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"I'm guessing it's different for everyone, they're doing no harm so leave them to it I say. " hear hear | |||
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"I'm guessing it's different for everyone, they're doing no harm so leave them to it I say. " and yes I will fab yours as you begged me | |||
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"Easy enough to ignore if you don't like it. " true but I thought I’d ask what others thought | |||
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"See it quite a bit.. usually on ladies status’ to get on to hot photos " I imagine you get them without asking | |||
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"Lots of people are asking for confirmation that they're attractive on fab, asking for fabs is just one way of doing it. I think that its a sign of low self esteem rather than anything else" or exhibitionism...... I do love your outdoor pics | |||
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"It matters not the whole fabs things a bit naff u ask me tho i do like it when fellas fab mine tho i love blocking them it cheers me right up " I’m sure they’ll be devastated. | |||
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"See it quite a bit.. usually on ladies status’ to get on to hot photos I imagine you get them without asking " I would be too embarrassed to ask lol | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate it's hardly desperate, they get nothing for it, it just makes them feel good, a sense of achievement " a compliment means nothing if it has to be asked for | |||
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"Easy enough to ignore if you don't like it. true but I thought I’d ask what others thought " That is what I think. | |||
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"See it quite a bit.. usually on ladies status’ to get on to hot photos I imagine you get them without asking I would be too embarrassed to ask lol " like I said you don't need to | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate it's hardly desperate, they get nothing for it, it just makes them feel good, a sense of achievement a compliment means nothing if it has to be asked for " compliments don't mean a lot here anyway they are perceived as false because of the subject matter of Fab which isn't sex it's swinging | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em " Well Said!!! | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em " I like having my pictures Fabbed. It is a form of validation! I don't ask for it, but I think liking it is natural. | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate it's hardly desperate, they get nothing for it, it just makes them feel good, a sense of achievement " Frame this - he’s said something sensible!! | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em " no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine | |||
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"It matters not the whole fabs things a bit naff u ask me tho i do like it when fellas fab mine tho i love blocking them it cheers me right up I’m sure they’ll be devastated." thats the beauty il never know | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate it's hardly desperate, they get nothing for it, it just makes them feel good, a sense of achievement Frame this - he’s said something sensible!!" omg praise indeed........ I'm honoured lol | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em I like having my pictures Fabbed. It is a form of validation! I don't ask for it, but I think liking it is natural. " Exactly! It's always nice to be liked People always make pit seeking attention is a bad thing, it's eh at we all do here...we want people to notice us and find us appealing, pics and fabs (not dabs) are a part of that | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine " Maybe they just wanna know who likes them? Maybe they need a little boost? Why does it matter? | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine " I take a photo. I see the flaws, I pick it apart, is it good enough to upload. Sod it, upload it anyway. I get a whole bunch of people (sometimes hundreds or thousands) thinking it's a good picture. It erases some of the judgement I put on myself in choosing pictures. Maybe I'm OK after all. (my self confidence is a lot more than just pictures here) | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine Maybe they just wanna know who likes them? Maybe they need a little boost? Why does it matter? " as I’ve said it doesn’t really matter it’s a topic for people to say what they think me personally I think it’s a bit desperate tbh | |||
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"Harmless fun i guess ...i only fab the pics i like regardless (unless bribed with cake ) " Absolutely!! | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine Maybe they just wanna know who likes them? Maybe they need a little boost? Why does it matter? as I’ve said it doesn’t really matter it’s a topic for people to say what they think me personally I think it’s a bit desperate tbh " Why do you see it as desperate? I'd say someone sending 20/30 messages to random strangers a day (as most men do on here) is more desperate than asking your fab friends to like your pic. I don't get why it's a bad thing to want attention or to be liked? | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine Maybe they just wanna know who likes them? Maybe they need a little boost? Why does it matter? as I’ve said it doesn’t really matter it’s a topic for people to say what they think me personally I think it’s a bit desperate tbh Why do you see it as desperate? I'd say someone sending 20/30 messages to random strangers a day (as most men do on here) is more desperate than asking your fab friends to like your pic. I don't get why it's a bad thing to want attention or to be liked? " Yeah, blanket messaging every woman within 30 miles seems much more desperate to me. | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate " Jesus h.....let's talk desperate shall we.....*cough* | |||
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" Why do you see it as desperate? I'd say someone sending 20/30 messages to random strangers a day (as most men do on here) is more desperate than asking your fab friends to like your pic. I don't get why it's a bad thing to want attention or to be liked? " OMG you mean I should be sending 20-30 messages a day? I hardly ever send a message unprompted, unless I see something I regard as pretty exceptional. If someone has made some sort of contact with me, then I respond, but I rarely send unsolicited messages. It would seem that I am one of the rarer males in this respect! | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate Jesus h.....let's talk desperate shall we.....*cough* " yes but I’m not asking for some one to fab my land rover | |||
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"Vain sad or desperate I’m in the opinion of desperate Jesus h.....let's talk desperate shall we.....*cough* yes but I’m not asking for some one to fab my land rover " Shed.... | |||
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"Its only sad when people obey. " Or when they Fab all your pictures, message you something inane and tell you, then unFab every single one and send you an angry message when you don't come running | |||
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"Its only sad when people obey. Or when they Fab all your pictures, message you something inane and tell you, then unFab every single one and send you an angry message when you don't come running " Oh I love when they do that! | |||
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"Its only sad when people obey. Or when they Fab all your pictures, message you something inane and tell you, then unFab every single one and send you an angry message when you don't come running Oh I love when they do that! " It's so gloriously childish. | |||
