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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people ask to be your friend but then never chat to you I have 20 friends who chatted for first day then don't hear nothing from them is this just me or do other have the same problem x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You've got 13 friends only photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They added you to see photos

I've had it but as soon as I realise that's what they were after I delete them

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford

Do you send them messages too or is it just they don't message you?

Genuine question btw.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I refuse to accept requests until a good conversation is flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got 13 friends only photos."

That’ll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're saying the same about you? Do you ever message them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people ask to be your friend but then never chat to you I have 20 friends who chatted for first day then don't hear nothing from them is this just me or do other have the same problem x"

Change all friends pics to private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got 13 friends only photos."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you send them messages too or is it just they don't message you?

Genuine question btw."

I message them but get ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they're saying the same about you? Do you ever message them? "

I do but don't get reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're saying the same about you? Do you ever message them?

I do but don't get reply"

Well then that's just rude, I'd remove them as friends.

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford


"Maybe they're saying the same about you? Do you ever message them?

I do but don't get reply

Well then that's just rude, I'd remove them as friends. "

Yeah I'd have to agree. I don't have many people as friends on here but reply to them when they message and often send out a hey how's things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't accept friend requests from people I don't know.

Everyone on my friends list I've either met/would like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is people I've met or will meet but distance is a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're saying the same about you? Do you ever message them?

I do but don't get reply

Well then that's just rude, I'd remove them as friends.

Yeah I'd have to agree. I don't have many people as friends on here but reply to them when they message and often send out a hey how's things."

Same for us. Perennial problem, I imagine. We only add friends we have met, which we always state in the first stages of chatting. Regularly, as we imagine a vast majority do, receive random friend requests. If we message any of our 'friends', and get no response within three weeks, we remove them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh im quite ignorant when im busy

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Its not just up to the men to message id like someone off my friends list to message me on occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very carfull as to who i accept as friends. I never accept people that have no varies. Even if they do chat.im here for meeting not chatting to people i wont ever meet. Its not facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 2, one I chatted to briefly on the first day and hasn't replied again and another that kept looking at my profile and fabbing my pics that hasn't replied to my first message

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

About to cull my list. Its usually just people wanting to see your friends only pics then they fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the friend thing on fab actually achieve anything aside from freeing up some more private photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does the friend thing on fab actually achieve anything aside from freeing up some more private photos?

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Nope same as hotlist except can see private gallery

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Life's busy. I have freinds in the vanilla world that may not speak to for over a year. Regards their still my freinds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is they need people in their friends list and secondly they want just to look at your private photos.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Does the friend thing on fab actually achieve anything aside from freeing up some more private photos?

Nope same as hotlist except can see private gallery "

Unless you hide it other people can view your friends list on computer. Can't see hotlist tho. We keep friends list tight, just delete randoms etc Fi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people ask to be your friend but then never chat to you I have 20 friends who chatted for first day then don't hear nothing from them is this just me or do other have the same problem x"

Another (fab) trait I am afraid.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I talk to most people on mine having a perv at friends pics is a bonus

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