FabSwingers.com forum: Are you what you seem?

By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spy all my hotlistees with green arrow and make sure to post right after them on every single thread if possible.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I spy all my hotlistees with green arrow and make sure to post right after them on every single thread if possible."

I would say that’s perfectly acceptable behaviour and hope that it stands you in good stead. You are only expressing interest after all, openly and without shame.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hope I'm what I seem. I certainly live as I claim to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

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like anyone would admit to it lol

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

like anyone would admit to it lol

Ain’t that the truth

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Im what it says on the tin, a baked bean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the first part I try to portray myself as "cool" about other people having fun, but I do get a little jealous when people I fancy are more interested in others.

I don't think I show it though, but others might think differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me? A cock hungry size queen. Yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I genuinely have no idea because I don't really know how people see me, I don't seek to find out either because once an impression is formed its pretty difficult to change it

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

I forgot to add "asking for a friend" and "for science!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m not a stalker but sometimes I weep a fresh tear of regret when my message doesn’t get answered.

I don’t show it though because if there’s one thing worse than a stalker, it’s a needy stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good question actually.

I'm exactly what it says on my profile although much more reserved in person from my Forum persona.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I’m not a stalker but sometimes I weep a fresh tear of regret when my message doesn’t get answered.

I don’t show it though because if there’s one thing worse than a stalker, it’s a needy stalker

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Very good question actually.

I'm exactly what it says on my profile although much more reserved in person from my Forum persona.

Thank you kind sir, it was just a thought, a simple question. No cats and pigeons here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's a good question but I'm not sure it's one that can be answered from ones own single point of view.

I believe that I am straightforward, sharing and sometimes caring in this Fab world. I'm happy for people I like to find each other and have great, uncomplicated sex. That does mean that sometimes I lose out on the sex-side because I move entirely into the friend zone when I was hoping more for the share-plate.

In low moods I might get a pang of 'why not me?' ism but that's about my internal demons. And being sex-starved.

Friends and hotlists lets you know when those you have an interest in get a new verification and I'm nosey so I will look. I congratulated someone on their new one just this week.

How others view me might be completely different and who is to say which is the correct reading?

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments . "

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very random yes i like to say silly things that make me giggle and say what im thinking at the time

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"It's a good question but I'm not sure it's one that can be answered from ones own single point of view.

In low moods I might get a pang of 'why not me?' ism but that's about my internal demons. And being sex-starved.

Friends and hotlists lets you know when those you have an interest in get a new verification and I'm nosey so I will look. I congratulated someone on their new one just this week.

How others view me might be completely different and who is to say which is the correct reading?

Ah Ms Lickety, we all have our green-eyed moments, of this I have no doubt, but I couldn't imagine for one minute you would articulate that to anyone you desired, some of us silently fumed I guess, whilst others not so.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

Taff!!!! Make it so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here "

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very cheeky in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too ! "

I get sexually frustrated when I see your melons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too !

I get sexually frustrated when I see your melons

Same here !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

Back to your OP and my response, my view of that is very different. Two third parties had a hand in that and you have always had the choice to let me know if you're here in London. Who's view is correct?

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too ! "

It's real, oh boy it's real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too !

It's real, oh boy it's real"

Sending you virtual hugs

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

To paraphrase an ad: And the shirt is gone!

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here

I like that shirt - keep portraying it.

(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)

It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way

My view obviously Ms Lickety, keep up!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I am what I am, and what I am, needs NO excuses...

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd say I am what I seem, this site has helped me be myself with no judgements or embarrassment i.e If I want to get my cock out then I can

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's an interesting question and one I've been discussing with a few friends recently. I think, yes, I am but with an exception.

I have absolutely no desire to engage in more than a good friendship and fucking with anyone on the site. Yes, I talk a lot but I like talking. Who they meet is of no concern to me; I'm more likely to be cheerleadering them on than making disparaging remarks. I quite like seeing new veris pop up from friends, in an odd way it's nice to see that people are meeting others and have fun, it's like a form of compersion. If someone came back on the site I might find it a bit more difficult but the likelihood of that is 0.25%. Sometimes I don't understand how people can meet someone so different from me but that's not in a malicious way.

The only way I differ from how I can come across on the fora is I can be prone to overthinking and uncertainty rather than the confident person I seem to be. But I'm working on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

Taff!!!! Make it so!

Oh there is room in the pod for 3

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

Taff!!!! Make it so!

Oh there is room in the pod for 3

Right I am going to make this happen now, be warned, I am on the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

Taff!!!! Make it so!

Oh there is room in the pod for 3

Right I am going to make this happen now, be warned, I am on the case"
spiffing

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yeah I think I am.....

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I hope so .. calm, fun, open minded ..generally a nice guy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To answer the first part I try to portray myself as "cool" about other people having fun, but I do get a little jealous when people I fancy are more interested in others.

I don't think I show it though, but others might think differently."

I like this honest response and I feel the same x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

People who know me will say I’m an open book. What you say is what you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a shadow of my former self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly what I seem. Not sure I've managed to get that across in my profile though.

Hardest part is convincing other fabbers that I am. Solution to that,still eludes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just another cliche

Any cliche

Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just another cliche

Any cliche

Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable "
what about lacey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly who I say I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just another cliche

Any cliche

Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable what about lacey?

I’ll ask her when she gets back from her weekly parking lesson

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’m just another cliche

Any cliche

Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable what about lacey?

I’ll ask her when she gets back from her weekly parking lesson"

After she has cooked your tea, obviously

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .

A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .

Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .

You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps

Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.

Taff!!!! Make it so!

Oh there is room in the pod for 3

Where's the clapping emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is as they seem. They will be different things to different people. Those people's perceptions are real.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Everyone is as they seem. They will be different things to different people. Those people's perceptions are real. "

Troofax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me? A cock hungry size queen. Yes "
Yep, you look like you need to be mastered

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

I'd say that's the right attitude that you have

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

I'd say that's the right attitude that you have

I like your bum

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

I'd say that's the right attitude that you have

I like your bum"

your cock looks magnificent

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?

I'd say that's the right attitude that you have

I like your bum

your cock looks magnificent "

knock it off or I will blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i book you 2 a room

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"Can i book you 2 a room"

They’re in one...with an audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get, I dont piss about. If you cant be honest here there is no chance right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can i book you 2 a room

They’re in one...with an audience "

Like Morecambe and Wise

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By *ecadent_Devon OP Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Can i book you 2 a room"

If you like, can you book it under the names Mr Magnificent (what a) Cock and Ms Awesome (sometimes an) Arse.

Cheers sweetie

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Can i book you 2 a room

They’re in one...with an audience "

an audience..I might like that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Can i book you 2 a room

If you like, can you book it under the names Mr Magnificent (what a) Cock and Ms Awesome (sometimes an) Arse.

Cheers sweetie

could you imagine..chuckling here

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