a 2 hour rest period in-between "

Sometimes I make a tasting menu which doesn't lay heavy on the stomach or we eat dessert after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?

Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.

Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.

Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company "

At the risk of being cliche, "not all men" just want to plunge straight in. Your approach sounds perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?

Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.

Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.

Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company

Your Aim is bit higher well it's not wrong but in my _iew, it shows four love and caring towards your partner, and I am sure he would love it. "

Aiming high seems to increase the sexual tension as he hopefully can see my efforts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?

Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.

Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.

Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company

At the risk of being cliche, "not all men" just want to plunge straight in. Your approach sounds perfect."

Thank you. The careful planning of food and drinks is as important as deciding how we will fuck. It sets the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a bit of a specialist but now im retired

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be a bit of a specialist but now im retired "

Specialist in what?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Been a long time since I've been seduced, yes please!

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