FabSwingers.com forum: I miss being touched

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Yes! It's also the only thing I miss, it's a crappy feeling xx

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I went through a stage of feeling like that yes, so can sympathize.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"
yes let's get together for NSA cuddles and hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids and friends and I'm a natural hugger but yes I miss that on a personal level and no fab isn't the place to find that level of intimacy for me

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sometimes I miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hugs from my daughter ... I’m lucky in that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kids and friends and I'm a natural hugger but yes I miss that on a personal level and no fab isn't the place to find that level of intimacy for me

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and that applies to you to we could have NSA cuddles and hugs in between work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kids and friends and I'm a natural hugger but yes I miss that on a personal level and no fab isn't the place to find that level of intimacy for me

and that applies to you to we could have NSA cuddles and hugs in between work

Lol fab is good for those but they are unfulfilling on the grand scale of intimacy

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

If we ever meet at a social lets hug. Hugs are good. You definately should be kissed often with your luscious lips though. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kids and friends and I'm a natural hugger but yes I miss that on a personal level and no fab isn't the place to find that level of intimacy for me

and that applies to you to we could have NSA cuddles and hugs in between work

Lol fab is good for those but they are unfulfilling on the grand scale of intimacy

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please let me fulfil you in-between work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kids and friends and I'm a natural hugger but yes I miss that on a personal level and no fab isn't the place to find that level of intimacy for me

and that applies to you to we could have NSA cuddles and hugs in between work

Lol fab is good for those but they are unfulfilling on the grand scale of intimacy

please let me fulfil you in-between work

Lol oh I'm doing fine!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I'm soooooo the opposite, got grandkids and kids that are like limpets! Find myself saying *get the hell off me*

......funny though, they always have a white jacket in their hands while their doing it.....

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I miss them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's a horrible feeling

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I get lots of cuddles from the kids and my grandson but I do miss the intimacy especially when curled up on the sofa on an evening

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I come from a culture where physical and emotional affection is non existent. Being single, I really miss being really sexually connected to someone. Not sure if my high sex drive is because of my culture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm soooooo the opposite, got grandkids and kids that are like limpets! Find myself saying *get the hell off me*

......funny though, they always have a white jacket in their hands while their doing it.....

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Does this jacket get referred to as straight?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'm soooooo the opposite, got grandkids and kids that are like limpets! Find myself saying *get the hell off me*

......funny though, they always have a white jacket in their hands while their doing it.....

Does this jacket get referred to as straight?

Wow......yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm soooooo the opposite, got grandkids and kids that are like limpets! Find myself saying *get the hell off me*

......funny though, they always have a white jacket in their hands while their doing it.....

Does this jacket get referred to as straight?

Wow......yes!"
lol awwww

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"I come from a culture where physical and emotional affection is non existent. Being single, I really miss being really sexually connected to someone. Not sure if my high sex drive is because of my culture

Love to cuddle you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Yeah me too. I’m a very tactile person, I’ve got a lot of love to give and I miss giving it to someone. I have kids and dogs tho so I do get the odd hug and I have a good few female friends at work who give hugs so it’s not all bad.

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By *wesomepearWoman
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I do have kids and they love a snuggle but it’s not quite the same as a big man hug or being the little spoon... so yeah I totally feel like this sometimes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the only thing I miss about being in a relationship, no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more cuddles from my puppy than my family. A puppy is highly recommended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get more cuddles from my puppy than my family. A puppy is highly recommended

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Nooooo they lick my knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a hig from time to time

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was with my ex partner for 25yrs. For the the last half of our relationship he never kissed, touched or hugged me so i got use to it. Live alone now and it really does not bother me. I get plenty of affection from my 2 dogs which suits me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the weirdest dream last night but it ended up with me and a lady having the biggest squeeziest longest hug ever. It felt brilliant, shame it was a dream

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

That feeling of entwined snuggling is something I wish I could bottle

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sadly it's quite common for people to substitute sex as a way to get physical affection. Especially men. I have a couple of friends who are escorts who say that some of the men seem to want affection and someone to talk to more than the sex. It's really quite sad. I wish it was more socially acceptable to be more affectionate with our friends as physical contact really is a human need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get more cuddles from my puppy than my family. A puppy is highly recommended

Aw I'd love a puppy!

