FabSwingers.com forum: Message deletions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are deleted messages mid convo a sign that person doesn't want to speak anymore or accidental inbox tidying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's tidying up the crap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mid conversation....?

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Yes u think it’s a big hint x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, sometimes! But that's just me.. I use hotlist to keep a track of who I speak to normally

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It could mean anything

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Possibly butter fingers...I did it earlier during mid conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they still on site? Have found some do that... Didn't think I was that scary

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Lots do and block at the same time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ask the person doing the deleting.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm always accidentally deleting messages I dont want to as my phones crap... I end up going to my sent messages to reply again...

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"I'm always accidentally deleting messages I dont want to as my phones crap... I end up going to my sent messages to reply again...

Hate it when that

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Can tell after a few messages if someone has read your profile or is fake i.e a guy posing as a couple, in which case messages are deleted rather quickly. If they keep pestering then BLOCK!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it was accidental surely you’d message to say so, so hint taken. Swiftly moving on.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Are deleted messages mid convo a sign that person doesn't want to speak anymore or accidental inbox tidying?

I often see this from folk who are not site supporters, they don't have the "advanced mailbox" features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be either. Ask them?

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Take it as they are now not interested if they are they will come back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accidental clearing of inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are deleted messages mid convo a sign that person doesn't want to speak anymore or accidental inbox tidying?

In my experience of (fab). That is a hint to basically tell you to 'f-off' as in, they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are deleted messages mid convo a sign that person doesn't want to speak anymore or accidental inbox tidying?

I wouldn't worry as long as they have kept chatting and dont seem disinterested. If the replies are coming back shorter and shorter and without posing thier own questions to you to extend the chat, then I would take that as they have lost interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not called 'ghosting' or is that something else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing accidental about it, just zero point in keeping messages.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I'm always accidentally deleting messages I dont want to as my phones crap... I end up going to my sent messages to reply again...

I do this all the time

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is it not called 'ghosting' or is that something else.."

No... ghosting is where someone (usually in a relationship) just vanishes with no conversation.

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