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"Do you find it a turn on, i no i do " In all honesty i would say no it doesn't do anything for me. If you are with someone who does you have to plan and make contingency's and its a mood killer for me. I like spontaneity. If i meet someone who gushes i wouldn't get my hair off but it might make me think twice about asking them back to mine. | |||
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"Do you find it a turn on, i no i do " what is it about squirting that turns you on then? | |||
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"i can honestly say and im not just saying this, i would never go to someones house and gush on their bed, sofa etc, i dont understand why women would do this, tho i can gush its really no big deal to me if i dont, if a guys playing with me and i feel im going to gush i would just move so he didnt make me gush over his bed, dont have to be a mood killer, just jump up and start sucking his cock etc, you dont have to say, stop doing that im going to gush or make a big deal about it, i like busy sex anyway so just getting up and sucking a guys cock mid play is something i would do I just wouldnt gush on someones bed but then saying that i dont see how someone can make you gush by accident, its not something i can do by anything, i can always tell when a guys trying to make me gush, they put a couple of fingers up and used very rapid hand movments, its not something you can do by accident, so if you dont like gushers dont do what makes them gush " | |||
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"i can honestly say and im not just saying this, i would never go to someones house and gush on their bed, sofa etc, i dont understand why women would do this, tho i can gush its really no big deal to me if i dont, if a guys playing with me and i feel im going to gush i would just move so he didnt make me gush over his bed, dont have to be a mood killer, just jump up and start sucking his cock etc, you dont have to say, stop doing that im going to gush or make a big deal about it, i like busy sex anyway so just getting up and sucking a guys cock mid play is something i would do I just wouldnt gush on someones bed but then saying that i dont see how someone can make you gush by accident, its not something i can do by anything, i can always tell when a guys trying to make me gush, they put a couple of fingers up and used very rapid hand movments, its not something you can do by accident, so if you dont like gushers dont do what makes them gush " to gush i tend to need clitoral stimulation...its something i choose to do...i too would never without protection, but if someone makes me gush they can hardly complain they were surprised. | |||
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"i can honestly say and im not just saying this, i would never go to someones house and gush on their bed, sofa etc, i dont understand why women would do this, tho i can gush its really no big deal to me if i dont, if a guys playing with me and i feel im going to gush i would just move so he didnt make me gush over his bed, dont have to be a mood killer, just jump up and start sucking his cock etc, you dont have to say, stop doing that im going to gush or make a big deal about it, i like busy sex anyway so just getting up and sucking a guys cock mid play is something i would do I just wouldnt gush on someones bed but then saying that i dont see how someone can make you gush by accident, its not something i can do by anything, i can always tell when a guys trying to make me gush, they put a couple of fingers up and used very rapid hand movments, its not something you can do by accident, so if you dont like gushers dont do what makes them gush to gush i tend to need clitoral stimulation...its something i choose to do...i too would never without protection, but if someone makes me gush they can hardly complain they were surprised. " really? clit stimulation would never make me gush, nor would penetrative sex, i find that very intereting as i though it was only g spot stimulation that made anyone gush | |||
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"i can honestly say and im not just saying this, i would never go to someones house and gush on their bed, sofa etc, i dont understand why women would do this, tho i can gush its really no big deal to me if i dont, if a guys playing with me and i feel im going to gush i would just move so he didnt make me gush over his bed, dont have to be a mood killer, just jump up and start sucking his cock etc, you dont have to say, stop doing that im going to gush or make a big deal about it, i like busy sex anyway so just getting up and sucking a guys cock mid play is something i would do I just wouldnt gush on someones bed but then saying that i dont see how someone can make you gush by accident, its not something i can do by anything, i can always tell when a guys trying to make me gush, they put a couple of fingers up and used very rapid hand movments, its not something you can do by accident, so if you dont like gushers dont do what makes them gush to gush i tend to need clitoral stimulation...its something i choose to do...i too would never without protection, but if someone makes me gush they can hardly complain they were surprised. really? clit stimulation would never make me gush, nor would penetrative sex, i find that very intereting as i though it was only g spot stimulation that made anyone gush " i can gush from anal and was recently set off by a kiss...i was being fucked but Sir kissing me was the stimulus. It is definately something to do with the g spot, that i know from making women squirt....none of that hard nasty battering away at it some men seem to think is necesscary either...though speed does seem to help some women. However i think i reach a point of stimulation and the g spot doesnt need any more ,so to speak....you have to remember i come v easliy and am multi orgasmic...