But I'm always at work and live in rented property so no pets allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get more cuddles from my puppy than my family. A puppy is highly recommended

Aw I'd love a puppy!

But I'm always at work and live in rented property so no pets allowed

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damn another workaholic

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

For sure. Cant beat a good cuddle. Unless it's one of those skin against skin cuddles that end in a sweaty heap

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I totally understand this..... Been there.

My son is 18 and although hugs are rare they are lovely when they happen.

I currently have another in my life fulfilling the huggles gap though and it works for us both at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get hugs from my daughter ... I’m lucky in that way "

Me too

But I miss the intimacy of a partner, hugs and everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a hug is lovely ..I love lots of cuddles and I'm a very touchy feely tactile person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss waking up next to someone other than my daughter when she sneaks into my bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For fear of being branded one of the say anything to get inside group, yes, I do OP. There's fare more on here who'd agree too. Leaving on a jet plane soon even with 9 months subscription left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a hug would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get more cuddles from my puppy than my family. A puppy is highly recommended

Aw I'd love a puppy!

But I'm always at work and live in rented property so no pets allowed

Try borrow my doggy it's a website where you offer to look after other people's dogs or take them for a walk etc. Some rented allow it if you say you will cover any damage and have carpets done and you can get doggy day care or a dog walker. Mine goes to day care once a week he is totally my baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was with my ex partner for 25yrs. For the the last half of our relationship he never kissed, touched or hugged me so i got use to it. Live alone now and it really does not bother me. I get plenty of affection from my 2 dogs which suits me just fine."

The man was obviously a madman

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

When growing up, my family were very reserved when it came to hugs and affection. I was with my wife for 29 years and we were very huggy, but after both kids left home, she seemed to think it would be a good idea to leave too!

Since getting involved in the music industry, I find musicians to be tactile and huggy - male and female - and it gave me a bit of a shock when I was hugged by a guy for the first time. I realise now that they tend to hug as greetings and goodbyes, rather than shake hands and I have got used to it.

But, I do miss proper affectionate hugs and on the rare occasion I am lucky enough to get one, I really do appreciate them.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

I'm just not a cuddly person and even less so as I get older. I'm not "cold" per se, just not particularly physically demonstrative in my affection - if I'm in a relationship I have to actively try to remember to be touchy feely for my partner's sake as it seems to be something that other people like / need.

That said, a couple of years ago I noticed when I wake up in the morning it feels blissful if my arms are outstretched and my forearms are touching each other - really relaxing and comforting. It seems to be a form of self-soothing which I find really interesting. It only works if I'm laying in bed (I can't sit at a bus stop, put my arms together and feel all snuggly

) but its something I find really lovely and I do actively do it now I've fathomed out what it is!

Perhaps those of you who are missing cuddles and hugs could try experimenting with touching different parts of yourself (and not in that way

) and see if you can find something that works for you and gives you "cuddles without cuddles" x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

So miss that feeling of a good hug makes you feel wanted.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I miss them too, and I’m in a relationship.

However I had lovely snuggles on a Fab meet recently, you can ask for what you want if you trust the person, not just outdoors anal gangbangs

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

O to be touched I’m sick of being mauled all the time.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Intimacy is a good thing and miss a little of it being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I am sorry you feel that way my lovely. But sometimes you have to feel low so that the good times feel soooooo much better!

Also, as a fellow BBW, you are absolutely stunning! I know my hubby would love to get to know you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 4+ years since losing my mrs, I've grown accustomed to the solitude of singularity but I don't think I'll ever stop missing the joy of having intimate cuddles on tap.

I wouldn't expect to find (and wouldn't bother looking for) a snuggle buddy on Fab but I'm gradually making more friends elsewhere, to share a friendly hug.

Those moments of closeness are still too rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple physical contact with another human is vastly underrated.

It doesn't have to be sexual. A hug from someone who means it can lift your whole day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely the one thing I miss the most with being on my own, the power of a cuddle can do wondrrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonders even

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Nothing better than cuddling watching a film on telly or just in front of the fire.

