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Are you big spoon or little?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m little! (Not literally )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I like to mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both .. I quite like being big spoon and snuggling from behind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up"

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Both! It depends on how another's body fits with mine.

*insert cringey line about being your big spoon Boldy*

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change. "

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big.. I feel mothered if I'm little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big spoon breast on back and hands conveniently places I get a bit crowded as little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little spoon.

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By *coutcom89Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

I'm very much a big spoon but if I feel even a little unwell I live having a big spoon to make me feel better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both! It depends on how another's body fits with mine.

*insert cringey line about being your big spoon Boldy*"

I’d expect nothing less, ffs!

We can mix it up, Meli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big, and I bloody loves it (with the right person).

In my experience it's always weird with someone you've just met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking enormous spoon

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Big spoon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting "

Squish my boobs? What boobs? My breasticles aren’t built for squishing.

The cupping though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little spoon here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but prefer on my back her head on my chest stroking my chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely small. Nothing feels better that a man wrapped around you, mmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both but prefer on my back her head on my chest stroking my chest"

I like doing this if it’s a hairy chest. Very comforting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever someone has tried to little spoon me it hasn't lasted long / just feels weird.

Not a fan.

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By *coutcom89Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

At what point do you kick them off for a comfortable sleep?? Its all lovely like a movie until you try pull it off for the night

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Little

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"Both but prefer on my back her head on my chest stroking my chest"

Both for me too, but I love this more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little spoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you what is underrated: lying on your chest in bed while the lady lays on your back. It's surprisingly comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously I do the little thing exceptionally well, I was lucky enough to grow to the size of a cabbage patch doll and then stop.

I'm sometimes the big spoon to one of Bs legs.. I can envelope one of those. I do enjoy being on my back and having his head on my chest under my chin whilst I'm stroking his forehead and hair. Makes me feel all big n strong and protective and loving and awwwwww

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll tell you what is underrated: lying on your chest in bed while the lady lays on your back. It's surprisingly comfortable "

I’ll stick this on my to-do list and report back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being the big spoon as it often leads to other things ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously I do the little thing exceptionally well, I was lucky enough to grow to the size of a cabbage patch doll and then stop.

I'm sometimes the big spoon to one of Bs legs.. I can envelope one of those. I do enjoy being on my back and having his head on my chest under my chin whilst I'm stroking his forehead and hair. Makes me feel all big n strong and protective and loving and awwwwww

P"

The cabbage patch doll comment just made me smile, I had loads of them!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like being the big spoon as it often leads to other things ..."

Forking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't like either, its restricting and uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll tell you what is underrated: lying on your chest in bed while the lady lays on your back. It's surprisingly comfortable "

How much longer is this work shit gonna take? I want all this. ASAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously I do the little thing exceptionally well, I was lucky enough to grow to the size of a cabbage patch doll and then stop.

I'm sometimes the big spoon to one of Bs legs.. I can envelope one of those. I do enjoy being on my back and having his head on my chest under my chin whilst I'm stroking his forehead and hair. Makes me feel all big n strong and protective and loving and awwwwww

P

The cabbage patch doll comment just made me smile, I had loads of them!!! "

I actually more of a garbage pail kid look about me. Not much has changed to be fair

P

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Always little spoon. Especially after crazy sex, brings me back down

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being the big spoon as it often leads to other things ...

Forking. "

Ha ha ha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer being a little spoon or just laying across his chest and him kissing my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little mostly.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Big spoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Deffo little

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Usually big spoon, but I've recently discovered the joy of being little spoon

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I like both but prefer little spoon

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By *inkykel2000Couple
over a year ago

Here & there...

Mostly big spoon (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always little, although if I’m not getting any attention I’ll sometimes be big spoon.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Confused.