(not boasting just explaining) As for the clit...personally i think its mental...i a;ways coem when i gush or squirt, it may be that i need to relax enough for it to happen and the orgasm does that. But i can come just from penetrative sex, and come without squirting. Tbh i am fascinated by the idea of squirting without coming, as female ejaculation most literature associates it with orgasm... Like most research into female sexuality it is considered in terms of the male body being the norm and the female a deviation from the norm however,clearly uts an area where so much research could be done. | |||
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" really? clit stimulation would never make me gush, nor would penetrative sex, i find that very intereting as i though it was only g spot stimulation that made anyone gush " Although I gush/squirt mainly from g-spot stimulation, there are times when it happens through clitoral stimulation (sometimes when I'm just masturbating with my wand without any attachments)and has also happened during anal intercourse. I can't control it...the only way to stop it would be to stop playing (and I certainly don't plan on doing that). Although I don't neccessarily orgasm when I gush...sometimes it happens when I'm having the most wonderful orgasms. Recently at a club I was watching a guy give oral to a woman - no fingers involved at all, just pure mouth-work - and she gushed for England I have put it on my profile that I gush, and would always warn prospective meets. Nowadays, I always take a shower curtain and towels when I go on meets, and also to parties. If I play in a club where the mattresses are waterproof I still use a towel (and clean up after myself...or Rain cleans up for us ). Do I find it a turn on....not particularly when I do it myself, it's just something that happens, but I think it's horny to watch someone else gush/squirt. Is it the be-all-an-end-all of sexual pleasure...absolutely not. | |||
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"...none of that hard nasty battering away at it some men seem to think is necesscary either...t " Yeah, the last guy I played with really surprised me, he was being quite gentle with his fingers and NOT particularly trying for the gush, but I did and it was lovely | |||
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"...none of that hard nasty battering away at it some men seem to think is necesscary either...t Yeah, the last guy I played with really surprised me, he was being quite gentle with his fingers and NOT particularly trying for the gush, but I did and it was lovely " i wonder if the reason some women dont come is because men are so rough.... obsessed with the gush rather than the orgasm... | |||
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"...none of that hard nasty battering away at it some men seem to think is necesscary either...t Yeah, the last guy I played with really surprised me, he was being quite gentle with his fingers and NOT particularly trying for the gush, but I did and it was lovely i wonder if the reason some women dont come is because men are so rough.... obsessed with the gush rather than the orgasm..." i still dont believe gushing is a orgasum, i do know lots of women who say they cum as they gush but the gushing isnt the orgasums its just some can do both at the same time what i really hate are guys who are obsessed by making you gush in this battering type of way and when they do give themselves a pat on the back then sit back and let you do all the work because they think you have cum and theirs jobs done | |||
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"Do you find it a turn on, i no i do " Not something we are into but each to their own. | |||
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"...none of that hard nasty battering away at it some men seem to think is necesscary either...t Yeah, the last guy I played with really surprised me, he was being quite gentle with his fingers and NOT particularly trying for the gush, but I did and it was lovely i wonder if the reason some women dont come is because men are so rough.... obsessed with the gush rather than the orgasm... i still dont believe gushing is a orgasum, i do know lots of women who say they cum as they gush but the gushing isnt the orgasums its just some can do both at the same time what i really hate are guys who are obsessed by making you gush in this battering type of way and when they do give themselves a pat on the back then sit back and let you do all the work because they think you have cum and theirs jobs done " oh god yes...i cant stand the performing seal thing and find men who want to meet me because i gush a massive turn off! What i am wondering is if people concentrated more on pleasure, then the orgasm could happen...and gushing may occur too... | |||
