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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone says 'you are racist, because you only meet Caucasian people'.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Shrug, roll eyes, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says 'you are racist, because you only meet Caucasian people'."

Feel good about sticking to your preferences,and smug in the knowledge they are in the wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have preferences but there are ways to say things. Do you directly say that to people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don’t say it!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"When someone says 'you are racist, because you only meet Caucasian people'.

Feel good about sticking to your preferences,and smug in the knowledge they are in the wrong"

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don’t say it!"

Exactly this. There are ways to decline someone politely if they don’t meet your ‘preferences’.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore them. What do they know? Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one but some speak out of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biologically race is incredibly superficial.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suppose it depends why you only meet Caucasian people.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I only meet tall women with dark hair so what’s that make me.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

'Things I don't like:

Mmmmmm, not found anything yet'

B-b-b-b-b-...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just don’t say it!

Exactly this. There are ways to decline someone politely if they don’t meet your ‘preferences’."

They messaged me and i merely said sorry, not my type.. they made the assumption..m

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist... "

See this is why I don't say that.

I just delete or say not meeting as it saves all the follow ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist... "

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations"

But he must have told them it was because they are not white.

So I can understand a bad reaction to that.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont stress it people complain when they dont get what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected. "

But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.

OP could you clear this up.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.

But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.

OP could you clear this up. "

He said not his type didn't he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations

But he must have told them it was because they are not white.

So I can understand a bad reaction to that. "

If you read what he said,sorry not my type.

Yes he went on to explain in the forum he prefers white women,but he did say he put that in his reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.

But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.

OP could you clear this up.

He said not his type didn't he?

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But then he said it was because he only met Caucasian people. If he told them that then I understand him getting a bad reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations

But he must have told them it was because they are not white.

So I can understand a bad reaction to that.

If you read what he said,sorry not my type.

Yes he went on to explain in the forum he prefers white women,but he did say he put that in his reply"

That's why I asked him to clarify!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.

But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.

OP could you clear this up.

He said not his type didn't he?

But then he said it was because he only met Caucasian people. If he told them that then I understand him getting a bad reaction. "

I agree, if that's what he said, but as someone said above, he only seems to have said that here in this thread

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Just call it a fetish... You have a fetish for Caucasian people and that's who you want to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations

But he must have told them it was because they are not white.

So I can understand a bad reaction to that. "
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I said they are not my type. No reference to race/size/hair colour/anything..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just call it a fetish... You have a fetish for Caucasian people and that's who you want to meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations

But he must have told them it was because they are not white.

So I can understand a bad reaction to that. .

I said they are not my type. No reference to race/size/hair colour/anything.. "

Then that should be enough. No further need to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...

See this is why I don't say that.

I just delete or say not meeting as it saves all the follow ups. "

Me too.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I’d suggest those who say that don’t really understand how racism works

Though that would then lead to some sort of ire I imagine which I couldn’t be bothered with so would save the fuss of it all by not putting it in the game.

Don’t think you’re being racist, think everyone agrees it’s nornal to have preferences but a way to get them across is sometimes disregarded (I’m not saying you did/do).

If someone clearly says something in their profile which means I’m not an option for them then fine, I won’t call them out on it, but others may/do i presume.

Tact and diplomacy sometimes are underrated I think.

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