FabSwingers.com forum: How sensitive are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you take a joke? A bit of teasing?

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Can you take a joke? A bit of teasing?

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?! "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

My kegels are good but not good enough for this thread good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit will depend on who has said it and if I think they're malicious.

As a friend I'm a fan of piss taking and as I'm quite self deprecating I can be the person that makes fun of myself rather a lot.

It's more the content than anything else tho.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It very much depends on what is said and how it's said. Occasionally also if I'm in a bad mood.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like people who can good naturedly take the mick out of me. Honestly, I'm ridiculous at times. I'm a bit needy when hungover and overthink a lot. Someone who can call me on it makes me laugh a lot. I think that it can be affectionate if delivered in a well meaning way. My friend calls me posh cunt and I know he adores me.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Turtle shell here, hardly anything penetrates and can banter all day long on some touchy/taboo subjects also as long as I'm okay with said person. If I don't get along with them and I know their humour is 'slanted' I don't engage and may have a quiet word to let them know I know their game.

Fortunately I don't know anyone like Meli.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you take a joke? A bit of teasing?

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?! "
I can take it but yes it always depends what spirit it's said in and by whom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always up for good banter and jokes. I don't do negativity whatsoever! I'm a people's person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is so mean to me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the delivery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sensitive...one time at band camp...a girl tickled my belly button and i cum in her eye...true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like people who can good naturedly take the mick out of me. Honestly, I'm ridiculous at times. I'm a bit needy when hungover and overthink a lot. Someone who can call me on it makes me laugh a lot. I think that it can be affectionate if delivered in a well meaning way. My friend calls me posh cunt and I know he adores me."

I have a friend who calls me that too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"She is so mean to me all the time

Meeting you is going to be such a honour. My calendar doesn't say MLS, it says the day I finally meet retweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is so mean to me all the time

Meeting you is going to be such a honour. My calendar doesn't say MLS, it says the day I finally meet retweet."

That's dripping with venom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very thick skinned insult me ill take it. Upset or insult anyone close to me id snap whoever it is in half.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"She is so mean to me all the time

Meeting you is going to be such a honour. My calendar doesn't say MLS, it says the day I finally meet retweet.

That's dripping with honey and love and admiration for the way I pull off a sailor's outfit.

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She is so mean to me all the time

Meeting you is going to be such a honour. My calendar doesn't say MLS, it says the day I finally meet retweet the turtle."

FTFY

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You clearly have a great mind Ru.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what about and who by but normally no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joke more often than not so it's only fair that I can take a joke too. If someones being malicious then I step my jokes up a little and throw the odd jag in with them. Fairs fair and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can. Sometimes it depends on the subject, so I’m probably a bit sensitive. It may be when people are dicks but pretend it’s just banter.

I like friendships where you can take the piss and not think about it, they’re the best friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I’m just in the mood for an argument or as I call it healthy discussion!! Other times someone can say something and it will really effect me be it a comment on here or a family member criticising me or as they say giving me advice!!

Maybe that’s why I’m single as it really varies from one to the other!!

I’ve not found a trigger or a reason but as most tiredness doesn’t help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you just say to me!

Ruuuuudeeeee!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

People I know well I can take plenty of teasing from... In fact sometimes it can even lift me out of a bad mood. But when someone I don't know terribly well or at all joins in I do get a bit defensive and sensitive as I never really know how to take it... Are they just joining in for the sake of joining in and feeling like they're being included or if they're simply using the opportunity as a cover to be bitchy/nasty. It really does depend on context and how well someone knows me.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?! "

Yes it does depend on the nature of the joke but mostly yes! Meli is a bugger (along with others ha ha) for poking fun at the ‘ DC v GMF’ love/hate relationship

It’s all lighthearted fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?!

Yes it does depend on the nature of the joke but mostly yes! Meli is a bugger (along with others ha ha) for poking fun at the ‘ DC v GMF’ love/hate relationship

It’s all lighthearted fun "

I heard u were sweet on him too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to laugh at myself as well as others, as long as they can take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life, it will depends on the tone of voice used for a joke.

The tone of voice is everything.

On here I basically can take everything but it will depend on the sound that the keyboard will make when hit by the finger(s) of the person who makes the joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m ok with piss taking, and I can give as good as I get. My friends and I are lethal with each other, no limits.

Meli isn’t mean to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it depend who said it or what it's about?

Is it mood dependent or do you just always feel like people are making fun?

Do you have a friend like Meli who is mean ALL THE TIME!?!

Yes it does depend on the nature of the joke but mostly yes! Meli is a bugger (along with others ha ha) for poking fun at the ‘ DC v GMF’ love/hate relationship

It’s all lighthearted fun "

Can’t believe anyone would joke about that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I’m ok with piss taking, and I can give as good as I get. My friends and I are lethal with each other, no limits.

Meli isn’t mean to me

I'll pay you in cheese and gin as a thanks.

I'm not mean at all. Not any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to be very suspicious of hidden meaning and do seem to read between the lines when there really isn't any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m ok with piss taking, and I can give as good as I get. My friends and I are lethal with each other, no limits.

Meli isn’t mean to me

I'll pay you in cheese and snogs as a thanks.

I'm not mean at all. Not any more.

FTFY. Typos

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I’m ok with piss taking, and I can give as good as I get. My friends and I are lethal with each other, no limits.

Meli isn’t mean to me

I'll pay you in cheese and snogs as a thanks.

I'm not mean at all. Not any more.

FTFY. Typos

Darn typos. You know exactly what I want to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's more who says it! I'm a sarcastic piss taker and work in rugby so it's pretty much give as good as you get really so banter all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what is happening to whom.

Heart breaking real moments can bring a tear, or floods of them. The bad, sad and the glorious. Though.. I dont cry very often, because I've seen a lot of crap and am hardened to some of the not-so-sad-sob-stories people claim to have 'endured'.

If someone who knows me quite well, says something they know will hurt my feelings.. out of spite instead of kindness. That'd hurt, I'd feel like I'd just lost a friend, but all they'd get is #TheColdFace.

How sensitive I am to other peoples feelings? I'm pretty empathetic, but have some big blind spots and it doesn't work with everyone.

How touch sensitive am I? Depends on who and how they're touching me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In real life, it will depends on the tone of voice used for a joke.

The tone of voice is everything.

On here I basically can take everything but it will depend on the sound that the keyboard will make when hit by the finger(s) of the person who makes the joke. "

This

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