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"Dab me dab me " Why? have you come over all hot and faint | |||
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"I love it when mine are fabbed as I know that I'm doing something right with them but I never ask for fabs " Ditto. | |||
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"I love it when mine are fabbed as I know that I'm doing something right with them but I never ask for fabs " Same | |||
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"I love it when mine are fabbed as I know that I'm doing something right with them but I never ask for fabs " What she said | |||
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"Dab me dab me Why? have you come over all hot and faint " yes it's the sight of all the sexy dabbable women | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine " No worrys with that.... | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... " oi....... Dabbed | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed " Oi sod off..... | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed " Fantastic cock, I’ll Fab it for you now | |||
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"I love it when mine are fabbed as I know that I'm doing something right with them but I never ask for fabs Same" you dont need help anyway you've been dealt a sexy card and you're always on page one | |||
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"Who actually reads a status update asking you to Fab a photo and you think, well I don’t really like the photo that much, but I better do as she says. " Exactly! I would only ever fab something I actually liked! | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed Fantastic cock, I’ll Fab it for you now " harlot | |||
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"Each to there own but they will only get a fab from us if we like the picture, it doesn't matter how much they beg." Begging being exactly what it is desperate imo. Sad times. Each to their own though...... | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed Oi sod off....." I can't I love your pics | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed Fantastic cock, I’ll Fab it for you now harlot " Hahahaha crying.....how many faces you got..... | |||
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"Who actually reads a status update asking you to Fab a photo and you think, well I don’t really like the photo that much, but I better do as she says. " Because.. sometimes a reward is offered.. more pics etc | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... oi....... Dabbed Fantastic cock, I’ll Fab it for you now harlot Hahahaha crying.....how many faces you got..... " Just the two | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em I like having my pictures Fabbed. It is a form of validation! I don't ask for it, but I think liking it is natural. " I agree but there's a difference in enjoying your photo being fabbed and actually asking. | |||
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"I hope no one fabs mine No worrys with that.... " | |||
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"I'm fabbing the OP.... traitor " And weird hand .... | |||
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"I'm fabbing the OP.... " just had to fab your legs | |||
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"I'm fabbing the OP.... traitor And weird hand .... " lol which hand the one covering my parts I assume? | |||
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"I'm fabbing the OP.... just had to fab your legs " Still not fabbing you.... | |||
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"I was thinking if you got over a certain amount you got a badge and a certificate " No afraid not lol, just a full inbox | |||
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"fab me or the cake die's " I'm on it....... Viva la cake | |||
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"I'm fabbing the OP.... just had to fab your legs Still not fabbing you...." | |||
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"I was thinking if you got over a certain amount you got a badge and a certificate No afraid not lol, just a full inbox " lol did the boat achieve its destination? | |||
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"People ask for Fabs for any number of reasons some just like to get on page 1 of Hot Pics, some see it as some form of validation, some are attention seeking, and others will have their own reasons. Is it really any different from joining a Fabathon thread? Either way how others choose to use the site is of no concern to me, so long as it doesn't impact me in any way, which most of the time it doesn't." Indeed. I use it as a contact site, and take pictures to help entice people (to read my sodding profile). What others do? I don't really care. | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate " Not a chance | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance " you know you wanna | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna " Nah I really don't..... | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna Nah I really don't....." oi | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna Nah I really don't....." bunch of fivers | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna Nah I really don't....." bunch of fivers | |||
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"I was thinking if you got over a certain amount you got a badge and a certificate No afraid not lol, just a full inbox lol did the boat achieve its destination? " Yes all safe and sound | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna Nah I really don't.....bunch of fivers " Oi no need for violence..... | |||
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"I was thinking if you got over a certain amount you got a badge and a certificate " Oh if there are badges and certificates involved then pleeeease fab ours, pretty please, go on you know you want to | |||
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"I was thinking if you got over a certain amount you got a badge and a certificate Oh if there are badges and certificates involved then pleeeease fab ours, pretty please, go on you know you want to " ok consider it done | |||
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"What's the harm? We all display our pics for other people, to entice them, attract them. The people who ask for dabs are just asking for a visual representation of who likes em no harm at all but why ask is it a confidence thing? Is it a look at me thing ? Just wonder what other fab users think that’s your thoughts that’s fine Maybe they just wanna know who likes them? Maybe they need a little boost? Why does it matter? as I’ve said it doesn’t really matter it’s a topic for people to say what they think me personally I think it’s a bit desperate tbh Why do you see it as desperate? I'd say someone sending 20/30 messages to random strangers a day (as most men do on here) is more desperate than asking your fab friends to like your pic. I don't get why it's a bad thing to want attention or to be liked? " Stop looking at someone's pictures then if you dont like them. Very few people fab compared to views. What does that say | |||
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"No harm in it, people are free to ignore the requests but if you have to ask for them then they mean nothing. I’d much rather get unsolicited fabs, don’t get that many but they’re always nice when I do." Yes. | |||
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"Please fab me somebody cmon I'm desperate Not a chance you know you wanna Nah I really don't.....bunch of fivers Oi no need for violence....." the violence of the lambs | |||
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