That warmth of another human close to you.

I'm fairly comfortably single, but do need the above once in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I long for a slow lover with an easy touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Absolutely. Every day. I know exactly what you mean, despite being in a veeeery long marriage. The physical intimacy (not just meaning sex by that) died many years ago, hence here I am on Fab. Not working too well so far though, how about for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I can come touch you

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I have young children who are very tactile so I do get physical contact but it isn’t the same. I’d love to be held and stroked, and talked to gently. Just that level of intimacy? I was married for a long time and I couldn’t bare for him to even touch me for a long time so it’s been far too long since I’ve had this

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

With you there, same here

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

I know it’s no replacement for the real thing but i’m Sending you HUGS AND KISSES xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let a fat man touch me in the bushes yesterday. Just when I was beginning to enjoy myself he scarperred. If you are that man and reading this I was joking about wanting marriage..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get lonely, I dont miss loving hugs, closeness or loving touches or kisses.

Probably because I have never been in or experienced love.

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By *ig_J_0526Man
over a year ago

Sussex

Ever thought about trying to find a guy on here that's more sensual and into kissing, hugging etc?

I know many here are into the kinkier side of things but there are a lot of guys (me included) that would be well into a boyfriend / girlfriend type of meet.... not sure if you'd be into that with a 'stranger'?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Physical intimacy, affection and love isn't exclusive to relationships. I've had female freinds that I love (as freinds) and shared physical affection with. Freinds can have intimate physical affection as well as lovers.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

I love cuddles and hugs and I get plenty from my kids but I do miss those on a intimate loving level x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love cuddles and hugs and I get plenty from my kids but I do miss those on a intimate loving level x Storm x "

Don’t you get them from your other half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get lonely, I dont miss loving hugs, closeness or loving touches or kisses.

Probably because I have never been in or experienced love.

It’ll hit you like a ton of bricks when you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been in that situation as we are childhood sweethearts.

But it is really really sad that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I'm on here. Sex is a particularly intimate extension of that,of course - and a particularly fun one! - but it's all physical contact.

I'd like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get lonely, I dont miss loving hugs, closeness or loving touches or kisses.

Probably because I have never been in or experienced love.

It’ll hit you like a ton of bricks when you do. "

Hope so maybe one day.

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I love a hug, cuddle or snuggle.

I'm a very tactile person

My two adult children are (fortunately) the same, so I do get hugs, but miss (and am available for!) cuddling and snuggling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Yes intimacy is the one thing I really miss from a relationship. Love hugs, kissing and holding hands x

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?

Yes intimacy is the one thing I really miss from a relationship. Love hugs, kissing and holding hands x"

So do I......!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"O to be touched I’m sick of being mauled all the time. "

But you told me you liked it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes cuddle a small tree

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

It just means you're a tactile person. Not that you're needy

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Yes I feel your need also..I love cuddles and done get enough.....

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There are days, after a tough shift, when things are going tits up, when I've had a bad day.

I'd love to get home, have someone put their arms round me, give ne a hug, cuddle up on the settee. Tell me everything will be alright.

Cuddles are the thing I really hate about being single

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I'll be opening my cuddle cafe shortly.

Pop in for a cup of tea and a cuddle from a professional cuddle provider...

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I'll be opening my cuddle cafe shortly.

Pop in for a cup of tea and a cuddle from a professional cuddle provider..."

Let me know when you’re taking on staff, it’s my dream job - cuddles and cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For sure. Cant beat a good cuddle. Unless it's one of those skin against skin cuddles that end in a sweaty heap

I also like these kind of cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be opening my cuddle cafe shortly.

Pop in for a cup of tea and a cuddle from a professional cuddle provider..."

This sounds like the best idea ever!!!

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I dont mean to sound trite and i KNOW its not the same but get a dog! My dog loves me unconditionally so theres a warm happy, contended living soul who will always come and rest their head on your shoulder no matter how crappy your day is. Really settles you down and puts you in a better frame of mind when searching on fab (or anywbere else)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to touch you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very tactile and love to be touched, I find if I have a touchy feely meet I feel quite sad afterwards for a few days at the loss of touch afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, everyone assumes I’m a very cold ruthless person at face value - but I miss nothing more than skin contact in bed, I’m actually very tactile.

