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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do. Some dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do but they are very naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the last time I didn't go bareback.

Still alive, no diseases, no kids.

What a time to be alive.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes they do and there are those that only do it with people they trust, who may also be doing it with people they trust... you get the picture.

Your body, your choice. My choice would be no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on risk appetite I have zero for STD, it's bloody costly, I can't pay with my life, unless get second chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. I'm sure they're grateful for your concern for their health, but it's not needed. Look after yourself and leave others to their choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, when I was in my teens/early twenties.

Not a chance now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "

I always get asked to go bareback! My answer is always no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, people do. When we were in our early twenties nearly everyone did, condoms were only used to help protect against pregnancy.

The last thing we want is for people to be wary about saying they play bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

It's weird...I don't do it either, yet I'm able to say so without shaming those who do.

It's their choice. It's not weird or wrong, just not for you, or I.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

What are your views on unprotected oral op?

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?"

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger."

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need to wear a condom for masturbation?

Or while driving, anything can happen anywhere but how much risk you can take? And does it worth?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "

Two people to meet and asked to go bareback .. u lucky fucker ... even one asking go for a finger would be a result lol ..

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

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6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Yes they do and there are those that only do it with people they trust, who may also be doing it with people they trust... you get the picture.

Your body, your choice. My choice would be no thank you "

this is what worries me that circle okay I trust him ok he trusts her she trusts him where would it end. Thankfully not my game if its mentioned its an instant block. But different strokes for different folks wouldn't be me in that circle

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."

Exactly this

We went to swinging clubs, house parties, dogging, hotel meets, met for one to one, and had stacks of group sex. And in nine years we only met 2 people who wanted protected oral sex. Neither got it from us, and one guy who said he wanted to wear a condom for a bj one night when we were out with another couple, was politely told to forget it after the other lady had a mouthful of rubber for twenty minutes with no happy ending.

I told the lady who asked me to wear a condom for a bj that I’d rather have a wank. And that’s what I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens."

So how would you perform oral sex?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol "

When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol

When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess "

Sluts!

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex? "

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah they do, but I only do it if they promise me they have no stds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went bareback with quite a few guys in the year of 18" but now I have a baby from it so wasn't planned. Wrap it up folks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex?

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger. "

But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.

No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex?

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.

But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.

No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.

Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though. "

I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol

When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess

Sluts!"

That’s a compliment in my eyes, thank you

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex?

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.

But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.

No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.

Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.

I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am."

Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.

I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.

Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.

6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol

When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess

Sluts!

That’s a compliment in my eyes, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex?

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.

But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.

No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.

Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.

I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am.

Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.

I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it. "

How can you day it's weird for people to risk their health when you are in fact doing the same, just at a reduced level.

Everyone is into different things. If something isn't for you, don't worry, just pass it by

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By *ralpleaser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"What are your views on unprotected oral op?

I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.

Sorry, but I call bullshit.

In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.

Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.

So how would you perform oral sex?

Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.

But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.

No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.

Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.

I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am.

Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.

I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it.

How can you day it's weird for people to risk their health when you are in fact doing the same, just at a reduced level.

Everyone is into different things. If something isn't for you, don't worry, just pass it by "

I have passed it by.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Yeah they do, but I only do it if they promise me they have no stds"

If they promise...please tell me that's a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people that would happily go bareback. I personally haven't.

Though obviously it's much more fun

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "

Their preference, you said no, they know the risk: their monkey, their circus.

I have enough business of my own to take on anyone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some do and some dont, just spin the russian roulette wheel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah they do, but I only do it if they promise me they have no stds"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah they do, but I only do it if they promise me they have no stds

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By *omeotherknobheadMan
over a year ago

morecambe

depends how bad they smell.

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