Isn't it front or back? Same-sized spoons fit together better than different-sized ones.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"Deffo little "

Mmmm can I be big xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo little

Mmmm can I be big xx"

Oh yes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im missing my big spoon!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"Deffo little

Mmmm can I be big xx

Oh yes xx"

Yes please xx

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"Im missing my big spoon! "

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll tell you what is underrated: lying on your chest in bed while the lady lays on your back. It's surprisingly comfortable

How much longer is this work shit gonna take? I want all this. ASAP! "

Well "work" is a very strong word to use for what I'm doing but possibly a couple more hours

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

I'm big spoon but like a bit of little spoon

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Usually the big spoon.

Only 1 person ever made me the little one

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both.

However tonight I would enjoy being little spoon a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am usually the little spoon, it just fits that way - Mrs

But I really like lying with my head on his chest too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a little spoon x

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting "

Mmmm yes please. Can I be your little spoon

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"I love being a little spoon x"

Mmmmm xx

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"I like to mix it up

I never do this, but I must embrace change.

Big spoon is good, you get to squish your boobs into his back and reach round to cup his junk while he sleeps, it's comforting

Squish my boobs? What boobs? My breasticles aren’t built for squishing.

The cupping though... "

You have a stunning body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being little, just feels really naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely big spoon otherwise I’d have nothing to poke my willy into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the above examples P gave, I think the answer is rather obvious with us; P is a teaspoon from a doll's house to my soup ladle.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But really, I'd like to be any spoon.

I have to sleep on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confused.

Isn't it front or back? Same-sized spoons fit together better than different-sized ones. "

Basically whoever is on the inside is the little spoon, their bum is the curve of the little spoon and that curve fits into the hollow of the big spoon. If it was called same sized spoons it would just sound shit and you couldn’t differentiate between the two.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I make a great little spoon x

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"I make a great little spoon x"

Mmmm I think you would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what do you wriggle and grind your bum against if big spoon. But 100% into head on hairy chest or between boobs too little to squash lol

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I make a great little spoon x

Mmmm I think you would "

I do! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% big spoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely big spoon

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"I make a great little spoon x

Mmmm I think you would

I do! X"

FFS....that’s great m...see you at MLS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a little spoon ...to feel his arms wrapped round me, cupping my boobs, makes feel safe and protected...and I can grind my arse onto his todger...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm a little spoon. Petite with a 24in waist waiting for the alfa big spoon

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop

I like both but since swinging/fet I’ve rarely had either. Only with my fwb.

It’s been more me squishing a blokes head in my boobs type cuddle or my head on hairy chest playing with it. Which I love.

I think there’s something more connected about holding someone from behind as the connection doesn’t need to be verbal. Implying a more relationship connection. It’s very protective type embrace.

I miss having that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so tiny, I'm a teaspoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little spoon, or D on his back with me tucked under his arm my head on his chest with my arm wrapped around his waist!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m more like a spatula

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both but prefer on my back her head on my chest stroking my chest

Both for me too, but I love this more "
tis the bestest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so tiny, I'm a teaspoon."

Cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big spoon, I like a nice bum nestling in my lap....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A splendid mix up of both

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Def a little spoon, like really who enjoys having the dead arm and face full of hair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always come too spoon

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm antisocial. I think I'm a knife.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I'm a spoonula, it's like a spatula but bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm antisocial. I think I'm a knife. "

You look sharp in yellow

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Little Spoon

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Little Spoon "

Fi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little, I’ve only got short arms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always end up big spoon. Never quite worked as well the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being both

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Bit of both

Love a lazy Sunday morning spoon.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little, I’ve only got short arms "

That's why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always come too spoon "

And fork?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Like a change now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spooning a women. Lying in bed wrapping my arms around her and kissing her neck.

Big Spooner here... Hum

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Little...unless you're my cat, then big!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a little.

I love the feel of being wrapped in a pair of arms, feeling his breath on my neck and those kisses

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm a little spoon though I'm happy either way

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Big spoon here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big spoon here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Confused.

Isn't it front or back? Same-sized spoons fit together better than different-sized ones.

Basically whoever is on the inside is the little spoon, their bum is the curve of the little spoon and that curve fits into the hollow of the big spoon. If it was called same sized spoons it would just sound shit and you couldn’t differentiate between the two. "

Except that you could leave out size and say front or back as per my comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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