FabSwingers.com forum: The wife won't swing but I wish she would!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a very sexy wife, she looks hot and is great in bed. We've talked about swinging for ages but she just isn't interested, thinks of it as wrong as says she's only interested in me.

I constantly think about her behaving like a filthy slut for another man but lately the idea of 3 or 4 man fucking her has become horny.

I just like the idea of seeing her enjoying fucking another guy and doing for them what she does for me.

Her blow jobs are incredible, ending with sticking her tongue out while I cream all over it as she licks my cock.

She loves to be licked until she comes and then likes a good hard fucking missionary style. I'd love to see her on the bed being fucked deep like a dog while I watch and wank. And now I'm getting off thinking about her being spit roasted and used by other guys. The idea of her ending up covered in spunk, maybe one of the guys cock's pulsing inside her as he shoots his load up her bareback is fucking horny!!

Am I a perv or is this normal? Lol

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By *rodigalMan
over a year ago

sunderland

Dirty bastard ha lol normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should allow your wife to decide for herself and accept that decision.

Would she be happy for you to discuss her sexually like you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine to have that fantasy about your wife. But if she doesn't want to do it and you've spoke about it for a while you will have to keep it as a fantasy and stop pestering her. If she ever wants to turn it into reality, she will let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasies are fine. She doesn't want to do it and you respect that so all is good.

Just don't be a dick and be pushy with her.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m sure your wife wouldn’t like you telling everyone what you both get up in the bedroom without her permission. Accept her choice, respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's fine to have that fantasy about your wife. But if she doesn't want to do it and you've spoke about it for a while you will have to keep it as a fantasy and stop pestering her. If she ever wants to turn it into reality, she will let you know. "

Don't try to push her to anything but create an environment where she can ask you for anything and talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, I'm not pushing her into anything. Been together 25 years and it's such a shame i can't see other blokes experiencing what she's got to offer.

She knows about me discussing her with others, and more (showing pictures etc). Not thrilled by it but it's better than nothing from my side. Candaulism is good but cuckolding me would be better!

Bad to say it but I wish she was a cockslut! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't try to push her to anything but create an environment where she can ask you for anything and talk about it."

That's the problem mate! She can ask for anything she likes but she asks for nothing!!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Count yourself lucky that she wants to fuck at all.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Thank you OP I’ve just cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count yourself lucky that she wants to fuck at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you wanna feel a throbbing spaff spewing chad cock inside you but can't handle the thought so put your wife in as your proxy... just go get some alpha penis already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you wanna feel a throbbing spaff spewing chad cock inside you but can't handle the thought so put your wife in as your proxy... just go get some alpha penis already

I want some Alpha penis !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I would be furious if my significant other discussed me like that, knowing I "wasn't thrilled" by the idea of the discussion or the action. Furious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would be furious if my significant other discussed me like that, knowing I "wasn't thrilled" by the idea of the discussion or the action. Furious. "

What makes me furious is people without a significant other telling me how they feel about a significant other talking about them. Chill out, I could join Yahoo for a clean version of my fantasy. The fact is, she "knows" and we're fine thanks!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I would be furious if my significant other discussed me like that, knowing I "wasn't thrilled" by the idea of the discussion or the action. Furious.

She said she's not thrilled by it. That doesn't scream fine to me.

My opinion may be worth what you paid for it, but it stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a very sexy wife, she looks hot and is great in bed. We've talked about swinging for ages but she just isn't interested, thinks of it as wrong as says she's only interested in me.

I constantly think about her behaving like a filthy slut for another man but lately the idea of 3 or 4 man fucking her has become horny.

I just like the idea of seeing her enjoying fucking another guy and doing for them what she does for me.

Her blow jobs are incredible, ending with sticking her tongue out while I cream all over it as she licks my cock.

Am I a perv or is this normal? Lol"
Just a perv

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"I have a very sexy wife, she looks hot and is great in bed. We've talked about swinging for ages but she just isn't interested, thinks of it as wrong as says she's only interested in me.

I constantly think about her behaving like a filthy slut for another man but lately the idea of 3 or 4 man fucking her has become horny.

