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“Exceptional”

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I think this might be my most frustrating word on fabs. A lot of profiles say that they’ll only respond to “exceptional” men.

So what does that mean and how can you tell if someone is exceptional from one message - unless it’s purely an aesthetic thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t tell ....

It’s a pretentious word to use

In my opinion .... my own opinion

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"You can’t tell ....

It’s a pretentious word to use

In my opinion .... my own opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you know someone was exceptional at anything with actually knowing them for a longish time?

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

By definition every single living person or organism is exceptional....go figure!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Surely is just subjective rather that an accurate description of criteria. Unless they go on to clarify the criteria then I guess you'd never have an idea if your exceptional or not. So like with so many fab profiles it's stabbing in the dark really. Funny then when some people complain they have the wrong type of guy messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats me what is classed as exceptional, I'm more likely to answer a message if its cheeky

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m exceptional. Exceptionally annoying.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You know how you can pick up a block of generic cheddar from a local corner shop? It's fine, it tastes alright because you can't be arsed going to the big supermarket, it's pissing it down and you really want baked beans and cheese on your jacket potato so you'll make do.

But then you're shopping in Waitrose and you see their luxury range of cheeses and there's burrata. And you think to yourself "whoah, I really want some of that". And your mouth starts salivating thinking of all the different combos you can make with that sexual piece of cheese. Your heart's racing a bit faster and all you want to do is get home and feast on every inch of its deliciousness and savour the wonderful exquisiteness of it?

I think exceptional is the latter.

*this might be fuelled by gin.

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By *rSquareMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Messaging people with this in their profile might yield success. This is because it might cause some to avoid making conversation through not feeling exceptional enough, I know it’s made me feel less confident of a response.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Exceptional simply means they are the exception rather than the rule. What form that takes will vary from person to person, but it means the majority of men will not be considered - only the exception.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I’m exceptional. Exceptionally annoying. "

First part agreed with, but not the second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exceptional simply means they are the exception rather than the rule. What form that takes will vary from person to person, but it means the majority of men will not be considered - only the exception. "
but won't there be exceptions to that..?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Blimey! Had lots of meets, and only one I can say was exceptional, but that was more to do with personality which lead to great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s usually ‘professional couples’ that ask for exceptional males, but let’s face it, to be exceptional on here you just need the ability to send a Coherent message that hasn’t been typed by just whacking your cock against the phone screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey! Had lots of meets, and only one I can say was exceptional, but that was more to do with personality which lead to great sex"

Does that mean you disappointed all of them apart from one ?

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By *rSquareMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


" that sexual piece of cheese."

The only time sexual and cheese will ever make it into a sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how you can pick up a block of generic cheddar from a local corner shop? It's fine, it tastes alright because you can't be arsed going to the big supermarket, it's pissing it down and you really want baked beans and cheese on your jacket potato so you'll make do.

But then you're shopping in Waitrose and you see their luxury range of cheeses and there's burrata. And you think to yourself "whoah, I really want some of that". And your mouth starts salivating thinking of all the different combos you can make with that sexual piece of cheese. Your heart's racing a bit faster and all you want to do is get home and feast on every inch of its deliciousness and savour the wonderful exquisiteness of it?

I think exceptional is the latter.

*this might be fuelled by gin."

Shopping at waitrose!!... I'm more a Lidl or Aldi gal

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I think this might be my most frustrating word on fabs. A lot of profiles say that they’ll only respond to “exceptional” men.

So what does that mean and how can you tell if someone is exceptional from one message - unless it’s purely an aesthetic thing?"

Exceptional is such an overrated word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Exceptional' in Fab terms means you're good enough to fuck

Some of that is based on looks, some of it build, some of it attitude & outlook, some of it availability / flexibility / suitedness, some of it on material considerations

I would argue, however, that many of the latter points become irrelevant if looks and build don't meet expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this might be my most frustrating word on fabs. A lot of profiles say that they’ll only respond to “exceptional” men.

So what does that mean and how can you tell if someone is exceptional from one message - unless it’s purely an aesthetic thing?"

I’m far from exceptional, just an average Joe, perhaps I need to be a bit more exceptional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exceptional simply means they are the exception rather than the rule. What form that takes will vary from person to person, but it means the majority of men will not be considered - only the exception. "

Absolutely.

They're looking for someone very specific to their needs/requirements.

If they say exactly what those things are then anyone could say they have those qualities even in they don't, whereas a lot of the time those qualities will present themselves without the need for prompting, so will be discovered naturally

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