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By *oir_desireMan
over a year ago

London

It makes me so sad to know that so many people here miss hugs, kisses, some basic human connection. It should be a basic human right.

I wish we could just arrange nsa petting meetings with people here.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It makes me so sad to know that so many people here miss hugs, kisses, some basic human connection. It should be a basic human right.

I wish we could just arrange nsa petting meetings with people here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free hugs to anyone that wants one xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

This is primal. A basic human need but watch mammals and they do it all the time. Don't wanna be tree hugging hippie shit but we all need this. My mother is terminally ill and hugging and holding her calms her anxiety.

Not sex.absolutely NOT sex. Contact, warmth, heartbeat, comfort.If you want just that and no sex PM us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I missed exactly this back when I was single. I missed having someone to hold, and feel them next to me in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shittest week I’ve had in ages so I really could be doing with a big squeezy hug but think of someone did hug me then my emotions would just take over, cry like a baby

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"Shittest week I’ve had in ages so I really could be doing with a big squeezy hug but think of someone did hug me then my emotions would just take over, cry like a baby

What if you felt safe an unjudged if you did? How good would that feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, touch is so vital. If all else fails, book a massage/spa day and let yourself be pampered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hug averse with people I don't know very well.

I find it awkward and far from comforting

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"I'm hug averse with people I don't know very well.

I find it awkward and far from comforting "

That's true too. If you know them * and trust them* is it different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm hug averse with people I don't know very well.

I find it awkward and far from comforting

That's true too. If you know them * and trust them* is it different?"

It all depends on the context really

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By *edp.e84Man
over a year ago

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"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I came out of a 10 year relationship a year ago and that one thing I miss the most ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an awkward hugger with people I dont know well. With the right people though, you cant beat a cuddle

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By *edp.e84Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I am an awkward hugger with people I dont know well. With the right people though, you cant beat a cuddle "

A morning cuddle in bed is just the best for me

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

"Yes i do.

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yeah I have that feeling all the time

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Hugs help us release oxytocin.. hormone of happiness so it's no wonder you miss them.

I know its bullshit and not a real thing but good intentions matter too.. so lots of virtual hugs your way.

I believe with a right fab friend.. hugs can be important part of the whole experience. It doesn't have to be completely stripped off some care!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling and pillow talk is as good as the sex.

Don't tell the guys I said that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling and pillow talk is as good as the sex.

Don't tell the guys I said that!

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

This is mostly the reason im on here . Im not bothered if i dont have sex with anyone.

spending the time hugging, touching,stroking,exploring is the part i like most.

Enjoyable encounters like this dont have to end with sex and is still very satisfying .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oo, when you're not being negative about stuff you post things like this.

Go dating, in the real work and not through apps.

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oo, when you're not being negative about stuff you post things like this.

Go dating, in the real work and not through apps.

You're welcome."

Well arent you fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oo, when you're not being negative about stuff you post things like this.

Go dating, in the real work and not through apps.

You're welcome.

Well arent you fun

Tough love.

But yes, I'm a fucking hoot. Thanks for asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I miss it then give meself a slap in the face and a talking to as I don’t need a man in my life

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"Yep I miss it then give meself a slap in the face and a talking to as I don’t need a man in my life"

I just spat my brew out xxx lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Now but sending a cyber hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I miss it then give meself a slap in the face and a talking to as I don’t need a man in my life

I just spat my brew out xxx lmfao"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is mostly the reason I'm on here.

I'm not bothered if I don't have sex with anyone.

Spending the time hugging, touching, stroking, exploring is the part I like most.

Enjoyable encounters like this, dont have to end with sex and is still very satisfying."

This

- SO this.

If I could do all the intimate fun stuff *except* fuck, then I'd be a happy bunny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hug a day keeps the doctor away

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop

"It's actually really sad - I dont have children or family so I rarely get hugs or kisses.

Fab is the wrong place to feel this needy

It's the only thing I miss about not being in a relationship.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

Yes. Very much so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touch me in the morrrrrning

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