I just like the idea of seeing her enjoying fucking another guy and doing for them what she does for me.

Her blow jobs are incredible, ending with sticking her tongue out while I cream all over it as she licks my cock.

Am I a perv or is this normal? Lol"

Absolutely normal. I'm fascinated by this almost at academic level. I self-study this relationship real close (as opposed to a horny young carefree individual looking for a quick win sexual experience). So, naturally, I'm also looking to experience it as a single guy. I'll perhaps DM you if OK as my next comment(s) may garner some responses wjich will take the thread off-topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be furious if my significant other discussed me like that, knowing I "wasn't thrilled" by the idea of the discussion or the action. Furious.

But she's not thrilled about it

fantasies are grand and sometimes just have to remain as such! Nowt wrong with a decent fantasy ... love mine in those quiet times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should allow your wife to decide for herself and accept that decision.

Would she be happy for you to discuss her sexually like you are?

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By *ennis6969Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

Seems perfectly normal to me ,I have same thoughts 24/7

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

^^^ This ^^^

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Does she know you are on here looking to meet people? Is she fine with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should count yourself lucky. Start worrying when she loses interest in you and joins a site like this and starts getting shagged by all and sundry behind your back, just like you are talking about her behind her back. Have a bit of respect man! She’s your bloody wife and if she isn’t into it then either respect it or do her a favour and leave her so she find another man who loves her for for who she is and not for the dirty slut he wishes she was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you should count yourself lucky. Start worrying when she loses interest in you and joins a site like this and starts getting shagged by all and sundry behind your back, just like you are talking about her behind her back. Have a bit of respect man! She’s your bloody wife and if she isn’t into it then either respect it or do her a favour and leave her so she find another man who loves her for for who she is and not for the dirty slut he wishes she was. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will add that a few years back we had cam sex twice with a couple. It was good. She said it was easier than she thought it would be. They were quite far away and we had young family so nothing came of it.

More recently she was up for socially meeting a couple with "no promises". We put a profile on another site but those who replied wanting to take it slow were dickheads. Their version of slow was to tell us in the first message they'd meet just for a drink. AND if she was up for it then, to go back to the room and fuck her. Ih, and does sheila anal etc!

It was a complete joke and totally put her off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bloody spell checker! Leave my sodding text alone please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this ^^^ one thing being ok with you on here and not wanting details but that's totally different to discussing her on a public forum.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Well then that’s a bit of bad luck isn’t it! Whatever you do, don’t pester her about it.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

All I see is a total lack of respect for your wife

“I want I want” is all you have written

You know she doesn’t want to swing be happy you have a sexy wife that wants you

Jesus poor woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bully mcbulge pants!! Seriously??

What are you like 7?

Grow up!

It's a swinging/sex site.

Plenty of weirder shit on her, wanna preach... find a mirror!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1) I'm not pestering her!

2) sex is 5% of a relationship, the other 95 is fine thanks

3) if you've got a negative comment aimed at me treating my wife badly have a read of your own bloody kinks and get your mum's view!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why don’t you both go to a Swingers Club, no pressure to play, just to see what this is about. Maybe play together, either in private or in public and just see how it goes? We find the idea of meeting people and having to have sex or tell them we’re not interested quite daunting outside of Clubs. It just seems much more relaxed, sexier and offering choice in a Club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bully mcbulge pants!! Seriously??

What are you like 7?

Grow up!

It's a swinging/sex site.

Plenty of weirder shit on her, wanna preach... find a mirror!"

Pretty sure anyone on the internet can see the forums not just members! Maybe something to consider ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don’t you both go to a Swingers Club, no pressure to play, just to see what this is about. Maybe play together, either in private or in public and just see how it goes? We find the idea of meeting people and having to have sex or tell them we’re not interested quite daunting outside of Clubs. It just seems much more relaxed, sexier and offering choice in a Club."

Yes, we did talk about it and she was up for going "just to watch" but it was around the time the replies we received put her off. She just saw people as wanting to treat her like meat. Suited me but put her off big time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bully mcbulge pants!! Seriously??

What are you like 7?

Grow up!