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"I believe that the obsession with gushing / squirting stems from women on this site stating they can and inferring its the greatest thing since sliced bread and that they cum more intensely than those women who do not squirt. And men who are one trick ponies who try and force women by pressing on their bladder externally whilst fingering rapidly and believing that all women are into this kind of sexual move. And it really grates me people quoting female ejaculation information after reading the likes of Wikipedia or NetDoctor or articles written by people who are not medical Dr's but perhaps hold a degree in flower arranging bought off the internet or pornographers. Questionably the information widely available is supposition and not proven, medical evidence. What interests me is that I've seen a reference quoted which says that a small percentage of the female world population seemingly ejaculate. Funny how that small percentage all seem to be on this site then. A strange phenomenon. I am orgasmic, I have huge orgasms ripping through my body which send my legs to jelly. I cum through clitoral and penetrative sex. I self lubricate, as is healthy. This lubrication can seem quite a lot at times and I've certainly felt it on my thighs and sometimes the back of my corselette is wet. I have never gushed or squirted in similar quantities to what some women on here do. I never have to protect my bed sheets. They would get staining from bodily fluids from me and him but this never goes through to my mattress. I stop men who try and make me gush. I don't blame them as such though, I blame this swinging culture we are in when it appears the norm to flood men with vast amounts of fluid. If they are fed this information they will go along with it. Ill stick to what I'm doing thanks, everyone else can go and produce whatever quantities of fluid they want if that makes them feel sexy " since most women on here say they dont come when they squirt , and i seem to be in a minority of 1 in always coming i am not sure where you get the idea women are going around claiming things about squirting from. | |||
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"btw anyone who presses on your bladder is into watersports, not squirrting " if they want me to piss just ask no need to try and sneak one out of me | |||
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"i squirt when i deep throat and with clitoral stimulation,i cant stop it from happening and no way am i going to give up sucking cock " mee too...though only with Sir | |||
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" since most women on here say they dont come when they squirt , and i seem to be in a minority of 1 in always coming i am not sure where you get the idea women are going around claiming things about squirting from. " You are not the only woman claiming to orgasm when they squirt. You may be the only one saying that on this one thread, but if you have the time to research all the squirting threads over the last year you will find a large majority of women claiming that gushing and squirting are attributed to orgasm. And on your query related to pushing on the bladder, I have seen many men fingering women hard and rough, whilst pressing down on the outside of their pubis. I've also seen this on many porn movies too. Why do you think men do that, could it be that they are pushing down on the urethra for example | |||
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" since most women on here say they dont come when they squirt , and i seem to be in a minority of 1 in always coming i am not sure where you get the idea women are going around claiming things about squirting from. You are not the only woman claiming to orgasm when they squirt. You may be the only one saying that on this one thread, but if you have the time to research all the squirting threads over the last year you will find a large majority of women claiming that gushing and squirting are attributed to orgasm. And on your query related to pushing on the bladder, I have seen many men fingering women hard and rough, whilst pressing down on the outside of their pubis. I've also seen this on many porn movies too. Why do you think men do that, could it be that they are pushing down on the urethra for example " They could be but then they will make a woman piss not squirt...or in my case tell them to piss off i have just covered the waterporrof sheet and Sir whilst having anal doggy style...definatly no pressure on my bladder | |||
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"I believe that the obsession with gushing / squirting stems from women on this site stating they can and inferring its the greatest thing since sliced bread and that they cum more intensely than those women who do not squirt. And men who are one trick ponies who try and force women by pressing on their bladder externally whilst fingering rapidly and believing that all women are into this kind of sexual move. And it really grates me people quoting female ejaculation information after reading the likes of Wikipedia or NetDoctor or articles written by people who are not medical Dr's but perhaps hold a degree in flower arranging bought off the internet or pornographers. Questionably the information widely available is supposition and not proven, medical evidence. What interests me is that I've seen a reference quoted which