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By *ocktails n Kink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Getting the feeling we're not wanted. We've had 5 cancelled meets in the last 3 days! OK some were last minute backups but they still bloody cancelled. All we want is a dirty shag!

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

There are a lot of dreamers on here and a lot of fake profiles too. Don't take it personally, it's also the school hols, so maybe childcare issues are to blame xx get yourselves to a club instead xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see anything wrong personally shame they have cancelled on you both maybe just the wrong time for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your selection process is rubbish

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair life is often the cock block when it comes to meets. I think for couples especially.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's not a sign of something bring wrong with you. The world is full of flakey people. I've been to concerts and shows where people just fail to show up, as well as Fab meets. It's about them bring inconsiderate and not a slight against you.

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By *ocktails n Kink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We're looking on the positive and everyone around us has had massively shit luck, although 1 did buy a new PS4 (understand that one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen to everyone but a quick fem to fem chat on the phone before a meet at least means you are arranging something with both halves of the couple.We have to admit playing as a couple always comes with limitations it's not just the blow outs but everyone liking each other when you do meet. It can all be worth it though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is full of flakes but to be fair I have childcare issues so find it hard to plan meets. Its often spontaneous meets for me which never work for many people so its understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the line "can we bring our chainsaw " ,which is perhaps putting people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting the feeling we're not wanted. We've had 5 cancelled meets in the last 3 days! OK some were last minute backups but they still bloody cancelled. All we want is a dirty shag!

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Maybe you're setting your sights too low be a little more discerning

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"We're looking on the positive and everyone around us has had massively shit luck, although 1 did buy a new PS4 (understand that one) "

Best reason ever!

At least they cancelled and didn't just not turn up.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

hmmm, I've never had a "no-show" in oh I don't know, roughly 9 years . Had a handful of cancellations. I suppose it depends on how you set the meeting up and what your criteria for a meet is that may need to be addressed.

That's not to say you are doing something wrong, but selection is key, if there is a pattern to the cancellations, then maybe look at that and change your approach to mitigate the issue?

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