It's a swinging/sex site.

Plenty of weirder shit on her, wanna preach... find a mirror!

Pretty sure anyone on the internet can see the forums not just members! Maybe something to consider ... "

Yes, I know how the internet works. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bully mcbulge pants!! Seriously??

What are you like 7?

Grow up!

It's a swinging/sex site.

Plenty of weirder shit on her, wanna preach... find a mirror!

Pretty sure anyone on the internet can see the forums not just members! Maybe something to consider ...

Yes, I know how the internet works. Thank you."

Then I'm glad that she doesn't mind her personal life discussed in public ... the world is good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

FFS why not create a thread and bitch on that. It's my fantasy, our relationship and you're talking about something you know nothing about.

Oh yeah! Have a nice day now!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why not just go along to somewhere like VA, lovely Club, nice vibe, separate couples area. Don’t bother announcing your going on hear, just go together and see what it feels like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bully mcbulge pants!! Seriously??

What are you like 7?

Grow up!

It's a swinging/sex site.

Plenty of weirder shit on her, wanna preach... find a mirror!"

You’re calling me a bully? Really? Yes it’s a swinging/sex site, if your mrs is happy with you talking about her in such a way and is fully aware as you say then bring her in and let her give us her side of it.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you seem to be getting rather upset by some of the comments. If you start a thread you have to accept that not everyone will agree and can make comment whether you like it or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it? "

She was more interested but when the "typical" replies flooded in they put her off. Asked for people who weren't pushy etc and most men talked about buying her a drink before fucking her up the arse and spunking in her face!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"1) I'm not pestering her!

2) sex is 5% of a relationship, the other 95 is fine thanks

3) if you've got a negative comment aimed at me treating my wife badly have a read of your own bloody kinks and get your mum's view!"

What’s your mum’s view?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Which is exactly what you want them to do to her isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Which is exactly what you want them to do to her isn’t it?"

Yes. Bull = OK but Bull in a china shop = not OK.

Is that plain enough?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Perhaps just be grateful for what you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a very sexy wife, she looks hot and is great in bed. We've talked about swinging for ages but she just isn't interested, thinks of it as wrong as says she's only interested in me.

I constantly think about her behaving like a filthy slut for another man but lately the idea of 3 or 4 man fucking her has become horny.

I just like the idea of seeing her enjoying fucking another guy and doing for them what she does for me.

Her blow jobs are incredible, ending with sticking her tongue out while I cream all over it as she licks my cock.

Am I a perv or is this normal? Lol"

You’re both normal, but she isn’t interested to should really respect that don’t push her and make sure you tell her you’re on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Which is exactly what you want them to do to her isn’t it?

Yes. Bull = OK but Bull in a china shop = not OK.

Is that plain enough?"

So you wanted these men to sweet talk your wife back to the hotel room under false pretences before fucking her up the arse and jizzing in her face while you wank in the corner. Glad we cleared that up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Blimey why is it so hard for people to think before they speak?

My thread stated I wish my wife would swing. If you don't know us then you don't know our story. I'm not pushing her into it. Read my profile and you'll see what our compromise is.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Out of interest, does she know you’re on here looking for a woman? Is she happy with that? And aware that you discuss your dissatisfaction of her not fucking someone else on your profile and in forums?

I’m baffled by all this. It rest very uneasy on me, especially with how you’ve spoken to people in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) am reading this thread in amazement at the over reactions from the OP to replies.

I cannot be bothered to provide a view or opinion as it will not matter what I say as I would probably be shot down in flames by the OP, so I will make a cuppa and carry on refreshing the feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying it suits you if people want to treat her like meat? What a lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you saying it suits you if people want to treat her like meat? What a lucky lady

You can word it like that.

I'd rather say it would suit me to watch her fucking. Isn't it pretty much the same when fucking as opposed to making love?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses."

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I would be furious if my significant other discussed me like that, knowing I "wasn't thrilled" by the idea of the discussion or the action. Furious. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BigGbiggy ate you married? Have you ever been married or just another one of those failed marriages we read about. 25 years on and she's known for over 20. What am I hiding?