says that a small percentage of the female world population seemingly ejaculate. Funny how that small percentage all seem to be on this site then. A strange phenomenon. I am orgasmic, I have huge orgasms ripping through my body which send my legs to jelly. I cum through clitoral and penetrative sex. I self lubricate, as is healthy. This lubrication can seem quite a lot at times and I've certainly felt it on my thighs and sometimes the back of my corselette is wet. I have never gushed or squirted in similar quantities to what some women on here do. I never have to protect my bed sheets. They would get staining from bodily fluids from me and him but this never goes through to my mattress. I stop men who try and make me gush. I don't blame them as such though, I blame this swinging culture we are in when it appears the norm to flood men with vast amounts of fluid. If they are fed this information they will go along with it. Ill stick to what I'm doing thanks, everyone else can go and produce whatever quantities of fluid they want if that makes them feel sexy " | |||
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" I am orgasmic, I have huge orgasms ripping through my body which send my legs to jelly. I cum through clitoral and penetrative sex. I self lubricate, as is healthy. This lubrication can seem quite a lot at times and I've certainly felt it on my thighs and sometimes the back of my corselette is wet. " steady on, next thing you know you will be shooting it across the room | |||
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"I believe that the obsession with gushing / squirting stems from women on this site stating they can and inferring its the greatest thing since sliced bread and that they cum more intensely than those women who do not squirt. And men who are one trick ponies who try and force women by pressing on their bladder externally whilst fingering rapidly and believing that all women are into this kind of sexual move. And it really grates me people quoting female ejaculation information after reading the likes of Wikipedia or NetDoctor or articles written by people who are not medical Dr's but perhaps hold a degree in flower arranging bought off the internet or pornographers. Questionably the information widely available is supposition and not proven, medical evidence. What interests me is that I've seen a reference quoted which says that a small percentage of the female world population seemingly ejaculate. Funny how that small percentage all seem to be on this site then. A strange phenomenon. I am orgasmic, I have huge orgasms ripping through my body which send my legs to jelly. I cum through clitoral and penetrative sex. I self lubricate, as is healthy. This lubrication can seem quite a lot at times and I've certainly felt it on my thighs and sometimes the back of my corselette is wet. I have never gushed or squirted in similar quantities to what some women on here do. I never have to protect my bed sheets. They would get staining from bodily fluids from me and him but this never goes through to my mattress. I stop men who try and make me gush. I don't blame them as such though, I blame this swinging culture we are in when it appears the norm to flood men with vast amounts of fluid. If they are fed this information they will go along with it. Ill stick to what I'm doing thanks, everyone else can go and produce whatever quantities of fluid they want if that makes them feel sexy " Spot on! At a seminar about three years ago, "Women & Porn" it was suggested that porn has blurred the lines on this subject. As you say, Iconic.. You get wet and can even dampen the sheets, that is natural lubrication. The American porn industry gradually increased the level of this "wetness" until it became visible. The reason for visible was to show the punter that this gal was well turned on! It developed even firther as one studio tried to outdo the other.. Of course, men saw this and believed it and it was down to the women to achieve this wonderous thing! For me it is a real turn off after someone who had never done it before, suddenly started doing it after going to a party and seeing it happen! She thought is was a "must" and I got drowned . Not nice! Although it was a very weak taste, I was sure it was not "fanny juice" (sorry, all I could think of!) Next time we met, I was ready for her and watched as the spasm in her stomach contracted and she gushed! I have no problem with people liking it. I just wish those that do would make sure everyone is aware! And no matter if it is magical juice or piss, It should come under the “Watersports” heading! | |||
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"well if you believe porn womens cum looks like batter mix " And there you have it! Proper, heavy, turned on lubrication is a creamy liquid and women can produce a quantity when turned on! Women can make a reasonable quantity and different women, different amounts. That is what the speaker was on about at the seminar. But the porn industry couldn’t duplicate the look without making a mess. To allow them to carry on filming they used a clear liquid like water or pee! Look at the very many threads on here and see how the liquid is usually described! Both women and men describe a clear liquid, akin to water. Evidently it tastes of honey and will cure all the ills known to mankind. OK perhaps not, but they way they talk… | |||