I was married 20 years thanks, I wouldn’t dream of going on a swingers site and talking about her in such a way. Like I say, lucky lady.

So every cuckold is wrong?

You have your limits and desires, others have theirs, deal with it."

Yes because that’s exactly what I said. Ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying it suits you if people want to treat her like meat? What a lucky lady

You can word it like that.

I'd rather say it would suit me to watch her fucking. Isn't it pretty much the same when fucking as opposed to making love?"

I'm pretty sure you worded it like that in the post I quoted.

Also there is a big difference in fucking and treating someone like a piece of meat. I like sex but that doesnt give someone to right to use me for their own pleasure. Swnging is about mutual respect between both parties.

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough

"Count yourself lucky that she wants to fuck at all."

Yep, wish mine did

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is this the 10 minute argument or the full fat one hour one ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

No, because I said I would not hide any of the replies from her. So are you right that I should filter (hide) replies or am I right to not hide things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

No, because I said I would not hide any of the replies from her. So are you right that I should filter (hide) replies or am I right to not hide things?"

Don’t hide anything but act as a filter, the guys that are not suitable just delete and block. You can tell her you got some crappy messages so deleted them. Nothing hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this the 10 minute argument or the full fat one hour one ?"

Nope the 10 minute one as I'm bored now.

Seems like every swinger is an expert on swinging. Incredible that a site which caters for fetishes is full of people so eager to critisizeeach other's.

My non swinging wife and countless billions of others would surely critisize every single one of you for even being here.

Pot, kettle, black!??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

No, because I said I would not hide any of the replies from her. So are you right that I should filter (hide) replies or am I right to not hide things?

Don’t hide anything but act as a filter, the guys that are not suitable just delete and block. You can tell her you got some crappy messages so deleted them. Nothing hidden."

The deal was she'd vet the replies, all of them because I don't make her decisions for her on who might or might not be suitable. Didn't work for me, but that's what I agreed and simply stuck to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

No, because I said I would not hide any of the replies from her. So are you right that I should filter (hide) replies or am I right to not hide things?

Don’t hide anything but act as a filter, the guys that are not suitable just delete and block. You can tell her you got some crappy messages so deleted them. Nothing hidden.

The deal was she'd vet the replies, all of them because I don't make her decisions for her on who might or might not be suitable. Didn't work for me, but that's what I agreed and simply stuck to it."

Well in that case the few idiots spoiled it for you, and it’s now not going to happen for you.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"Is this the 10 minute argument or the full fat one hour one ?

Nope the 10 minute one as I'm bored now.

Seems like every swinger is an expert on swinging. Incredible that a site which caters for fetishes is full of people so eager to critisizeeach other's.

My non swinging wife and countless billions of others would surely critisize every single one of you for even being here.

Pot, kettle, black!??"

There’s fetishes and and swinging, and then there’s lack of respect

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I’m confused, first you’ve talked about swinging and she isn’t interested. Next you’ve set up profiles elsewhere.

Which is it?

Well it’s your job then to filter out those messages so she doesn’t see them!!

I honestly don’t think you really have the right attitude for swinging tbh

I wonder if I care what you think?

Huummmmm....nope! Thanks anyway for your valued input.

She does not read the posts, is not on here, does not want to swing. So, what exactly do I need to filter from who?

READ the post before replying with boring, predictable responses.

Oh I read it. Plus I checked predictive hadn’t made any faux pas’s before I posted, but as you need clarification I shall explain.

As a couple looking to swing, you will receive many hundreds of messages from men that are entirely stupid like “wanna fuck now” or offering to buy her a drink before doing her up the arse.

As the male half of the couple ( and most obviously the keener to get into the lifestyle) it is your job to do the online chatting and messaging until you find a respectful chap like yourself

No, because I said I would not hide any of the replies from her. So are you right that I should filter (hide) replies or am I right to not hide things?"

Well I don’t think some judicial filtering would class as hiding things, but it obviously worked so well for you lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

When you post on the forums you will get replies that are contrary to those you are looking for, please don't attack just because you don't like their opinions.

And NEVER post other peoples personal contact details on here!

I'm closing this thread now.

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