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"Its not something i can do, and to be honest i don't really want to ." I agree, not really my thing but each to their own. Thank god we're all different, life would be so boring otherwise. Very interesting post | |||
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"Its not something i can do, and to be honest i don't really want to . I agree, not really my thing but each to their own. Thank god we're all different, life would be so boring otherwise. Very interesting post " Thank you, yes i agree we are all different, but i disliked being made to feel i was a lesser woman by fellow swinger ladies for not being able to, or wanting to. xx | |||
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"i squirt when i deep throat and with clitoral stimulation,i cant stop it from happening and no way am i going to give up sucking cock " Same here, through oral sex, mental stimulation, deep throat, direct stimulation etc.... I orgamost grouch it sometimes but not all the times, but I prefer sex when I am gushing, it is just multi-dinentional , more interesting and kinky....there are 2 days in my cycle when i dont or much less, just before the ovulation....Key is to be very turned on ... Actually a man that is turned on by it is turning me on even more.... Downside, it is not practical, kills the moment, you can't really have a quickly in the middle of the night without having t really wake up t change the sheets after.... For me that kills it most of the time....it is manageable for meets but in a real relationship, you somehow lose the spontaneity... | |||
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"Having a woman "gushing,squirting or pissing" really isnt fun, wet every where bed soaked, warm liquid on me that can only be wee cos ladies dont have balls to store semen , nope not for me !" WTF? thats not a serious post surely to god semen? | |||
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" well if you believe porn womens cum looks like batter mix And there you have it! Proper, heavy, turned on lubrication is a creamy liquid and women can produce a quantity when turned on! " This is what I produce.. its kinda like a very sweet runny creamy consitancy... and if I squirt its a mix of a clear but egg white type consistancy.. and the creamier type... its normally very sweet.. I dont do it often.. and it is done with an orgasm.. it builds from right inside and I will feel like the whole earth has stopped ( this is for squirting not gushing btw) that for a brief moment all I am aware of is this sensation.. then it happens.. first time I was sure I had wet myself but then I looked and it looked like a guy with very runny cum had cum everywhere.. the thickness varies.. If I gush however it is much more liquid like and that can happen JUST before I orgasm. oh and I would never do it over someone elses bed.. or in a club..... in fact rarely over my bed either as it can get very messy. cali | |||
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"Do you find it a turn on, i no i do " nah, he does....im just wondering where im gonna sleep.....find a flipping dry patch debs | |||
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"Jen gushes and squirts on occasion. I am glad she does as I find it very erotic. I love it when she does and enjoy both the taste and watching as she does. We put a shower curtain on the bed with a sheet over the top and that stops a messy bed. " agree, i find Em squirting as she is appreciating my expertise lol. we get through a dozen towels when we are together. | |||
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"Jen gushes and squirts on occasion. I am glad she does as I find it very erotic. I love it when she does and enjoy both the taste and watching as she does. We put a shower curtain on the bed with a sheet over the top and that stops a messy bed. agree, i find Em squirting as she is appreciating my expertise lol. we get through a dozen towels when we are together." haha, shower curtains are the way to go! Jen introduced me to Jason Julius online and learnt the technique through him. It defo works as I have made a fair few women gush now. | |||
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"my wife is a squirter, she can hit a target about 8 foot away, imagine my reaction the first time it happened " What target do you use? | |||
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"I agree with the above, find it a huge turn on and the women always feel drained after have a massive orgasm, I perfected the 'knack' a couple of years ago and can now make any woman gush/squirt every time. The best way to make a woman squirt with distance is to have the lips spread and push gently on the tummy just about the pussy, works all the time. " i used to empty a private patients catheter n bladder exactly the same way! Go figure! | |||
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"I agree with the above, find it a huge turn on and the women always feel drained after have a massive orgasm, I perfected the 'knack' a couple of years ago and can now make any woman gush/squirt every time. The best way to make a woman squirt with distance is to have the lips spread and push gently on the tummy just about the pussy, works all the time. i used to empty a private patients catheter n bladder exactly the same way! Go figure! " | |||
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